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Angio scheduled

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Well I wanted surgery this August .BE careful what you want. I am not getting my knee done on the 9th it has been pushed back until Sept 27th. I am having surgery on the 4th. I have to have an Angioplasty with a possible stint and an over night stay in the hospital away from my four legged family.The doctors office got the referral today and got me in immediately. Had another EKG and a echo sonagram.This doctor is nice and did a complete history.
Hubby insisted on driving me.What a disaster. We stopped for gas which I had to pay for and he pulled away from pump while still hooked up. It is gonna cost him to replace gas hose. Owner said he'd install it and for go the huge cost of installation.Of course it is my fault even though I wanted to be calm and go alone. I got screamed at for close to an hour. It was my fault he forgot because I told him to clean HIS cars windows.Male logic! He took wrong turns and almost crashed a few times he was so shaken, but I couldn't drive he was doing me a favor! When we got to the doctors I didn't let him go in with me. He is furious but I was better off without him there. I am trying to call in favors to have anyone else drive me to the hospital next Wednesday. I am hoping to get Bill to go with me. At least he doesn't drive me crazy and he doesn't harp on me.Sometimes quiet is a blessing.
My oldest is again employed. He is doing custom paving jobs in the Monterey area. I hate how beat up his body gets doing construction type work but he has a pay check and it is full time, four days a week.Something for now to cover the rent and pay for food.
After this procedure they may change a lot of my medication. I told the doctor it takes two weeks for my meds to come by mail order. If I fill locally it cost so much more. I suggested just a 2 week supply that I might be able to afford. He told me knee surgery is elective and I told him not according to my neurologist or ortho surgeon, not if they want me to stay up on my feet.If he puts down elective it could mess up my coverage by medicare.
Got a new replacement washer for the one that broke last week. Going to be fun catching up on everything. I gave in and covered half the cost. I out right paid for the other one. Do any of you married ladies have to buy your household items? I think he is just being a jerk.
Really tired but wanted to touch base with all of you.
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PINDOC 7/31/2010 10:59PM

    Praying for a great surgery where all goes exactly as planned and you wake up feeling better than ever!

I'm sorry that your "DH" isn't being so "D". I'm so grateful that your son has work again. Construction work is harder to come by, still, but it pays decently.
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MTNGRL 7/30/2010 2:53PM

    So glad you have the surgery scheduled. I will be keeping you in prayer. I hope your friend Bill will be able to drive , you don't need any more drama! Hugs!

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JAZZIELORI 7/30/2010 10:24AM

    Good luck on your surgery and I am too a believer that what you wish for you will get even if you are not ready for it. I wonder if your hospital has a taxi program. My mother usually goes to the hospital in an ambulance and when she is ready to go home the social worker gives her a cab voucher..it is worth looking into...Holly I have had an ex who said to me everything is my(me)fault and even when it's his fault it's still my fault.. emoticon when i read your post a saw some good luck has come to you ie. washer..Honey just thank God and let the good things come to you because they will as you see in your surgery date!
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VAMPS351 7/30/2010 10:19AM

    Good luck with your surgery holly.
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ENUFF81020 7/29/2010 11:52PM

    Hi Holly,

I think you are doing the right things. I'm sorry about the dumb car thing and the yelling, but getting your heart taken care of is too important tolet go. Joint replacement surgeries are always considered elective and Medicare knows that. You can continue to live without having a joint replaced--although the quality of life surrounding that lack of choice will stink, they still condsider it elective. The doctors--rather their insurance people--know how to write up the paperwork to get it paid for (because that is what they want!) Don't worry over that. Instead, keep praying and taking care of yourself the best that you can. That is what you need--eat healthy, get enough sleep, get your exercise in.... Do what you really need so that you can handle the important things coming your way.

I'll keep you in my prayers. Take care of yourself!!
Gentle hugs,
Sylvia

Oh yes, about finances--my husband and I have a joint account. We put all of our pay into it and pay all of our bills out of it--and we cry together when there is nothing left. We make our purchases together too. that is just the way we have always done things, He is good to me, but he works too hard and too many hours. I always wish he were here more, especially to help me with the boys now that they are growing/ grown up. It's a little bitty thing in the spectrum of things and I wouldn't trade him for anything. emoticon

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ANSING 7/29/2010 11:19PM

    Good luck on your surgery.
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NELLIEC 7/29/2010 11:00PM

    When I was married I didn't have to pay for those household items.

I am continuing to pray.

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2BEHEALTHYAGAIN 7/29/2010 10:07PM

    I agree with Echo about the 2x4!!! I'm very fortunate, my husband spoils me rotten!! I learned early in our marriage to watch commenting on things that I liked or I would get them whether I really needed/wanted it or not! A HUGE difference from my first husband. Although my husband isn't quite as bad in the driving YET, I sometimes cringe when riding with hubby--sure glad he is no longer driving 18-wheelers!!

You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us updated, and don't hesitate to vent when needed!!

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GOOZLEBEAR 7/29/2010 9:52PM

    I am sorry too that your hubby is being such a jerk to you instead of giving you the support you need at this time. I hope you are able to get your knee surgery and that all goes well. Keep your chin up. I will say prayers for you too. emoticon

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NPA4LOSS 7/29/2010 9:41PM

    I have been happily single the last 15 years. I hope that you can have someone calm take you to the hospital as it will make your surgery easier to deal with. My prayers and thoughts are with you! emoticon

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TRY2KEEPGOING 7/29/2010 9:38PM

    Rott--I hope all goes well for you. Hope the angioplasty goes as planned so you can go ahead and get your knee fixed. Sounds like you have a lot of extra stress dealing with your spouse in addition to your other physical issues. I am sending you some peace and joy.

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KATHYGBENNETT 7/29/2010 9:31PM

    I will be praying for you.

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ECHOBLUE1 7/29/2010 9:26PM

    Quite a harrowing experience. carry a 2x4 in your purse and whack him. Sorry, he is a jerk. One day you will be free of all that stress. Want to have you sail through each one of the medical problems and get put back together. Hugs, Echo

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