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It's a boy...and other life-changing events!

Wednesday, April 07, 2010

When things change in my life, it's never just one or two little things. It's HUGE changes, wether I initiate them, or someone else does. Here are some of the things that have been going on in my life the last 2 weeks (caution, some explicit female issues right at the beginning here, not for the squeamish)...

I haven't had a period since mid-February. I was on a 2-month cycle of Provera, because of heavy/prolonged bleeding, and it was making my period last even longer than the normal 11 days I usually get stuck with. Doctor had me taking the Provera on days 14-24 of each cycle. The problem is that the Provera made me start my period again on day 21 of each cycle! This means that I bled for 14 days, had 7 days off, then bled for another 14 days, had 7 days off again. You can see how this might not be so fun, right? So I stopped taking it on day 21 of the 2nd cycle, when I realised that I was once again starting my period a week early. My period stopped, and has never restarted. I took a pregnancy test a couple of weeks ago and it came back negative, but still no monthly visit. I don't think it's menopause, because my sister is going through the exact same thing, and she also took the provera for 2 months & then stopped. Provera = messed up hormones... So I'm just enjoying not having a T.O.M. for a while!

We took a day trip to Oregon the day before Easter with Jim's 16 yr old daughter Kiersten to meet his 18 yr old daughter Aleia. Aleia did not know we were bringing Kiersten, we surprised her. The girls had so much fun getting to know each other, and Jim and I loved watching them. We took a few pictures, and I will post some of them later tonight. The trip was a blast, even though I didn't get any sleep for 2 days - up at 5:30 Friday morning, worked all day & all night, drove to daughter's Saturday morning, spent the day, drove back and got home and into bed at midnight Saturday night. I was pooped, but it was worth it! And Kiersten spent the night on our sofa, our dogs loved her!

Jim also has a 20 year old son, Matt. He has been trying to locate him for the last 6 years, but his mom did a disappearing act a while back and child support enforcement has been unable to assist (Jim had a terrible caseworker, but the new caseworker has been very helpful). He finally found Matt on MySpace last week, and sent him a message. They've been talking, texting and emailing for about a week now. So in 7 months we went from no contact with his kids to having contact with all three! Ages 16 (this month), 18 and 20...wow! I haven't met Matt yet, but am looking forward to him being a part of our lives.

I've been having a hard time committing to my exercise routine, what with my busy schedule and my emotional excitement. Seems like I just want to sleep instead! So last Thursday I dropped my car off at the Dodge dealership for an oil change, and walked the 2.5 miles to work. I loved it, and am now walking to work in the mornings and home at night, at least 3 times a week. It's 3.56 miles round-trip, so it's a great way for me to get my cardio in. It's taking me around 29-30 minutes each direction (except when I have to wait for a train or for a light to change). I really enjoy the time to myself, and I don't have to get up quite as early, I stay in bed an extra 20-30 minutes, which is wonderful!

Jim has been selected for management training with his company, he leaves for San Francisco on the 18th for a week. I'm really hoping to make a lot of changes around the house while he's gone, as he is very anti-change, but usually likes the results afterward. Things like moving furniture, painting, deep cleaning, reorganizing, etc. This training should also mean a raise for him after he gets back, I'm keeping my fingers crossed!

There you have it, some of the changes that have been affecting my life lately...
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  • PRESHA811
    That's a whole lot going on all at once! :)
    2533 days ago
  • TEKRU1
    Frankie - You may not be preggers, but new children keep arriving anyway! I'm so excited for you and your bf, getting his family back together and making a new one for both of you! Awesome!

    Keep in touch! emoticon We'll miss you!
    2840 days ago
    Keep up the good work walking!
    2841 days ago
    How exciting for you all!
    2841 days ago
  • MAGSA10
    emoticon Sure does sound like you have more than your fair share of life changes going on. I am glad that almost all of them are good for you and Jim. I hope you and your doctor gets the other monthly matter taken care of. Best to you and Jim and your now full life together.

    Maggie j. emoticon
    2841 days ago
    WOW! I guess when you go through changes, you make them big ones, :). That is so exciting for Jim and you to be able to know all three of his children. I hope you get to meet Matt soon! It sounds like your visit with Kiersten and Aleia was great, I am so happy for all of you!!!!

    It seems a lot of women I know are having difficulties with their monthly cycles. I was for awhile, and then I went on Yaz for a very short time, until I realized all the side effects, it did however seem to make my TOM more normal.

    That is awesome you are walking to work! It gets in cardio like you said, but for me walking also gives me time to myself to go through my thoughts and feelings. I have been doing great with my exercise, food however has been a down fall for me, :(. Although I watched BL loser last night and Jillian said, a few strict days, a few semi strict, and few to cheat a little. Well something along those lines, it is not an exact quote, lol.

    Glad you are back on SP, I have missed you, :). Have a great rest of the week. Sorry this is so long.

    2841 days ago
    OH...I so know wbat you are talking about at the beginning. I am so there with ya. I stopped taking it now doc said start again. It is driving me crazy! Isn't ig great being a woman! haha
    2841 days ago
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