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Bad Mood Post #3

Friday, December 05, 2008

Got an email from the president's assistant - an absolutely lovely woman who's been in the 'shoot the messenger" postion too many times -nope not gonna shoot her - but damn I am so not thrilled w ith the email... my new departure date from the hell I am in... december 20th... and I have to be in New Jersey for christmas - but I need to get home to Chicago first to unpack -do laundry - and repack appropriate christmas clothes...

Last year I ended up blowing off christmas because of our office move and all vacations were cancelled -wonder how much trouble I'd be in with my family if I blew off 2 christmasses in a row -I already didn't do anything with thanksgiving because I was in Europe... Ah yes I can feel the lecture about priorities coming on... but my critical family doesn't pay my bills...so gotta do what I gotta do... I think... this sucks...

I had another blog entry in mind when I staeted but this one kind of took on a life of it's own... :D

I've done the long term business trips to europe and around the globe before and they haven't been as bad as this one ha been - primarily because I'm still working weekends here -and cant' take off and go somewhere better on the weekend... I'm working 15 hours a day, 6 days a week, no one to really talk to outside of colleagues on IM and that's few and far between... I have never minded being alone because people watching is fun... but eavesdropping is fun too -- only i don't speak anything remotely resembling dutch/danish/amsterdamese so i can't even eavesdrop proper.. and the food here - is just awful and unrecognizable...
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MALEFICENT1964 12/7/2008 7:24AM

    I honestly dont care if I get back to new jersey for christmas or not - my family doesn't really like me all that much - my sister hates me and that's ok with me -and her obnoxious children are about the gifts and only about te gifts.. my family does like to criticize me however... so it becmes sport.

The guilt that will be inflicted on me if I pass -will be annoying... and i have enough crap going on - don't need added guilt.

this trip is annoying because there are far too many circumstances that I canot control so therefore I can't be as effective or productuve ad I think I should be...

Curling was the major television event last night...

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MSEMBERSTORM 12/6/2008 8:22PM

    Wow Mal! You have really had alot of changes lately. Hopefully things will improve soon.

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TRECECOOKS 12/6/2008 4:04PM

    ME, I'm so sorry. I can sympathize/empathize with the Christmas dilemma. Fortunately I'm not one of the family members that my family wants to see, so I am left alone. I'm spared a lot of the drama, but my kids are working up thru 7:15PM Christmas Eve.

Hope they change their minds, and can get you home sooner.

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MALEFICENT1964 12/5/2008 8:13AM

    I was telling one of the guys here -that th ething that's killing me - is i was going from walking/running 40-50 miles a week to less than 10... I'm talking the long way to the office from the hotel but unless there's only so fa i can go

The hotel has no gym at all
my roomis so small i have to go into the hall way to change my mind - seriously -there's no room for anything.
It gets l ight out at 8:30 am and gets dark at 5:00pm - I work from 7am 6o 7pm ish
and there are no streetlights and mad bicyclists everywhere - not exactly walker friendly..

this too shall pass - everything does...



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2008LYNN 12/5/2008 6:56AM

  Oh my! The crap is piling on, isn't it? Are you getting any sun and/or getting some exercise? Both would help elevate your mood in light of the fact that you've got so much going on that you can't control. I hope you can have a peaceful Christmas, no matter where you are.

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