WELL I had to go sit with mom today. TRUST ME I am doing this for mom no one else. My dad called me this morning and asked if I was coming down and I said if you need me I can. He said well your brother said he apologized to you so you need to drop it and stop. I told him he should have never pushed or got in my face. HE said well I want it stopped. I told him I would be civil at their house but that was it. So then I get an IM saying that he needs to know if and when I am going to moms house because YOUR mom needs help.Mind you yesterday he needed no help. It is never our mother----always Your mother. something else he said----(((Sorry to have put you so out trying to plan the care of your mother)))) I have decided that my family will consist of my husband, 2 kids, and my mom as he has everyone else convinced that is was me not him. I called his wife this morning and told her when I would be there and this was not my fault---she said I am not discussing it with you. She brought my moms car over to the house in case I needed it and she would not even come in. that tells me that she or my brother don't want to face me for some reason. I took my son with me to moms this morning has he was the only way I had to get there because I don't trust him. We never said 2 words to each other. He says I am put out---I have been there since tuesday from 9 until 3:30. I am back there again tommorrow. He is there during supper and then gone. So who is giving up their time. He had his wife call me on tuesday to make sure I did not forget to go to the hospital and bring my mom home. I am glad that I saved the IM for proof as to what I wrote because he told mom and dad things I never wrote.