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Tuesday, June 29, 2010

I just found out that settlement for the (as) very sort sale of my and my 'Y's (almost a Ex but not quite yet) marriage home is delayed for another month or two. I really want to get this over and done.
We bought the really cute little cottage with all the love, dreams, and ambitions in the world and spent / threw away loads of time and money to make it our home; but it was all for naught.
Now all is soured. The house is in veritable ruins, as is our marriage. I've done everything I could to save both and HE has done everything he could and more to save the house. He's living there and I moved away and have an apartment about a mile away. At present, house is a sad white elephant that's a constant reminder of what might have been. . . it breaks my heart all over again just to think about it. Of course the past cannot be reversed BUT, no matter how I try not to, I way too often revisit like a tongue to a sore tooth.
It's easy to say What Will Be Will Be, but it's NOT SO EASY to live it.
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DEBHAPPY2B 7/3/2010 5:07PM

    Scary how close my situation is to yours--a ruined relationship with an ex-fiancee left me with a foreclosure this year. What a mess. You just want it to be over, but it takes forever. I still hurt when I drive past the old (beautiful, renovated, 4 acres that take 2 hours to mow, too expensive) house. Hang in there, that's all we can do.

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LIFEISAJOURNEY 7/2/2010 11:48AM

  ... and this, too, shall pass. You have choices; you can choose to be bitter or you can choose to be better! I chose to be better; you will, too. I wish you peace and strength as you move through this setback. Look not to survive, look to thrive.

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KIM_POSSIBLE77 6/29/2010 9:01PM

    Sorry to hear that you hit a bump in the road to recovery. I know how important it is to get that last "problem" out of the way. Keep going and don't let this bring you down.
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3CULLA3 6/29/2010 8:48PM

    I keep thinking that one of these days things should get easier,...and probably they will, but then again with my set of family and friends I will never be bored! Drama exists all around me, so much that I haven't needed TV for 20 yrs! If it is not me suffering then it is someone close and yes we are occasionally the makers of the beds we lie in, but that doesn't make it hurt less. This life is not easy but neither is it boring! If you are bored you need to get out and talk to people, there are some amazing people out there! That includes you sarah! (I mean that you are amazing!) Hang in there things are bound to change and who knows what is around the corner? Sherry

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RAYLINSTEPHENS 6/29/2010 4:18PM

    No, it isn't easy.

I am so sorry your world is turned up-side-down right now.

I hope the settlement goes through soon.

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LADYIRISH317 6/29/2010 4:01PM

    I'm sorry for the delay. Hopefully it's just a very temprary setback.

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STRONGERLEANER 6/29/2010 2:18PM

    Sorry you're going through this. It can't be easy to deal with these types of delays.

Wishing you peace, strength, and hoping that things will be simpler from now on.
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