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Tim's Grave

Sunday, November 01, 2009

I will be going with Tim's brother and sister-in-law to visit Tim's grave today. I have flowers to leave there. It's been a little over 5 months since his death but I still miss him. The holidays will be a bit lonelier as we went to Christmas and New Year Parties together.
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  • PICKIE98
    IT is always touch-and-go the first couple years, but something will come along and help you to focus on a happy or new event!!
    We do not forget, we just walk through, instead of stepping around it,, we are here to vent to,,

    3029 days ago
    I am sorry for your loss. Although you will find yourself grieving for Tim for quite awhile I hope you can also remember the good times and celebrate his life. emoticon
    3030 days ago
    My prayers are with you and your family during this hard time in your life. Just remember that you have us if you need anything.
    3030 days ago
    Bless your heart for remembering him.
    Many good memories in the future will behold his heart.
    3030 days ago
    Holidays are the hardest. Just take your time and find comfort in the memories. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
    3030 days ago
    My thoughts and prayers are with you.

    3031 days ago
    Holidays usually are the hardest I think......there are just so many wonderful memories, Patricia......I am praying you are well and remembering all the good times.

    3031 days ago
  • 1951SHY
    I lost my husband 4 years ago and its still so very painful. But I have done as he asked and began a new life. I still talk to him and he answers, not with words but other ways. I will always love him.But I have made room in my heart for a new love and a new life. Give yourself time. If you want to talk e-mail me. We are all here for you.
    3031 days ago
    Cherish your memories...give yourself permission to honor his memory by setting aside some time with pictures and other things you may have to remind you of him. Put him in a chair beside you and imagine how a conversation might go with him. I'll bet you can hear his reply to anything you might have to say to some ways you KNOW he is still by your side...!

    3031 days ago
  • SUNNY332
    Bless your heart. I hope all went well. Grief takes time and is different for people so take your time and don't rush the process. Hugs, Sunny
    3031 days ago
    Prayers for your upcoming holidays. May the happy memories of times past comfort you in the absence of your Tim, and your grief over his loss bring you closer to others who share it.

    It takes time, allow yourself that blessing. The first year I lost my mom, I didn't feel much like doing the usual holiday things, and had a discussion with a friend who lost her daughter that same year. We talked about "keeping" Christmas, rather than "celebrating". Preserving that holy feeling, celebrations returned in later years.

    3031 days ago
  • LINDA!
    So sorry!! Sending positive thoughts to you & prayers.
    3031 days ago
    Sorry for your's and anniversary's are the worst..I know I've lost 2 prayers go out to you and your family..
    3031 days ago
  • MRE1956
    My thoughts are with you at this time. It's true that the first holiday season is the toughest to deal with. I lost my mom in Sept. so this will be my first one without her. Please be gentle with and take care of yourself.

    3031 days ago
    You will be in my thoughts and prayers. This is my first holiday season without my true love, my hubby passed 7 weeks ago. If you want to talk please feel free to add me to your friends list and mail me!
    3031 days ago
  • CRAFTY1960
    Praying for you, that God will give you the strength to get through the day.
    3031 days ago
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