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Feeling negative

Saturday, July 24, 2010

OK so for every one thing that I feel negative about, I'm gonna try for a positive.... ready set GO!

Negative #1 - I'm poor. I had to mooch groceries off of my boyfriend tonight. It was humiliating even though I know he doesn't mind. I still don't have a decent pair of summer sandles and my black pants that I have to wear at work have a hole. Since I can't afford cloths I'm thinking I have to patch the $10 pants I got from Target.

Positive Response - You only feel poor because you have less money than you did 5 years ago. Compared to most of the rest of the world you are rich. You can afford anything you want, justs not EVERYTHING you want. You can't afford new clothes because you choose to go out for breakfast once a week with your nephews, and that's OK. You are rich in that you have a loving boyfriend and famliy that are there to help you when you are a little short and that you have done the same for in the past when the situation was reversed.


Negative #2 - I'm 29 and still no signs of having a family of my own or even a wedding for that matter.

Positive Response - You DO have a family and a great one! You're parents, sister and nephews live within 20 minutes and you can see them whenever you want. When I show up I am knocked onto my feet by two little boys yelling "AUNTIE AUNTIE" and have nothing but love for me. My parents and I are on great terms and can spend the enttire day just talking and laughing. My boyfriend loves me and when we get right down to it, a piece of paper and an expensive party won't change things a bit. We have each other and that's all that matters!

Negative #3 - The world is going to hell in a handbasket and things are only going to get worse. The economy will not recover and I'll never have a career. I'll be a college graduate with a 4.0 GPA and make $10 an hour with a debt that will never dissapear. Meanwhile, the planet will slowly die around me as the oil spills, greenhouse effectt and privitizatino of every resource including drinking water destroys all of our resourcse.


Positive response - You can't control these things, but you can control yourself. Recycle, save what money you can, apply for the jobs you can, and just do you're own personal best. I'm healthy and young and anything can happen.

Ok I feel a little better now. #3 is still a toughy though, I hate feeling helpless and that's what #3 is all about.

Be like the cat. Shut your eyes to the world and just CHILL OUT!
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    I like that you countered each negative with a positve!
    2770 days ago
    I like how you think though the negatives to come up with a positive! emoticon

    These ARE trying times for everyone...the world is going to heck in a handbasket but you're right...the only thing we can control is ourselves and how we deal with it.

    You do have family, friends, a significant other, and SP. Continue to set and reach your goals. Keep getting that resume out there and eventually someone's bound to snap you up!

    emoticon emoticon of luck on landing a better job one day!
    2770 days ago
  • FITKAT2010
    Congratulations! You are seeing some challenges here. How else are we to find answers that make us better, more loving people?

    What do you think your life would be like if you had the ability within you to find solutions to each and every challenge instead of simply positive thinking patching?? Wouldn't that, the Truth actually, turn your life around?

    Take your financial situation and find solutions. Every problem has an answer contained within it. An answer that makes you stronger as a person standing upright.

    It's wonderful that you have others to rely on. It's also true that you can handle all this on your own and simply enjoy those people.

    The key element in what I hear you say is that you are feeling sorry for yourself. This is quite common. I also do this. Then I slap myself awake and turn things around.

    It isn't the world that makes situations in your life. It is each one of us that makes the world.

    Change your life, change the world.
    2770 days ago
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