Sunday, September 06, 2009
Partnership - You care about appearances, you care what other people thing, you go out of your way to show how much you care. Maybe you do little things but you have plans to do big things for each other. You could equate caring with selfless acts at this stage.
Married - caring at this stage is more like routine - you do things for each other - you listen constantly and take mental notes. The song by janet jackson "what have you done for me lately?" (well it was 1986 so keep that in mind) is about showing how you care.
Separated - caring while separated is caring about how your kids are being treated by your s2bx, caring for yourself after having tried for so long to care about the needs of the other.
Divorced - once divorced you have to like to care for someone again starting with selfishly learning who you are and what you want before caring becomes easy again.