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Tim's Grave

Sunday, November 01, 2009

I will be going with Tim's brother and sister-in-law to visit Tim's grave today. I have flowers to leave there. It's been a little over 5 months since his death but I still miss him. The holidays will be a bit lonelier as we went to Christmas and New Year Parties together.

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PICKIE98 11/2/2009 7:09PM

    IT is always touch-and-go the first couple years, but something will come along and help you to focus on a happy or new event!!
We do not forget, we just walk through, instead of stepping around it,, we are here to vent to,,

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SLIM.CHICK 11/2/2009 1:25PM

    I am sorry for your loss. Although you will find yourself grieving for Tim for quite awhile I hope you can also remember the good times and celebrate his life. emoticon

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CBIGELOW 11/2/2009 8:54AM

    My prayers are with you and your family during this hard time in your life. Just remember that you have us if you need anything.

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DEBBIEANNE1124 11/1/2009 6:27PM

    Bless your heart for remembering him.
Many good memories in the future will behold his heart.

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JGOLFER 11/1/2009 3:53PM

    Holidays are the hardest. Just take your time and find comfort in the memories. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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GMACAMI 11/1/2009 12:10PM

    My thoughts and prayers are with you.


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BELLACUDDLES 11/1/2009 10:16AM

    Holidays usually are the hardest I think......there are just so many wonderful memories, Patricia......I am praying you are well and remembering all the good times.


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1951SHY 11/1/2009 10:16AM

    I lost my husband 4 years ago and its still so very painful. But I have done as he asked and began a new life. I still talk to him and he answers, not with words but other ways. I will always love him.But I have made room in my heart for a new love and a new life. Give yourself time. If you want to talk e-mail me. We are all here for you.

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DDOORN 11/1/2009 9:17AM

    Cherish your memories...give yourself permission to honor his memory by setting aside some time with pictures and other things you may have to remind you of him. Put him in a chair beside you and imagine how a conversation might go with him. I'll bet you can hear his reply to anything you might have to say to some ways you KNOW he is still by your side...!


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SUNNY332 11/1/2009 8:43AM

    Bless your heart. I hope all went well. Grief takes time and is different for people so take your time and don't rush the process. Hugs, Sunny

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ONEKIDSMOM 11/1/2009 8:33AM

    Prayers for your upcoming holidays. May the happy memories of times past comfort you in the absence of your Tim, and your grief over his loss bring you closer to others who share it.

It takes time, allow yourself that blessing. The first year I lost my mom, I didn't feel much like doing the usual holiday things, and had a discussion with a friend who lost her daughter that same year. We talked about "keeping" Christmas, rather than "celebrating". Preserving that holy feeling, celebrations returned in later years.


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LINDA! 11/1/2009 6:53AM

    So sorry!! Sending positive thoughts to you & prayers.

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JAZZIELORI 11/1/2009 5:39AM

    Sorry for your's and anniversary's are the worst..I know I've lost 2 prayers go out to you and your family..

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MRE1956 11/1/2009 5:36AM

    My thoughts are with you at this time. It's true that the first holiday season is the toughest to deal with. I lost my mom in Sept. so this will be my first one without her. Please be gentle with and take care of yourself.


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    You will be in my thoughts and prayers. This is my first holiday season without my true love, my hubby passed 7 weeks ago. If you want to talk please feel free to add me to your friends list and mail me!

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CRAFTY1960 11/1/2009 2:20AM

    Praying for you, that God will give you the strength to get through the day.

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