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Having a bad day!

Wednesday, February 09, 2011

Well it started off very good and went from bad to worse in a matter of minutes.LOL I was supposed to have lunch and grocery shopping with a friend today. I was really excited about this. Actually we were supposed to have coffee here first but that changed last night already. Well her daughter ended up needing to go to the doctor so we didn't get to go and do our thing today. I understand, just a little bummed out cuz I was really looking forward to getting out of the house some. This is supposed to be the weekend my son comes and stays with me also, for those of you who don't know he moved out about 2 1/2 weeks ago to live with his dad. Well now he wants to come on Friday and leave Saturday night. He pulled this the last weekend he was here too. He wasn't even here 24 hours. I drove to get him in a snow storm and he left the next afternoon. Normally this wouldn't bother me so much but with already being bummed out I am just having a really hard time dealing with this. I feel he doesn't want to spend the time with me at all. Am I over reacting, super hormonal, or what? It just doesn't seem fair. I know he was doing this stuff to his dad before he moved but I always tried to step in and diffuse the situation and make him understand he needed to think of their feelings too. I guess I just needed to get it all of my chest. I will see what his dad says when he calls and go from there. Right now I need to take advantage of my sleeping toddler and get some work done!
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CATANTIGO 2/10/2011 10:20AM

    I hope your day improves. But I can assure you, those boys do grow up. Teenagers are so confused by themselves, they can't always consider others. Don't take it personally. You're not doing anything 'wrong'. Hope your day gets better.

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DDHEART 2/10/2011 9:30AM

    Oh Nikki! I'm glad you have this place to kind of get it out...it is a total bummer but your son is a teenager....by definition, it is a time of total self absorption...in his mind, he's the center of the universe...try not to take it personally...like you said, he pulled the same stuff with his dad. If you make too much of it it just reinforces his behavior...maybe he is even trying to make his parents suffer for how unfair he thinks life is...if he only knew! Anyway, hoping today is a better day...dance with those little girls...they're at the age where they can shower you will lovin giggles...enjoy it!

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ANDREALSCOTT 2/9/2011 7:22PM

    I can completely understand getting bummed out about not getting out of the house. I enjoy my girlfriend/ child free time very much, it sucks when it doesn't fall through. Tomorrow will be better!

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