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what was the title?sorry the inspiration for a title is not there

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

but aslong as the inspiration to carry on with this healthy lifestyle is still there then it is not such a problem there is no inspiration for a title..my biggest inspiration in my life was my nana whoes favorite saying was i may be disabled but i am not an invalid or deaf so don´t treat me as if i am.see learnt us that anything is possible as long as the dream and desire is there and as long as you are prpared to work for it and always do what ever it takes.never except no as an answer from yourself or anyone else.she also taught us to believe in ourselfes.she used to say if you don´t believe in yourself how can you expect others to believe in you.and she was right i just forget her words often.my biggest inspiration at the moment is my oldest son.he is 6 yearsold and has so much he has to cope with ,fight for and go throughin his day to day life and he just gets on with it.some days are harder than others but he just carries on.to him this daily fight he has is normal and he doesn´t realise how special he is or even how much strength he processes in charecter and mind that more than makes up for his weakness´s of his body.i know a lot of it is to do with me and how i bring him up,i don´t treat him like an invalid,i let him be a child even though i am scared at some of the things(normal kid things)i let him do wondering if i am doing the right thing by him.but when i see the joy on his face when he achieves something ,that my fear might have stopped him doing i know my nan´s phelosophy was right.he is my biggest inspiration if he can do the things he does with all he has against him surely i can do a little thing like loseing weight,getting healthy and fit so that i can be a better ,more active mother that he deserves .if he can do what he does every day,if he can take his medicine everyday,go through all the dr´s,visit´s test etc.surely i can do this.don´t get me wrong.i also get a lot of inspiration from sp,and all the friends i have made here.but zakariya is a constant inspiration to me and the best thing about it is he doesn´t even realise it.i have just thought of a name for my blog it should be zakariya.i won´t change it though because maybe more people would read my blog with the presant title than if it was called zakariya.iand i want everyone who reads this blog to know how proud i am of my very brave son.in fact how proud i am of all my children as they all have medical conditions to fight and learn to live with when they get older it is just zakariya has even more to fight than the most with his several illness´s.
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    Salaam Sis,

    This post is all about the loving care of a mother. emoticon

    Take care,
    3180 days ago
    What a beautiful post...as I read it i had to wipe away the tears to finish it. this is truly an inspirational post. never delete this one, as many who will stumble across it will truly know an inspiration when they read one.

    blessings emoticon
    3180 days ago
  • PEBBLES32165
    Special Children can hold a special place in our heart. Isn't it amazing how children are so resilient and they never seem to be aware that they may be different from other's around them. You have a wonderful grandmother to model after. She seems like a great woman with great wisdom. Take care of those wonderful children!
    3181 days ago
  • JEAN524
    Children are incredible in the way they accept things as they are and get on with it and they are a constant inspiration to us. Your little son sounds amazing and I am not surprised you are so proud of him. It is wonderful to have someone like your Nana who has been such a wonderful support and model in your life. I didn't have that with grandparents, but my mother was similar for me and I think I will miss her every day of my life. Thank you for sharing your story with us. emoticon Love, Jean
    3181 days ago
    Great inspirations are found all around us, and you have an abundance of them! Your Nana was a smart woman. My dad had the same philosophy and I've also faced things thinking I could accomplish it no matter what....we should all do that - it's what keeps me going through this weight-loss battle when I'm stuck with these darn plateaus!

    Your family finds the strength in you, which has been passed down from your Nana, and they will also pass it down to their children....God bless you all. Keep up the great work!

    emoticon Brenda
    3181 days ago
    Great blog. God has given you a strength that is wonderful. He will only give you what you can handle. I have heard that so many times, but never really paid much mind to it until I had a serious problem, and realized how true it is. I will be praying for you and all your children. God loves you all, and I can see that you are a very loving person too.
    Keep up the good work.
    3181 days ago
    What a wonderful set of inspirations you have! Your nana was a wonderful woman! And your son is very special - and very lucky to have the mom he has!

    Hugs! Beverly
    3181 days ago
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