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What Is It About Housework?

Friday, January 28, 2011

Why does housework seem like such a chore? Is it because it never really seems to be done? Is it because I've been doing it for so many years I can't remember not having to do it?

A couple of years ago my husband, my daughter and her husband, and I went on a cruise. It was so great having someone cater to my every need. Need something to eat? Go visit the 24 hour buffet. And no dishes to wash. Ready to go to bed? Open the cabin door to a turned down bed with the lights turned down low and a chocolate on the pillow. The sheets are clean & I didn't do the laundry. But, alas, I can't afford to go on a cruise all my life.

There are times when I am able to provide myself a clean, organized place to live. Just when I think I've set up the routines to allow this to be a continual habit, I slack off. The feelings of being overwhelmed by all the work that needs to be done to keep the house clean and organized returns.

I know from several tries at Flylady how important doing a concentrated 15 minutes of work can be. I've proved it to myself. I know how important setting up routines and following them can be to reducing stress. So why do I keep running a muck?

Argh!
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CTUPTON 1/30/2011 11:54AM

    I never was organized--the fatigue made that impossible. But then.. my husband had a bad stroke! that was in 2006, end of March. I was now responsible for all of his stuff AND all of mine. His brother was a gigantic help and the people I worked with. I was very dependent on others. I was in an impossible situation: he was disabled, I had to prepare and sell our (rather large) home, find a place to move to, etc. I would not wish this on anyone. We had no family close and my daughter (28) also has fibromyalgia and was not much help to me.

I put out the word that i needed help-and I even asked someone to be my "secretary" because I was unable to schedule tasks when people wanted to help me. I work full time as a teacher.........thank god for summer vacations!

i have survived. We are in a beautiful, simple condo. the basement is full of boxes from the other house. I just close my eyes to it. I spend most days (when not teaching) doing chores and paperwork. And I have to take naps almost daily.

It isn't perfect. My husband is in a motorized wheelchair. He can be left alone while I work, but someone has to help him get up and go to bed, BM toileting, and make his meals. He has a good sense of humor and keeps me laughing. I get out mostly to work and grocery shopping. Sometimes I go to a restaurant with a friend. It is a pretty simple life. My teaching job is quite challenging (handicapped teenage students with IEPs and lots of documentation to do).

I AM NOT BORED. NO WAY! NO HOW! Two years till retirement. These damn health problems make things tough. I count my blessings often. And thank you all for sharing your triumphs and struggles with me. Blessing to you all! Chirs

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GRAMMACATHY 1/29/2011 6:56PM

    Especially when the fatigue sets in. It is so hard to do anything and then we get further behind. The two strategies that help me the most are to set the timer and get up every ten minutes to put ten things away. That way I don't feel overwhelmed by the whole process.

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KALIGIRL 1/29/2011 6:09PM

    I guess it's the way we look @ it - I'm not a housework or grocery shopper lover either, but after the kitchen was remodeled I'm finding myself enjoying more of both.
Here's to you finding a way to enjoyment!

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HUNNNYBEE 1/29/2011 6:51AM

    You know...your words really hit home for me! I used to be VERY organized, but as I'm getting older, I'm finding it more difficult to stay that way!

Maybe I've accumulated more clutter...so I'm slowly getting rid of the unnessesary 'stuff' in my house.

Maybe I've accumulated more clutter in my mind too! Doing my best to straighten that up too! :D

It's a good feeling....cleaning things out!

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BLESSEDBEING 1/28/2011 10:31PM

    I hear you, sister! As you may know from some of my blogs and messages, my home--or rather the clutter and disorganization in my home--is my biggest struggle and source of dissatisfaction. I'm currently researching how to start and lead a team, so that I can launch the Babysteps Brigade I spoke of in my first Conquer Clutter Campaign blog.

I have a long road ahead, and I'm not as confident about my ability to reach the end as I am with my weight and fitness goals. But I'm counting on some babystepping buddies to help me on the journey. Best of luck to us both!

Blessed Be, Amanda

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GUMMIBRCHN 1/28/2011 9:54PM

    I actually enjoy cleaning the house.... at least once I get started. That tends to be the hardest part for me. I enjoy the feeling of accomplishment once the house is clean and organized. It makes my whole life feel more pulled together. I think it'll become easier after a while. Don't give up. emoticon

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FRIDA11 1/28/2011 9:34PM

    I find it more fun doing other peoples home
or with other people
Being on a cruise the rest of your life...
Doing nothing and eating and eating and even getting a piece of chocolate on the bed at sleeping time..
I think 2 things will happen..
1. Being bored like hell
2. Getting real fat and the doorways must be made wider
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Maybe a stepcounter can give more motivation
Or in stead of establishing routines doing things completely different - like eating dinner in the morning and taking a picnic in the forest and pinting pictures on some of the walls or having one of those funny bent mirrors in each room emoticon

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