Saturday, August 22, 2009

A 3-year-old tells all from his mother's restroom stall.
By Shannon Popkin

"My little guy, Cade is quite a talker. He loves to communicate does it quite well. He talks to people constantly, whether we're in the library, the grocery store or at a drive-thru window. People often comment on how clearly he speaks for a just-turned-3-year-old. And you never have to ask him to turn up the volume. It's always fully cranked.

There've been several embarrassing times that I've wished the meaning of his words would have been masked by a not-so-audible voice, but never have I wished this more than last week at Costco. Halfway, through our shopping trip, nature called, so I took Cade with me into the Restroom.

If you'd been one of the ladies in the restroom that evening, this is what you would have heard coming from the second to the last stall:

'Mommy, are you gonna go potty? Oh!

Why are you putting toiwet paper on the potty, Mommy? Oh!

You gonna sit down on da toiwet paper now?

Mommy, what are you doing?

Mommy, are you gonna go stinkies on the potty?'

At this point I started mentally counting how many women had been in the bathroom when I walked in. Several stalls were full ... 4? 5? Maybe we could wait until they all left before I had to make my debut out of this stall and reveal my identity.

Cade continued, 'Mommy, you ARE going stinkies aren't you?

Oh, dats a good girl, Mommy! Are you gonna get some candy for going stinkies on the potty? Let me see doze stinkies, Mommy!

Oh ... Mommy! I'm trying to see in dere. Oh! I see dem. Dat is a very good girl, Mommy. You are gonna get some candy!

I heard a few faint chuckles coming from the stalls on either side of me.

Where is a screaming new born when you need her? Good grief. This was really getting embarrassing. I was definitely waiting a long time before exiting. Trying to divert him, I said, 'Why don't you look in Mommy's purse and see if you can find some candy. We'll both have Some!' 'No,
I'm trying to see doze stinkies.

Oh! Mommy!' He started to gag at this point. 'Uh oh, Mommy. I fink I'm gonna frow up. Mommy, doze stinkies are making me frow up!! Dat is so gross!!' As the gags became louder, so did the chuckles outside my stall. I quickly flushed the toilet in hopes of changing the subject.

I began to reason with myself: OK. The are four other toilets. If I count four flushes, I can be reasonably assured that those who overheard this embarrassing monologue will be long gone.

'Mommy! Would you get off the potty, now? I want you to be done going stinkies! Get up! Get up!' He grunted as he tried to pull me off.

Now I could hear full-blown laughter. I bent down to count the feet outside my door. 'Oh, are you wooking under dere, Mommy? You wooking under DA door?

What were you wooking at, Mommy? You wooking at the wady's feet?' More laughter.

I stood inside the locked door and tried to assess the situation. 'Mommy, it's time to wash our hands, now. We have to go out now, Mommy.' He started pounding on the door. 'Mommy, don't you want to wash your hands? I want to go out!!'

I saw that my wait 'em out' plan was unraveling. I sheepishly opened the door, and found standing outside my stall, twenty to thirty ladies crowded around the stall, all smiling and starting to applaud. My first thought was complete embarrassment, then I thought, 'Where's the fine print on the motherhood contract' where I signed away every bit of my dignity and privacy?' But as my little boy gave me a big, cheeky grin while he rubbed bubbly soap between his chubby little hands, I thought, I'd sign it all away again, just to be known as Mommy to this little fellow."

P.S. Based on the comments this post has received, everyone has mistakenly thought I wrote it! NOT! Please note it is credited to its author Shannon Popkin!

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    Hehe, oops! Read the whole story and it was so funny I forgot that there was an author name under that title! Plus your profile pic of the cute lil boy... Well, I just put two and two together! Anway... Still a great story that even made my husband LOL. :)
    3014 days ago
    Thank you for sharing such a great story. It will be a great story for when he is older.
    3015 days ago
    This was absolutely hilarious, just like reading something in "Reader's Digest". It is great that you can see the humor in this rather than lose patience with your son. When they're little like this, they don't know how to use their "indoor voices" so we just have to go with the flow (or the flush).
    3015 days ago
    Thank you for sharing your hilarious adventure with us. I was picturing the scene in my mind as I read and laughing out loud. My last one was a redhead who never did what your little one did, but he did cause anxious moments. You are so blessed to not only have this adorable child but to realize how much it is all worth it.

    3015 days ago
    What a great story! You might not think so now, but one day you're both going to laugh about that if you're not already.

    Kids are great, huh?

    3015 days ago
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