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Life Happens.... A New Beginning...

Wednesday, September 03, 2008

Good Morning everyone...

It has been a little bit since I have posted...I have been going through a lot of personal things....My husband and I are getting a divorce...It was my decision, one I have prayed and thought through thoroughly. It is not just one thing because he is a good was just a lot of little things that has just built up over the years....I am not happy, it was not a healthy relationship and I can't give him my whole heart....We do have a 4 year soon to be 5 year old son and we are trying to make this transition smooth and as normal as possible for him...I spoke with JC about things this morning and of course he is just to little to understand. I am sure once we are settled in our new place things will pan out...

I am also moving from Nacogdoches to Lake Sam Rayburn. My parents have a lake house they said I could live there till I can get on my feet free of charge...The downfall to it is the hour and 15 minute drive one way everyday...I will have an extra 2 1/2 hours on my day...I know it will be a little tough on JC but with God, family and friends we will get through this...I am at peace and ready for a new beginning...I know there will be obstacles but we will get through them as they come. David and I are being very civil with all of this...and hope to keep it out of the courts...

As far as eating and exercising...well the eating I am sad to say I haven't been eating enough, I truly am trying too...and the exercising is my packing and moving of things...I hope to be moved in this weekend and we will turn the page and begin this new life...David will be apart of JC's life, I will make sure of it...Till then it is all in God's control and HE will lead the way...

Thank you all for letting me get this out in the open...I know you all are here for me....and I appreciate everything you all do...

I hope and wish everyone a blessed day...

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Member Comments About This Blog Post:

    I am both sorry and hopeful for you. It's very brave of you to get out of an unhealthy relationship, 4 year old in tow. Take care of yourself, because JC needs a strong, healthy mommy emoticon

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TERRMOR 9/4/2008 10:07AM

    I am so sorry you guys are going through this. I hope and pray everything works out.

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    Your post brought tears to my eyes ... you are going through so much! It will be tough for awhile, but it will get better.

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HONEYBEE56 9/4/2008 3:05AM

    Life isn't always easy...for that matter life isn't easy at all! We have to work at all we do. I hope that you will be able to get back on your feet soon because that is a long way to commute to and from work! I know you will be all settled soon and things will work out for you and JC.

Hang in there Mel, I know that God has great plans for you and I know that you are moving one step closer to those plans through all this.

I love ya, kiddo...hang in there and keep on keeping on.

Hugs as always~Dusty

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GRAMMYSKIDS58 9/3/2008 9:10PM

    I am sorry that you are going through a divorce. It sounds like you have done alot of thinking about this and it is the right thing to do. You are very courageous. Good luck to you on your new beginnings.

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HUGGERS1 9/3/2008 3:20PM

    Mel, I do hope you feel God's spirit right now and find comfort in that . I pray that you find strength and courage to see what is important and to know that no matter what JC is loved and you both will not want to see him hurt. It is great that you are civil and JC does not see you fight. I pray that in time, your heart will heal and you can find peace. I pray for JC that he find love in your eyes always and know that his parents being apart is not because of anything he did. I pray that he feel safe and always comforted.

I know that the drive is not easy, but with God, all things are possible.


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    You're in my prayers Mel.

Here's hoping for an easy transition for you and JC.

just another goonie

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