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Thursday, November 19, 2009

I was very, very fortunate when I decided to try bridge. Not having much of a card background (only some rummy with dad and brother and sister when I was small -had a hard time hanging on to 13 cards in my tiny hands), I went into it with no idea of what to expect. It was a real eye-opener, the complexities of the game. I studied hard however, and took to it well. But no one in my class would join the bridge club and play in the games there. So I went in all by myself (story of my life). This lady who was directing the games and was responsible for finding partners for new people ended up playing with me. Somehow, she saw something in me while I was still a raw rookie and took to mentoring me and being a regular partner. Even when she brought me into the open games which she was criticized for doing when I was so new, she stood up for me and our results spoke volumes and silenced the critics. She taught me beyond the books. About being a good partner and table manners (which a lot of people should be observing). I owe my continued interest in bridge and a lot of my early successes to her mentoring. We never got to play in tournaments as she was retired from them by then, but I enjoy every chance I get to play with her in the club. I just hope I can be as sharp as her when I get to her age. Bridge is wonderful for keeping you mentally sharp. A lot of very elderly people play it right up until they are too infirm to come or have lost their vision.
If someone ever takes interest in helping you with a new interest or skill, absolutely take them up on it. A mentor is worth their weight in gold!
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BKWERM 11/20/2009 5:01PM

    I wish that you lived closer so that we could partner. I haven't played bridge since May because of ill health and a lack of partner. My last partner was pretty tolerant of my ill health but it even became too much for her when I had to cancel attending a bridge party because of not feeling well. I really need a partner who just wants/needs a partner on occasion so that I could play when I feel well.
SUNNYARIZONA 11/20/2009 12:48PM

    Funny you are joining a sit down game! BUT having fun is what it is all about.
Me, I have been eye-balling DANCING! SOME FORM....gotta find out how to do that....want it as another form of exercise!
SABLE77 11/20/2009 10:43AM

    Here Here, mentors are great people!
FLAWLESSCUBE 11/20/2009 6:29AM

    What a great story thanks for sharing, yes a Mentor can make all the difference.
WOLFSPIRITS 11/19/2009 10:11PM

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MDICROCE 11/19/2009 8:44PM

  Thank you for writing about the value of mentors. I think so many times we avoid situations because we don't know anyone -- we might be amazed at the new friends we make. So congratulations to you for being so brave and taking on something new!
MRSWIGGLY6 11/19/2009 8:16PM

    My mother likes to play bridge and I am shocked at how so many people don't play the game. She has been playing cards for a few years now and loves it.

I am glad you had someone to show you the ropes and break you in sort of speaking. I also heard that is does sharpen you mind as well.

Marilyn

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