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Saturday, November 07, 2009

Well today would have been my anniversary. We would have celebrated 23 yrs together. After being treated the way I have by the few guys I have met it makes me wish even more that I could be in that grave with my husband. He was such a great guy!! He treated me like I wass his queen. We had our share of arguments but he was always so kind and gentle towards me and the kids. This is one of those days that you dont want to get up or be concious for. I know how this sounds and yes I am depressed right now. Life can be very hard at times but my kids are always there for me and if werent for them I would not be here. am slowly learning that life does go on even when we dont want it too.

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HUMBLEDAISY 11/16/2009 10:12AM

So sorry to hear about your loss. But you are moving forward with life - don't think things like weight loss and exercise are vain things. These are important things in helping you move through grieving. They all still take a while, though.

DDOORN 11/7/2009 6:06AM

There's no doubt that you HAVE been through an emotional meat grinder and it makes SO much sense that your anniversary would stir things up SO much for you. You're finding out that no matter how difficult things are life still goes on. Sounds like in the future it could be helpful to make some plans to be around positive people, doing positive things during such difficult moments as your anniversary.

SO glad you're joining the fun on Sunday! :-)

Don

MARKDORENE 11/7/2009 4:55AM

sorry about your loss remember the good times

SPECLLDY 11/7/2009 4:17AM

I am sorry for your loss. I'm not sure how long it's been, but I was told by a therapist that it takes a good 5-6 years to complete the grieving cycle. Birthdays, anniversaries, holidays are the worst days. Take a few minutes on those days to remember the good times over those 23 years.
Also, remember one thing, you had 23 years with a wonderful man. That's something thousands of women in this world have never experienced, and it is hard to find a good man these days, but you at least have that to cherish and to smile back on.

ALBA06 11/7/2009 4:11AM

i'm sorry about your loss and i hope you will take a few minutes today to just remember the good and happy times and allow that to seep into your soul so you can feel some happiness. it is very hard to find a decent man. my dh and i have been together a very long time and he is wonderful and caring and generous and most of all he loves me regardless of all that is wrong with me. so i understand your depression but try and remember to think on the happy times. best wishes, melissa