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I've been away, trying to get ready to come back

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Hello to all my spark buddies. I have not been very active on the site for awhile due to some events in my life. Some of you have read my page, and know about my husband. Well, on June 10, he went into the hospital for what we believed to be constipation problems. However, his liver was also acting up at this time. Add a few other complications down the road-bleeding from the bladder, and kidneys being affected, plus the liver never getting better, and nearly 4 weeks later, he was put into hospice care and passed away on July 7th. I miss him terribly. He was the love of my life, and I had hoped to grow old with him, and have a long and happy life together after raising our beautiful daughters. Now I am left to do that on my own. He did so much for me, so it won't be easy. Anyhow, spark wise, I am still on the downward slide. but my original goal is a bit out of reach-so will have to midify that a bit. but I am begining to get ready to get back to my healthier ways and tracking everything. Hope to hear from you all. Thanks for listening and caring.

Member Comments About This Blog Post:
AMALIA8 8/31/2009 8:53AM

    I know it's been awhile since you posted this but I too have been absent from Sparks for awhile. For totally different reasons but absent none the less. I am sorry to hear about your loss. I cannot imagine what it would be like to lose someone that quickly when there was no warning. I wish you all the best and I know you can get back on track! :) Keep up the great work and know that we're here for you!

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MAGGIEYE 8/22/2009 8:58PM

    I just read your blog, and am so sorry to hear of your loss. Your husband was very fortunate to be loved so much. I know these must be very dark days for you. You and your girls will be in my prayers. emoticon

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GOLDFISHLIZ 8/3/2009 5:43AM

    Thoughts and prayers at this difficult sad time. I hope you have friends and family to hold you and help you and your daughters. May God bless and keep you today and always
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KYMONIQUE305 8/2/2009 12:07AM

    Sorry to hear about your loss. The Lord will see you through this! Just trust in his word he will comfort you!

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GLORYLIGHT57 8/1/2009 7:01PM

    I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. I have you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

I am happy to see that you are back...we are here for you. emoticon

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TERRI_BEAR** 7/30/2009 9:53AM

    I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughters at your time of need.

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MARTHA-ANN 7/30/2009 7:07AM

    So sorry to hear of the loss of your husband, my thoughts are with you and your family emoticon

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SHERRY822 7/30/2009 5:25AM

    So sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of grief. It is good to have you back.

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TAMI1691 7/30/2009 4:55AM

    emoticon Sorry for your loss.
Please know that support is here for you among the wonderful people here in sparkland.

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MARILYN1260 7/29/2009 10:23PM

    Hi, I'm so sorry for your tragic loss. My very best to you and your beautiful daughters.

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HARLYCHIC14 7/29/2009 7:29PM

    I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Please know that we are here for you.

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LORISNEWHOPE 7/29/2009 4:36PM

    I am sooo sorry for the loss of your solemate. You will get back on track when you can - just take care of your two wonderful girls they need you at this time. emoticon

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S_HANSEN 7/29/2009 4:23PM

    I am so sorry for your loss. This must be terrible for you. I know that you loved him so much. Know that we are here for you, just reach out. Take care of your girls.
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ALEXSGIRL1 7/29/2009 4:08PM

    sorry for the loss of your beloved. we are here for you. emoticon

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ROSEMARIE1965 7/29/2009 4:08PM

    I am so sorry for your loss.. We at spark is here for you, emoticon

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HUGGSUMONE 7/29/2009 3:32PM

    I am also fairly new to the site, but wish to convey my sympathy for the loss of your soulmate. i know it can't be easy to move forward, but we are here to uplift you where you need it. keep sparking, we welcome you back with open arms. emoticon

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  I know yo do not know me, however, when I read your blog I was so touched for you and the loss of your beloved. I will say a prayer for you. I wish you condloences for your great loss. Poet

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GHETTOZGIRL 7/29/2009 3:25PM

    ALthough I am new and have never met you, your post touched me. Please accept my condolences on the loss of your husband. It is good you are making you way back, we are all here to support you! Welcome Back!

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