Once again my too fragile ego has taken a "tweak".
I won't call it a bruise because that would give power to the insignificant person doing the punching.
Why do I feel so much rage towards a total stranger - a jerk who has made her way into the SP family and wants to dominate all aspects of the operation?
I've mixed well into the different groups - religious, non-religious, young, old, fast, slow.
Why? because we respect each others uniqueness. We accept others and give kudos to people we would probably never associate with in "real life".

We are all unique, great, wonderful human beings. Why would I let one unhappy rude member have the power to sink my self confidence into the black hole that is her life?

You know those extremists who blow themselves up just to destroy a group of people who have different beliefs than they do? They aren't brave. They are crazy cowards.
I don't go to church, but when I see protesters outside a religious building holding signs and spewing insults, I feel embarrassed for them.
Yes, what has happened to respect?
Although i'm not a member of any religious organization, I want to say, "may the supreme intelligence to which you bow give you back the self respect you seem to have lost". amen.

P.S. I hope this same person doesn't join e.b.a.y. and then sneer at people trying to sell stuff. Her goal seems to be "join a group then try to chase everybody away and if they don't leave - try name calling."
yah, i'm feeling angry right now. I don't like being labeled.