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Is my life turning around?

Thursday, February 10, 2011

I really feel like it is. First my relationship with my boyfriend has made a huge turn for the better after we broke up for a week. We realized we really do love each other and got back together and have been doing great since and even talk about having a family and spending the rest of our lives together.

Now today I just got a phone call offering me a great job, which of course I accepted! It's minutes from home and the pay is good so I can put a dent in that credit card and then work on my student loans. Oh yeah, I can also say good bye to working every Saturday! So not only is my personal life taking a turn for the better, but I can rest easy knowing that when we do commit to each other I won't be going into a marriage burdened with debt that I have to ask my husband to help me with.

I just cannot believe my luck, for the first time in years I really feel that life is looking up for me! The ironic thing is, none of this happened until I accepted the life that I had and make peace with it. When I realized my boyfriend might not love me and made peace with having to go back home to my parents and that I might not (at nearly 30) find a love again at least not one that I would start a family with, he told me that he really did love me and that he wanted to try and work things. We've been much happier since. And then I decided that maybe I was just going to work part-time and be poor my whole life but that it was ok because I was surrounded by people who love and care for me, BOOM! Job offer! Even better - all the decisions that I regretted lead up to me getting this job. I was so sorry I went back to school because of the debt, but during the interview they were so excited to see how much I valued education!

Sorry for long blog, but I'm just so happy now I haven't felt this way in ages! I don't know how long I was laughing and crying after I got that call, but I feel great - and BEST OF ALL - during all this stress (good and bad) I haven't turned to food ONCE and that's how it's staying! Personal, financial and physical health are all lookin' up from here!


Member Comments About This Blog Post:
LADYAMELIA 2/13/2011 9:03AM

    Congrats on the new job!

I'm glad things are going well for you. :-)

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LINWINAGAIN 2/11/2011 5:01PM

    (((((Carissa))))) so happy for you! It is not luck! it IS everything you have put into your relationship with your boyfriend and put into your job search and preparing yourself for the life you want! congratulations girlfriend, dreams do come true with a little (or lot) of hard work!

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MAIZEY 2/10/2011 10:22PM

    Be ceratin to take full credit for your accomplishments. You changed things up in your life, pieced together all of your efforts and experiences, and now you are on your chosen path! Woo Hoo! Celebrating for you!

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MUGGLE_MOM 2/10/2011 8:10PM

    Whoooo Hooooo!!!!!

I am so excited for you! I am happy that things are going so well for you. You deserve every single ounce of happiness!!!!


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LILACEOUS 2/10/2011 7:16PM

    Hang in there! There is a rhythm in the universe. Once you surrender to the flow, you slip right into the harmony... as you just documented above. Congrats and keep up the good work!

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