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Monday, February 14, 2011

So, it's Valentine's Day..and guess what...I'm sitting at home by myself at 10 at night. Hubby has a REC basketball league tonight. Game's at ten. Crappy.

Did we do a flipping thing for Vday? No. I didn't get anything from him while EVERY teacher on my hallway got flowers or balloons or something delivered or even personally dropped off by their husbands. I mean COME ON! Our first Valentine's Day as a married couple...we had freaking left overs for dinner. Ate on the flipping couch while he played poker online. Then we got to watch a freaking romantic basketball game...then he just leaves to go to his basketball game. I mean I didn't expect anything big...but come on! NOTHING?!

Bah. It's so frustrating. I know he's not a romantic, and that's fine bc I'm not either. I was just hoping for something...anything...just a little attention and love on this Valentine's day. instead, I'm going to bed by myself.

Ok, Rant over. Sorry for the sidebar.
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    How does he feel about Valentines day? Maybe it means nothing to him, like many other people in the world. It's just a hallmark holiday, a reason for companies to make people to spend their money because society says we need to express more love for eachother on that day. Maybe he doesn't know that Valentines day means something to you? Talk to him.
    2588 days ago
    I can't help ya there... :") My hubby and I didn't do anything either. I really don't "do" the "Hallmark holidays" like sweetest day, or valentines day, or really much of the flowers and candy days. We've usually been broke, and it seems like they only want you to go to the stores and BUY BUY BUY or you will be THOUGHTLESS and HEARTLESS and just plain a bad person. :p Well, then I guess I am. lol
    Hubby didn't get jipped in the bedroom at least, but that was about all he got. :p hee hee!
    Hang in there... and next holiday you really feel the need to get something from him, then let him know you'd really appreciate it... and let him know exactly what you would LOVE to get. It would take the stress off him trying to read your mind and waste money on something that you just don't like anyway... Has Valentines day always meant so much to you? ...and why? ...does it mean the same for him??? Do you know?
    Hang in there, it sounds more like he didn't think much of this holiday, not that he doesn't think much of YOU. :)
    2589 days ago
    :( I'm sorry. Maybe tell him that that lucky for him, you consider "real" Valentine's day to be this coming Monday (the 21st) so he has a whole week to plan something spectacular?
    2589 days ago
    Hows about talking to him during a time when you are calm and the two of you are in a fairly good mood? Maybe he is unaware of how you feel. If that is the case, let him know how you feel (in a non naggy way, of course). Next year, give him a heads up on February 1 and 7 so that he is gently reminded that the two of you should do something special on Valentine's Day. Nothing elaborate. Something fun. Just not nothing.....
    2589 days ago
    I hope you mentioned your disappointment. It may seem obvious that he would know, but by that logic, he would have known beforehand. Do both of you a huge favor and let him know.
    2589 days ago
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