Thursday, February 25, 2010
After I got done writing yesterday - My son's paternal Aunt calls and proceeds to chew me out (we were school buddies). Placing all the blame on me -why they couldn't see my son - because I didn't trust anyone to watch him, etc.
Still don't in that family - seen how they treat the kids who whine - real hateful! Last visit here in 2004, they all came and also brought a cousin - she is also a child whose parents aren't together. So she whines, kinda shy timid, etc. because that's how she gets attention. They were all mean to her! They also didn't take very good care of my son when I allowed him to spend the night with them all in the Best Western. By the time I got to him the following morning - because I was waiting on a phone call to tell me to come with my daughter to swim in the pool - he had a stress fever - immediately gave him meds and stuck him in the pool!
I know my son is the one who is losing out - but I was willing bring his son for 2 days even when I didn't have the money. They don't have the money to come see him either.
Sorry - just really irritated - Heard the reason they didn't call every month because my son doesn't talk long - Well I don't take the phone away - They think it is because he doesn't know them. They haven't a clue!!!! Thank goodness I was never married to his father! They are also under the assumption that my son has wanted to see his father - not really - he would be there one day and want to come home to his familiar places. NO CLUE!!!
Now I have to figure out what to tell my son when his father passes.