Saturday, December 19, 2009
brought all the stuff for zakariya´s birthday party but at the moment looks like no one once to come now because they are afraid to catch what ayman has as some of his friends celerbrate christmas and a couzple who don´t are going away on holiday and don´t want to be ill on holiday.can understand that but i am abit dissappointed with my sil who say´s she probably wont come with her 3 kids as she is afraid her 4 year old might catch what ayman has.normally i would also understand that but she persauded my husband to go and visit her son when he got to tunisia before going to visit his father his whole reason for going there.lotfi wanted to wait till the end of the holiday before going there as all the family was ill and he didn´t want to get ill to pass anything on to his father and also he didn´t want to be ill there.it didn´t matter if he got ill on the way back.but because she had some stuff she wanted him to give her son.so my husband being what he is and not liking to say no to family did just that.luckily he didn´t get ill from them.so using her own aguements i think she could come to the party or even leave the 4 year old with her husband and come with the two older kids.maybe i am just being unreasonable but this is zakariya´s first birthday party.he has either always been ill in hospital on his birthday or we were in tunisia as he was not yet in school so we could travel.now he is in school that is not the case.he is so looking forward to this party as it is his first either way i am determined to do a party even though it wouldn´t be the same with just us four but all the food i brought will go to waste,a friend suggested posponeing it to another day but as next week is christmas and the week after that new year his friends have visiters or are visiing family themselfs and know one has the time.so looks like itwill end up being a teaparty for us lot and the booty bags and stuff i have brought for them will just have to be given to the kids that were invited as it was.less work for me i suppose but still have to tidy the place up and get things ready as who knows maybe one of the people change their minds and come after all.so here is my list for today.
1#do bathroom right through including cupboards and shaelves.
2#do kitchen right through##goal met.
3#clean oven##goal met
5#make birthday cake (so i can decorate it in the morning)##goal met and even decorated,just finished,23.00 o´clock.
6#make over little cakes and biscuits##goal met
7#soak the hummus for the falafil##goal met and filafil mixture made.
8#clean living room##goal met
9#do dining room
11#do boys room##goal met
12#look out the party decorations##done but not put up.
13#wrap birthday presants and wrap the pass the parcle for the game.##goal met.
14#write a preperation list for tomorrow with time plan##goal met
15#still must finish the ironing which i havebeen planing todo all week
17#keep in calorie range.
18#do allthe other things that go with an ill child and housework.i.e cooking dinner,playing with them,changing nappies and so on so forth.##goal met.
am i right going ahead with the party even when there is just us?