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RETALEE

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Friday, February 26, 2010

DId i get a rude awaking by trusting one of my daughter she did all my banking and all financial matters she did so bad that i was homeless for awhile i felt so much pain sleepless nights it was not even the money or the house that we lost but its the betrayal i trusted my daughter with my life it was a eye opener for me.How do you stop loving your children when they hurt you. you stay awake all night trying to comprehend it i still wait for the phone to ring.
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  • HUGGERS1
    I cannot understand your situation completely as I do not have children. However, I have been helping my mom financially to find out that she has not been using her money wisely and has even treated us horribly and talked bad about me to her friends because I try to explain that she needs to pay her bills and not throw the money away. I love my mom very much but right now Satan has invaded her life and is making her ignorant to the hurt she is causing. I believe that this is happening to your daughter as well. Satan tempted her and she gave in to the temptation and now it is so difficult all around. Satan is the deceiver and breaker of families and it is only through time and prayer that we can overcome this deception. You will always love your daughter and it is because of this love that it hurts so much. If it was a stranger, you would be angry but the hurt wouldn't be as strong. I am praying for you and sending you virtual hugs knowing that even through this trial in your life God will provide you strength to overcome.

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    Amber
    2396 days ago
  • FLAMINGOLESLIE
    emoticon It hurts when one of our loved ones betray us (especially our children) but you never quit loving them! The Lord teaches forgiveness-just look how many times He has forgiven us. What if He hadn't? Praying for you-I know it hurts. My youngest son betrayed me many times ,but when he died by suicide the first line in his note was that I was the greatest woman there was. I never quit loving him and I will continue to love him until the day that I die even though he did what he did. It left me in great pain forever, but I can't imagine the pain that he must have been in. I guess sometimes people mess up so bad that they honestly think that nobody loves them anymore and that they would be better off dead because there is no way out. I will be praying for you and your situation! God bless!-Leslie emoticon
    2397 days ago
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  • MARTY19
    When we love our family, any betrayal breakes our hearts. I can't honestly say what I would do. I would hope I could build a bridge and get over it but I'm not sure. You are in my thoughts and prayers at this time.

    Marty
    2398 days ago
  • GRAYGRANNY
    Sweetie, so sorry for what you have gone through..........and we can be disappointed in what our children do but we love them unconditionally just as our Father in Heaven does. Best wishes going out to you to regain a normal life
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    2398 days ago
  • PIGGYS1
    you are in my prayers
    2398 days ago
  • TINAXX1
    oh honey really am sorry. we r all with u, ur in my tohoughts
    2398 days ago
  • CHUNKSTER63
    I am sorry to hear what you are going through but know that I am thinking of you and praying for you may God Bless.


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    2398 days ago
  • CRUZINCARIL
    this is a hard thing to happen to you. i wouldnt know how to handle it either..just trust your instincts and do what u think is right..we are all behind you..good luck
    2398 days ago
  • SUPREME5
    IT IS SO SAD TO THINK A DAUTER WOULD DO THAT TO HER MOTHER
    AND YOU NEVER QUIT LOVING A CHILD BUT I DO HOPE YOU CAN DO SOMETHING SO IT WOULNT HAPPEN AGAIN
    DORENE
    2398 days ago
  • CAROLFAITHWALKR
    Retalee I am so sorry for the betrayal by your daughter and loosing your house. At least you have the other daughter, is she still helping you? So sorry I know this must make your heart ache and I wish we were close I would give you a hug. I hope you press charges against the embezzling daughter (if that's possible and you can do that, legally).
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    2399 days ago
  • SUNNYDJ1971
    WOW! I am so sorry for your hurt. I am not even sure what to say. May God keep you close and watch out for you! You will be in my prayers.
    2408 days ago
  • MOMMA_BEAR_69
    You remain in my thoughts and prayers.
    Blessings and hugs,
    Helen
    2408 days ago
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