It has been demonstrated to me first hand that selfish people are best served by being unselfish. It was amazing lesson! You get more out of life by giving more to it! Love God above all, love others above yourself, and love yourself deeply. Whoever first said 'tis better by far to give than to receive' had it right. She or he must have read their Bible, 'cause it's all right there! Anyway, I give you these comments in hopes that they bring you goodness by offering confirmation of what you probably already knew. God bless!