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Sunday, January 16, 2011

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    Love it! You're absolutely gorgeous, already a hot mama! Congrats on your little boy and don't beat yourself up too much for the weight, what's important is you're here and changing it! I am so happy for you and to see you here - emoticon
    2595 days ago
  • MIBELLALUNA finally loaded! You'll do great and Ihave to agree with Admsdoll..your already beautiful! :)
    2595 days ago
    Hey! Yay well done, it took ages for me to be able to watch it but it worked this time and I'm very proud of you. You were really open and brave and I don't know whether I could be so brave. You are a beautiful person already but I totally get what you mean about wanting to look in the mirror and look the way you feel. I really believe that you'll succeed and I'm here cheering you on every step of the way! x
    2595 days ago
    WOW!!! You have gorgeous eyes! Honey you are hot! Every woman is. When i was your age i felt the same way. I still struggle with self confidence, but you know what my favorite quote is "be your own kind of beautiful". Everyone out there has something beautiful about them. Find your something right now and accept it. Once you can accept that one thing move on to another and you know what it will snowball from there. I started with my lips, I LOVE my lips, so I played them up for a whole 3 months while i was of course eating healthy and exercising. Then I noticed that my DD boobs were quite an assett, LOL, so i played them up. Still while living healthy.....finally today i can look at my whole body in the mirror. Sure it's not great, I've had 4 kids got the stretch marks to prove that, but they are getting lighter and smaller as i tone up. Sure my arms are still bigger than what i want them to be, but when i flex I see the sexy definition in them...blah blah blah...LOL, confidence doesn't happen over night. My first husband left me when our daughter was 3 weeks old, I was only 20. I know exactly how you feel! I also know that there is a man out there who will love you for you. I found my man, he loves me for me. Just a week ago he even shaved my head for me, gave me a mamahawk, said I'm beautiful no matter what. Also, he says that I can be any size as long as i have the confidence to back it. Thats what men look for is confidence in a woman. So you may not be supermodel thin, but hey if you rock that little nighty, black dress, sweat pants etc...basically if you can rock his world thats all they care about. LOL!!! Your goals, EVERY single one of them is totally doable. I'm saying it is because I've been in your shoes. Now I'm 30, married, 4 kids, in a size 10 not a size 16 unbuttoned LOL and I have confidence to boot. It's doable. Hang in there your gonna be dazzling, even though you already are!
    2595 days ago
    Yay! It uploaded finally. Glad you got it to work. I had to grin about the sideways video. I did the same thing with my intro vlog with my iPod touch. I ended up redoing the vlog holding the iPod sideways. I like the fact you uploaded yours the way you filmed it. I should have left mine sideways too. emoticon

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    2595 days ago
    Hey! Nice to meet you!
    2595 days ago
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