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Hearing Aids (nothing to do with diet)

Wednesday, September 23, 2009

This s something that I want to share with who ever.......

My daughter is what I have always called gifted and blessed. The day that she was born I knew she was different. You see my daughter is semi deaf. Like all parents I think that she is beautiful. She reads lips very well and can sign faster then most people can read. This is her Gods gift. I never looked at it as she is handicap or why me. No, this is a gift that I am blessed to have. My daughter is 17 can speak fully Spanish,English,Sign language, and now is learning Japanese.

Reason for this note:
My daughter has always worn hearing aids all her life. Yesterday she got another pair more powerful, (new style) plus her hearing has lost more. Doctor told me that she has lost quite a lot more of her hearing, of course like all mothers my heart sank.....in fact my heart was bleeding, but you have to be strong and hold a your tears act as if its all good. I know that God has a plan for her and ((he's is not done yet)).

Anyway, we were walking out of the office into the hall way and she stops to tell me that she can hear the rain drops from outside...(I thought she did before) I just brushed her off,we keep walking then she stops again, (MOM...I can hear your shoes on the floor) I looked at her and said what are you talking about....she looked at me so happy and said, No Mom I stop hearing your feet last year, I just didnt want to hurt your feeling...I started to cry, I was sobbing......I felt like a bad mom.......(But I had no idea) She then told me I was always looking doe shadows or reading more your lips.....I asked her then when I call you on the phone how do you hear me, she goes I close my door and go into the closet. Needless to say, I cried for a while there holding her in my arms. She asked me why are you crying so much mom, I said its b/c I love you with more then my life...... We start heading home, and I see my daughter laughing and laughing and I said whats so funny...she goes nothing..but still laughing hard...then she goes ok I will tell you cause my stomach hurts already from laughing, I said what is it....she goes you have a bugger that keep flapping in and out of your nose on the side its a tiny one....I grab a tissue and go to grab it, (cause I am driving) that thing was a house on the side of my nose,LMAO...then both of us started to laugh harder...I had no choice but to pull over just to laugh..Hello it was funny to us,lol

Many think that a person with hearing aids is handicap. But, I have always told my daughter she is gifted and blessed. She knows 3 languages and speaks them well. Spanish, (duh...I am Cuban she has no choice its free) English another great language its Free and sign language its free too. She is now going to study to learn Japanese (Not free) lol... My daughter can talk very well, has a voice....

Life is great and it gets better everyday! Peace and Love to you, Sonia

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CRUZINCARIL 1/22/2010 11:13PM

    sonia, im also deaf..ill send u a mail..carole emoticon
HHI0901 11/4/2009 4:40PM

    Wow, I love reading this stuff! I'm studying to be an audiologist and this is exactly why!! Your daughter sounds like a wonderful girl! Thanks for sharing!!
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AZ_CHICA2011 11/1/2009 11:35PM

    Hi

Your story brought tears to my eyes. Like your daughter I also wear haring aids. I was born premature and when I was born the doctors told my parents that I was going to be deaf, blind or dead. All my life I have struggled in school and conversations because I was missing so much information. My parents wanted to buy them for me but I refused because I didnt think I would wear them. About 7 years ago I started working for the school for the deaf and blind and I agree 100% deaf people should be considered a "culture"instead of a handicap. They have their own language and each country with their own language is considered a culture. In January of this year I went back to school after being off for a semester and I noticed my hearing had gotten significantly worse. I told my parents this and right away they bought me hearing aids. My life has become so much better with them and I wish I would have gotten them a lot earlier. I am so happy to hear that you have such a great relationship with your daughter!
CADDIVA1 10/29/2009 12:18PM

    Your daughter sounds amazing and you do also. You have a closeness that is not easily gotten. Keep that always. She is truly talented and blessed to have you in her life. You both have a wonderful relationship that is priceless. I know what you mean when you said you cried.. it is sad to not be able to communicate with the one you love.
My husband is deaf and being someone that can hear sometimes helps the other person that can not hear. We talk on the phone and he has to take his aids out at times. He wasn't born that way, but he got it we think when he was younger and had to take medicine. How did she learn to sign? Can you suggest anything that would help my husband and I to learn? Well sorry to be so late in reading your blog. I am uplifted by both of your spirits. Thank you.
DOTSLADY 10/14/2009 2:17PM

    Your daughter sounds beautiful (like ma). Language is a gift, even signing is if you ask me (I bet I swear a lot or say weird things when I spell/sign - lol). My daughter cannot hear low or high tones/pitches or whatever the correct terminology is. She, on her own, was drawn to sign language and was pretty good. I wish I signed. And I wish I spoke Spanish. And I wish I would get my buns out on the road - lol. It was a nice break to spend some time with you and your thoughts. I'm happy for your daughter. Ain't technology grand? (I have ENT doctor friends who go to Africa and give the gift of hearing via solar-powered hearing aids - no batteries in Africa!)

You are a wonderful support to your daughter. You're both fortunate to have each other.
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FISHINGLADY65 10/8/2009 12:12PM

    Sonia I am so sorry I did not read this before. You are so blessed to have a wonderful daughter. Your blog is very uplifting, We should always be so Thankful for what God has given us. You have a great attitude with your daughter. You are a very caring mother.
I wear hearing aids and I know what she was saying. God Bless you me sweet friend.
NISSANGIRL 9/24/2009 8:51PM

    Your daughter sounds like a wonderful kid and you did a great job raising her. She is a gifted person and very smart to know that many languages . most people only know one. I am so glad she could hear the the rain and your footsteps, I know that had to make her happy. Keep up the good work Sonia you amaze me. Have a great Night! emoticon emoticon
1DEBIE1 9/24/2009 3:33PM

    Love your story-THANK YOU for sharing, such a precious and "private" moment...love that you shared the dance in your nose...boogie! GAWD, I would of had to pull over too...my kids crack me up all the time.
They are a joy!
My own son was born with severe ear problems. So far, he doesn't wear hearing aids..but he's real careful about being around noise.
Your daughter is beautiful, inside and out...and you're a fabulous Mother.
SATIA62 9/24/2009 7:37AM

    I told my son, who is fluent in Japanese (and English, duh) that he should learn Japanese sign language because it would add a layer to his ability to teach English in Japan (one of his goals). Dreaming in Hindi is a wonderful memoir by Kathy Russell Rich about a woman who goes to India to learn Hindu. As part of her experience, she also learns sign language. Hands of My Father by Myron Uhlberg is another wonderful memoir by a man whose parents were both deaf and grew up at a time when deaf people were thought to be unintelligent. His story of dealing with the prejudice and hostility directed towards his parents is poignant without being maudlin. You might enjoy these books.
HEARTOFCHRIST 9/23/2009 9:05PM

    You have such a great attitude! I have to admit, though, that I loved the critter in your nose! OMG! ROFL!!!

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