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FINALLY MADE MY DECISION -- HOPE IT IS RIGHT


Tuesday, March 10, 2009

I WAS PONDERING ON THE DECISION IF I SHOULD QUIT TOP ALL TOGETHER OR JOIN ANOTHER CHAPTER. IN MY LAST COUPLE BLOGS I ASK FOR YOUR HELP IN MAKING MY DECISION. ALL OF YOUR ANSWERS WERE VERY HELPFUL AND MADE ME DO ALOT OF THINKING. I THOUGHT I HAD FINALLY MADE MY DECISION. I WAS GOING TO LEAVE TOPS FOR A WHILE, BUT KEEPING MY INTERNATIONAL DUES PAID SO I WOULDN'T LOSE MY KOPS STATUS. EVERYTHING WAS SETTLED, I KNEW WHAT I WAS GOING TO DO.

I WALKED INTO THE MEETING THAT MONDAY NIGHT KNOWING WHAT I WAS GOING TO DO. I GAVE THE WEIGHT RECORDER A BIG HUG AFTER SHE WEIGHED ME AND TOLD HER GOOD BYE BECAUSE I WAS LEAVING TOPS. IT WAS A SHOCK TO HER. I LEAD THE MEETING AND STARTED THE ELECTIONS. I ASKED FOR NOMINATIONS FOR LEADER AND I WAS THE FIRST ONE NOMINATED AND I GRACEFULLY DECLINED. I HAD TO BECAUSE I WAS LEAVING THE CHAPTER. THEN IT WAS TIME TO ASK FOR NOMINATIONS FOR CO-LEADER AND AGAIN I WAS THE FIRST ONE NOMINATED. ALL OF A SUDDEN I PAUSED. I THOUGHT IF I DECLINED THIS NOMINATION I WAS RUNNING AWAY FROM MY PROBLEMS AND THE CHAPTER WOULDN'T GET ANY BETTER. I KNEW AT THAT SECOND THAT IF I WAS GOING TO GROW I HAD TO STAY AND FACE MY DEMONS THAT WERE IN THE CHAPTER. ALL OF A SUDDEN OUT OF MY MOUTH I ACCEPTED THE NOMINATION WITH OUT A MOMENTS THOUGHT. AT THAT MOMENT I FELT THAT TREMENDOUS WEIGHT LIFTED OFF OF MY SHOULDERS. THEN I WAS UNANIMOUSLY ELECTED CO-LEADER. I KNEW I HAD MADE THE RIGHT DECISION.

WITH THIS I WANT TO THANK EVERY ONE OF YOU, EITHER ON THIS BLOG OR ON THE POSTS OF MY TOPS AND KOPS TEAM. I KNOW I CAN ALWAYS COUNT ON MY FRIENDS AT SPARKS TO GIVE ME THEIR TRUE OPINIONS FOR ME TO USE TO MAKE ANY DECISION IN MY LIFE. YOU ARE MY TRUE BEST FRIENDS, THANK YOU AGAIN AND I HOPE SOME DAY I CAN GIVE YOU THE SUPPORT YOU NEED.

GOD BLESS
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ELLIET3 5/22/2009 8:05AM

    So very glad you decided to stay.The true TOPS members inyour group really need you.

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ELLIET3 4/14/2009 6:48AM

    If you bring as much to your TOPS chapter as you do to the Spark boards they are lucky to have you.I love all the tips you have given on exercise and nutrition, keep them coming. emoticon

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LKWQUILTER 4/5/2009 9:29AM

    Sharon, I am late like usual on the boards, but I think you have made a great decision. I found out a long time ago, you can't run from your problems, they have a tendency to follow/stay with you. I wish you the best this coming year with your team. Linda Kay

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WOWEETOO 3/25/2009 4:47PM

    sharon this is the first time i saw and read your blog and you really are a wonderful kind person i would have thrown up my hands and not even bothered to explain being here on sparkpeople has made me be a more tolerant person but you are wonderful and i hope your tops knows that now hugs mary emoticon

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MELSMIMI 3/18/2009 1:43PM

    From your blog about being nominated I see that you have a wonderful support group from Sparks. It sounds like the TOPS group would miss your presence!! Sometimes we have to let things go before we see what they mean to us. I am so happy for you that you made the decision to stay. Don't forget to take care of yourself first! With Sparks and TOPS you can't go wrong!!

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RDAKZOOM 3/13/2009 11:15PM

  Thanks Sharon.
You have done a lot for me just being here! Big FAT Hugs from me.

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DEANNAMAE 3/11/2009 2:42PM

    Sharon, I know things are going to work out and I am glad that you are staying with TOPS. Sound like your group loves and needs you as much as you love and need them.
Deanna Mae

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RASCALSMOMMA 3/11/2009 1:49PM

    Sharon, I have made decisions based on lots of thinking; also spur of the moment. One decision I made SOM is not to go back to school for a degree. Why? I am happier now than I was when trying to go to school. Yes I am an unpaid volunteer, but (I found out Monday) that the kids I work with all love how I teach.Thats the important part. Are u happy with a decision? Will it benefit you? Then do it! Keep up the good decision making. Laurie

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SHAPELY 3/11/2009 1:38PM

    Sharon Well hope it feels good now that you have made the decision to stay with it.
Sometimes the spur of the moment decisions are the best . And I hope this one will work out for the good. Hugs Rosalyn

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FROGLADYPK 3/11/2009 12:15PM

    Sharon, sometimes that instinctive gut feeling that makes us do something we were unsure of, is the best thing we can do for ourselves. Blessings in your continued journey as co leader of your teams and prayers that they team uphold their responsibilities to make your job a bit easier.

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KAT7457 3/11/2009 11:52AM

    Good luck Sharon we are here for you. dont over do it . I care about you and appreciate you being on my team. best of luck emoticon emoticon

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LINDA! 3/11/2009 12:53AM

    Good luck. It sounds like this was the right decision.

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GRACIE0204 3/10/2009 10:27PM

    Good luck and I am glad you were up to staying as co-leader. Please do make you cohort do their share of the work so you get overwhelmed. I'm glad you let your heart lead you as you are very inspirational and you leadership is a gift to all TOPS and KOPS members. Thank you for sharing your inspiration with others. You are a dynamic women. Stay Strong emoticon

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SUPREME5 3/10/2009 9:07PM

    AND YOU HAVE AND DO RETURN THE HELP GIVEN AND TAKEN
I AM GLAD YOU STAYED NOW WITH TWO OF YOU YOU MAY GET SOMEWHERE JUST DON'T LET IT SLIDE BACK ON YOUR SHOULDERS
YOU MUST MAKE YOPUR LEADER ACCOUNTABLEFOR THE JOB SHE ACCEPTED. HOPE THIS TURNS IT AROUND EOR YOU AND YOU HAVE THINGS WORKING OUT.
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