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A very sad time for me!!

Friday, December 10, 2010

My mom passed away quietly in her sleep Wednesday (around 5 am cst) She had been suffering for altzheimers and that is probably the cause. I haven't been sleeping. I haven't been eatting and as of this writting no tears.
I along with my siblings made arrangements and the funeral is set for Monday.
I also have not worked since Monday,,,,,,,I am going to go to work on Sunday and I will see how that goes!

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MEADSBAY 5/3/2011 7:47PM

    How strange that I came across this blog on what would have been my dear mother's birthday- her 84th- she died at the young age of 80 and I still miss her.
Sorry about your mother.

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CHRYS13 2/21/2011 7:34PM

    I am so sorry for your loss!
I pray that you find strength and peace....

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    It sounds so feeble to say sorry for your loss at such a tragic time for you and yours. But that's all they teach us to say. I pray you will have a comforting grief for your loss, and that your personal pain will pass quickly. Love and hugs, B

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RAINBOWFALLS 1/15/2011 7:56AM

    My mother also had altzheimers and we had to put her in a home in the state my brother lives in because NY has a waiting list forever long. I was going to go visit and she died that week. It was all very sad. It is such an awful disease and also hard on us. Take care.

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WARMSPRINGDAY 1/12/2011 6:26PM

    I feel your pain!!!
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My mom died in August of 2010. I know exactly what you are saying and want you to know I care.

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KAT7457 1/12/2011 4:18PM

    I am so sorry for the loss of your mom. I also loss my mom back in 1970 when I was 13 and it is still hard at times for me to deal with I am glad to h ave you on the team lost a loved one. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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GRAMMACATHY 1/12/2011 1:22PM

    It is so hard losing a loved one no matter how ill they were, especially around the holidays. May the good memories bring you comfort. I am sending condolences and love.
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SAL1512 1/3/2011 4:18PM

    So sorry for your loss. . . Welcome to the Grief and Loss team. You will find that we are there for your support.

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JESSEJ36 12/21/2010 10:29AM

    Hi - I am sorry for your loss. My mom died on 12/8/99 - This time of year is still sad for me. Getting through Christmas that year was awful and I always feel a little lonely every Christmas now. What helps me most is good friends and knowing that I had a great mom. I teach high school and daily I see that not all moms are great and loving but mine was and I can give daily thanks for that and also that I had her til I was 43. Hugs Susan

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TRACYL48 12/19/2010 8:22AM

    Sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you for God's comfort and strength at this difficult time. emoticon

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FITN2014-TSP 12/18/2010 1:30PM

    Very sorry to hear about your loss.

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SOAPNUT 12/16/2010 5:56PM

    emoticon emoticon So sorry to hear of your bad news. Take one day at a time and take care of yourself. Your Mom is at peace now.

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PJCHILIS 12/15/2010 8:56AM

    I'm thinking about you. Remember your good times.

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ELLDEE57 12/13/2010 5:42PM


My thoughts are with you during this time. At some point the sadness will be less and the good memories will help you.

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ZANBALL 12/13/2010 10:47AM

    I'm very sorry for your loss! My mother passed away on 10/2 the same way - Alzheimers probably the cause. I understand your sorrow not only for your loss this Wednesday but for the much earlier loss of your mother as you knew her.

I'll you keep you and your family in my prayers. Some say time heals all. I think time doesn't so much heal as it makes our loss easier to bear. I hope the good memories sustain you and cheer you, and, as a poet said:

"When you look up into the heavens tonight
Think of them not as stars
But as porch lights
Welcoming your loved one home"

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BONNIE627 12/13/2010 7:34AM

    I am so sorry for your loss.. mom is one of the hardest people to lose..our prayers are with you and your family.

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SUNNYGAL2011 12/13/2010 12:36AM

    So so sorry for the loss of your precious Mom. You and yours are in my prayers~ My God somehow comfort you and your family during this time.. emoticon emoticon

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GOHUSKERS2 12/12/2010 1:20PM

    Very sorry for your lose. emoticon

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SLIMMERJESSE 12/12/2010 10:20AM

    I understand your pain. Having lost many loved ones this year, there is so much sadness in my heart. I am sorry to hear of your loss.

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LOVESLIFE48 12/12/2010 10:09AM

    I'm so, so sorry for your loss. emoticon emoticon emoticon

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ESMERM 12/11/2010 11:01AM

    I am very sorry for your loss.

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ELLENS2525 12/11/2010 7:29AM

    I am so sorry to hear this news! May the good Lord give you strength... I lost my Mom 10 years ago and I still feel the loss. You may never completely get over it but you will feel her with you. The best thing you can do for your Mom's memory is to take care of yourself and be as healthy as you can. God bless you and your family.

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ELAINESHAFF 12/10/2010 7:46PM

    I am so sorry for your loss. Remember the good times.

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BECKYANNE1 12/10/2010 5:58PM

    I'm so sorry. Losing a parent is so hard especially at this time of the year. We will keep you and your family in our prayers.

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VEGASLADY24 12/10/2010 4:09PM

    emoticon I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom unexpectedly the day after Christmas in 1999 but seems like yesterday. My prayers are with you and your family. emoticon

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SWEETYKINS012 12/10/2010 1:35PM

    i'm so sorry for your loss. emoticon

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MYLIDDLEDALLAS 12/10/2010 1:11PM

    emoticon I'm so very sorry. emoticon

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FLGIRL1234 12/10/2010 12:46PM

    Wish I could give you a hug right now. Will you settle for a virtual one? emoticon
I am thinking of you and praying you have all the support you need during this time. We are all here for you!

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AMYLOVESTZU 12/10/2010 12:37PM

    YOU WILL BE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.. emoticon emoticon emoticon

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DOODIE59 12/10/2010 12:26PM

    I am very sorry for your loss. Remember to be as kind to yourself as possible these coming months.

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SWEETLIPS 12/10/2010 11:58AM

    I am so sorry about your loss. Grieve for as long as you need to. This is part of a poem that I wrote for my best firends' Mom sunset. I hope that it brings you comfort.

Though I cannot feel the touch of your hand,
Or walk with you upon this land,
Yet I know you are here
And I will always feel you near
Have the sweetest of dreams,
my sweetest of heart,
and know that even when away,
we are never apart.
So I whisper your name, tonight Momma
As our journey was extraordinaire.
To wish you sweet dreams and good night in the air

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KNGKEV33 12/10/2010 11:57AM

  i am sorry to here about your mom . Just know she has no more suffering days and she is in a place with gold streets and bright days everyday. Know you need to do whats right for you and eat something and further more pray and rejoice in her going even though its sad be happy that SHE IS IN THE HANDS OF THE MOST HIGH .. You will be in my prayers .

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ANNONYMOUSME 12/10/2010 11:54AM

  I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers and thoughts to you and your family during this difficult time.

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