You're right, and I do realize that now. But your personality is what should draw a guy to you, not your looks. I believe that looks will fade far more quickly than a personality. And now that I really think of it, I do see how a person can change because I had a sister who went through a major change of personality. But, it's getting you to think that a guy shouldn't be attracted to only your looks, it should be what's inside that counts.
Ah, to be young again and worry about homework. I would love to have to do an essay about anything. My problem would be stopping. I still make lists every night of the things I need to accomplish the next day so I don't forget and I cross them out as I go along. It makes me feel productive as well as proves to myself and husband that I really am. Also, while your book has some good points; some people do change their personalities after they get married. Most of my husbands buddies who are married are miserable because their wives turned into Witches (putting it mildly) and he was totally afraid that I would too; however I believe that marriage should mean two people add to each others lives so we still have our Independence as well as our Togetherness. Great Vlog.