Ok my food is healthy i have been able to do a little exercising and I have lost some weight, but I am having other issues. I don't really want to get into all that here but i have relationship and financial issues and really do not know what to do. The sad thing is that I cant tell anybody what is going on. The other party has a decision to make before i can do anything or say anything. It is driving me mad to not be able to talk to anyone. I do feel some better by writing this