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Lost 180 Pounds Overnight

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Well it was really like over the past six weeks. On Friday I finally ended it for real with my boyfriend Chuck who I had been with for over four years. He and I are going different ways with our lives and I don't like the path he has chosen. It has been very sad and difficult for me, but I can't be with someone who goes against my values and morals. My heart has been broken for the past 2 months, but I have been living through it and making the best of it. I have been making changes for myself to be healthy and strong. and most important not turn to food at a time like this!!! I really had the fantasy that one day we would marry. Like I said most likely that was my fantasy and not his reality!! Like my karaoke song of the 90's "I will Survive"! I am a smart, strong, independent woman!! Who is on her way to the lean mean fighting machine she once was!!
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MOEDANCING 8/14/2008 3:43PM

    Patty my girl... I am so delighted to hear that you have found the strength to break free of what keeps you down.

We often find ourselves tied to the "Cinderella Complex" ... trapped in a comfort zone that prevents us from becoming who we are...why...because we are fearful of being alone?

My darlin you are on your way to lean mean fighting machine status...

YOU are worthy my friend...remember YOU ARE WORTHY!!!!!!!!

Loving me some Patty Girl!

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CALIFAMILY 8/11/2008 12:13AM

    Hi there. Just stopping by to give you some support and some emoticon . There is not much I can say at this time, because I'm sure it just feels horrible and the pain is still very raw. Give yourself plenty of time and just take it one day at a time. You deserve only the best of what life has to offer so I applaud you for making a hard but good decision for yourself. That shows that you are a true survivor, DONE girl and tough enough to make it through this. Don't forget to lean on people for support!
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JIBBIE49 8/10/2008 10:55PM

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