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I Think I've Been Outranked Again . . .

Thursday, September 10, 2009

Most days here lately, my exercise of choice is a 2 mile walk/jog. I tend to start out jogging until my heart rate gets to the top of my target heart range. Then, I walk fast, keeping it in my THR for the rest of the journey. If it dips down, or even if I just feel like it, I jog until my heart rate monitor starts beeping--telling me to slow it down.

Lately, on the weekends or if my workout gets pushed to the evening, when my 10 year old daughter is home, she wants to come with me. She LOVES "Mommy/Madeline Time". :) Today, my workout time got pushed to the evening when my husband got home to watch my youngest son, and Madeline wanted to come too. Used to, we would get halfway done, and she would say, "Can we take a rest time now?" Not today. Today, we got to Five Points (about a half mile from home), and she says, "Let's see if we can jog the rest of the way!" And of course, *I'm* not gonna say no! So we jog along, and she (being a relatively in shape 10 year old girl) isn't even really out of breath.

LOL--I can see the writing on the wall. She with the legs that start at her neck is going to be passing me up before long! I think I may have another cross-country/track runner in the family.

The same thing happened about 4 years ago. I used to jog the entire 2 miles every day. Daniel, my then 12 year old wanted to support me as I tried to stay fit and active. He liked "Mommy/Daniel Time". At first, he was doing aerobics with me. I used to teach fitness classes, and I would teach a very basic step class with him. Then, I got to where I was really liking the jogging, so I invited him along with me. The first time, I remember him asking, "Can we walk for awhile now?" LOL. Pretty soon, he was keeping ME going. I'd be having a rough day with the jogging, and Daniel would encourage me, "C'mon, Mom! you can do this! You're MY Momma--You ROCK!" I began mentioning the track team to him. He gave all the excuses--"Well, I'm not that fast, Momma." and "I don't even know how to get on the team." I worked on him little by little, not too much at a time, and let him simmer. And every day we jogged together. Pretty soon, he came home telling me how he joined the track team! And before long, he was running with the cross-country team, practice consisting of running 10 miles a day!

Guess what? He can't run with me anymore. I've never been a fast runner. I have great endurance, and can jog for miles, but fast I am not. He's so fast now, that it's hard on him to slow down to my pace. And I couldn't be prouder! emoticon
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JENNY888 9/21/2009 1:13AM

    I must be great to have your fan club to run with and encourage you. I loved this blog. Thanks for writing it.

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NEWEVERYDAY 9/12/2009 11:16AM

    That's really great!

My sons are 28 & 31. We never ran/worked out together-
I have not been a consistent exerciser.
But, I'm looking forward to playing Wii games with my granddaughter.

Jackie

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DIXIED88 9/11/2009 10:48AM

    I loved this blog. My son is only 2.5 years old but I can't wait until we can take walks together. Right now we are just starting teaching him to ride a big boy bike so family bike rides are in a near future! These are the moments that we will look back on when they are up and grown. Also you are teaching them life lessons that will stick! You are obviously a great Mom with great kids! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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LORI815 9/11/2009 10:11AM

    What a great blog! I love that your kids are so into working out with you! Sounds like you have a great support system. When I do aerobics, Connor likes to do it with me but being 4 he doesn't realize that he can't stand so close to me. (I'm afraid I'll step on him by accident! LOL!) Shell likes to walk with me but she too has uber long legs and I have to take 2 steps to her 1. (What does it say if she's walking in flip flops and I'm in my tennis shoes? emoticon )

Well, keep up the great work! Have a great weekend!
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MTNHIKER71 9/11/2009 2:16AM

    Awesome! Thanks for sharing.

Man, I'm out of breath just thinking about running for a long period of time.

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WILDRICE99 9/10/2009 11:09PM

    Thanks for sharing this awesome story. You truly are doing things right...your kids are learning from your example...and are encouraging you as well. What more can you ask for??

Keep up the good work!

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COOKIES_MOM 9/10/2009 10:05PM

    I think it's great that your children workout with you. It sounds like you really have a great bond with them. When my son was young I spent my time running him back and forth to ball practice or games. I should have spent more time helping him practice his pitching, running and hitting than I did. I am ashamed to say I grumbled at all the running around because I was juggling it around work, cooking and anything else in between. My husband at the time wasn't into sports and worked a lot of hours so neither of us spent the time with him like we should have. If I had it to do all over again it would be different but I can't take back that time. So I praise you for spending time with your kids while they are young. They will remember that and will be better people for it. I am lucky I have a great son who loves me and realizes I did what I had to do. He never held it against me now that he is a grown up and has a kid of his own. Keep up the great work....your will be so rewarded in the end.

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IRENEHARPS 9/10/2009 9:09PM

    My kids are all in their 30's now....and I have one who has always been very athletic and outdoorsy. She teaches way up North in Nunavut so I don't get to see her very often at least in the last few years. I'm a novice at hiking, biking, kayaking, etc....but it's all thanks to her that I found a love of all this. I didn't try to persuade her....she's the one who was always my coach, my trainer, my 'let's go do it Mom' friend. She needs to do what she feels she needs to do right now, but I, for one, will be happy to have her back closer to Mom. She was the best 'fitness buddy' one could ask for. Enjoy your workouts with your kids. It sounds like you do.
Irene

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