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Thursday, December 24, 2009

This past year has been especially difficult. Early on, my precious Pocahontas died. She was my deaf "child" and as close to a baby as I'll ever have. I still miss her every single day.

The winter was pins and needles for my husband's job. He has been an engineer for General Motors for 30 years, but when it took bankruptcy, all bets on job security were off. He is still working, however, has taken a substantial pay cut. He says that job security still feels kind of "moment-to-moment."

I have had stomach issues for some time, and my health really deteriorated throughout the winter and spring of '09. After a number of tests, I had surgery. The surgery had complications, so I ended up spending part of the summer in the hospital. I have had countless x-rays, two CAT scans, an MRI, an endoscopy and a colonoscopy. The doctors still don't know why I feel nauseated and weak all the time. More tests are scheduled.

In the late summer, my father-in-law died. Although he and I were not especially close, I have known him since I was 15 years old. I am now 55. Watching my husband grieve this loss has been very difficult. He is the first-born son, and he and his dad were very close. Since his dad's death, my husband flies back to Kansas City to check in on his 80-year-old widowed mother on a regular basis. I'm happy that he is taking such good care of her, but I can tell that it is wearing on him.

As a result of all of the above, my husband surprised me with a winter vacation. We are leaving for the Sunshine State, Florida, tomorrow morning! I am delighted!!! This last year has been so difficult, and although we had a summer vacation scheduled, we didn't get to take it. We are both ready to get away from everything for awhile and bask in the warm sun. I am sooo looking forward to this! And I am so grateful to have such a loving, caring husband.

So, SparkFriends, since I don't know if I will have computer access for the next week, I may not be online until after the New Year. But know that I am with my wonderful husband getting some much-needed R & R. I am going to take this opportunity to wish all of you a happy holiday season and a Happy New Year!
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LEANNESLOSINGIT 12/25/2009 12:38AM

    What a wonderful husband - it sounds like he knows what a lucky man he is! You definitely deserve a break and I hope that you guys have a wonderful, WARM, Christmas and new year! emoticon

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MEOWMAMA3 12/24/2009 9:52PM

    You enjoy a well-deserved getaway! You've had a rotten spell and hopefully 2010 will improve things. My mom always called life's problems "bumps in the road" and some roads are full of potholes, but eventually, if you keep moving, the road levels out and gets smooth again. Thanks for being my SparkFriend! This experience has changed my life so much and everyone I meet is one more hand helping me maneuver my way toward being a better person and being able to enjoy life so much more. Anytime you need a shoulder, I've got big ones (like everything else on me!!! lol!) It is Christmas Eve and I hope you are relaxing in a sauna in Florida right now with a glass of wine and a sparkle in your eye! Enjoy, and Happy New Year! Hugs, Kim emoticon

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PATTYCAKE49 12/24/2009 9:49PM

    2009 may have been a stressful time, however, the new year is almost here with new expectations. Relax on your vacation given to you by your thoughtful husband and try to forget about all the stressors that have been in your life this year. Have a great New Year 2010. Hugs, Patty.

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SWIMLOVER 12/24/2009 12:19PM

  Have A Great Vacation! Enjoy the time with your husband.
Get rest but also have a really fun time! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! See you in the New Year!
GOD BLESS!
Louise

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NOMIS1 12/24/2009 12:04PM

    Sounds like you have a wonderful husband.
Enjoy your vacation.
Wishing you a good 2010 with a lot less stress and health problems.

Nomi

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