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A Winner is Just a Loser Who Tried One More Time

Saturday, April 19, 2014

That is so true! So many people have told me that they could never do what I have done, but I don't believe it. Why? Because I didn't believe I could have done what I did even while I was doing it. To say I amazed even myself is an understatement because I had literally tried so much out there and nothing worked. I tried Jenny, Nutrisystem, LA Weightloss, Physician's Weight Loss, prescription diet pills, hypnosis tapes, crazy teas, every little bottled concoction or pill, read the latest diet books of every guru... you all know where I'm coming from. With all of that, I still got up to 460 pounds- I dieted my way there.

My answer was in a prayer when I gave up completely. I was very angry with God for not healing me or helping me with my food issues after I had prayed and prayed and dieted for years, failing on every diet. I just told God that I gave up. If HE wanted to do something, HE could, but I was done. In giving up, I opened myself up to expecting less than perfection and accepting any sort of loss and healing. I was guided to SparkPeople.

Here I have learned that it is the baby steps you take that turn your life around. It is the community of supportive people that make the magic happen. So set your sights on something real this time around. What can you really do? Think in terms of CAN instead of CAN'T. If you are disabled, as I am, that doesn't come easily. So, if you can't move your legs, get an arm bike like I did. If you have upper body issues, walk. If you are sore all over, soak in epsom salts and get physical therapy or try water exercise. Maybe try leaving a few bites on your plate at first. Cut back on soda. Order one size down from your normal order. These are all doable changes that lead to weight loss and a great place to start.

Basically I was just a loser who tried one more time... and I still fall flat on my face some days. I get up though. I turn it around at my very next meal. Just remember to always try one more time and you will never be a loser, except maybe in pounds.

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  Thank you for keeping it real!

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    Perfect! Love this blog!!

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    It sounds like you are living by the serenity prayer too. I applaud you emoticon
You are a great inspiration to both of us. Keep on keeping on!

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LIVELYGIRL2 4/20/2014 8:04PM

  Some of us grasp what your saying, and perhaps others don't totally. When " we" give up, He can help us. He is an amazing coach, and He annoints our efforts.

You just get prettier and prettier.

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LUCYCAN7 4/20/2014 6:34PM

  Beth,God gives "US"our strength we just have to realize it,and always
remember that when we feel like giving up,no matter what it is that
we struggle with in life!!!That is my motto,but so true!If we will just
keep that in mind aboutGod!May you always get your strength thru
God!YOU ARE NO LOSER!!!!Keep up the GREAT work!
God Bless You

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CAROLFAITHWALKR 4/20/2014 5:26PM

    "Always try one more time."

Thank you so much!

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  Great job. What an inspiration you are.

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  good for you

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    You look simply marvelous! emoticon keep sparking!

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    Love the title of this blog. Keep getting back up.

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  I find having to get myself up more than once myself. You are my inspiration Beth! :-)

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    Amen--giving up means you make no progress so just keep trying!!

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DIBANANA 4/20/2014 10:58AM

  The only time I lost was when I got back on track after the times I fell off.

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    Great to see your blog featured in the Spark Mail. emoticon

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CELEST 4/20/2014 10:39AM

    Whenever I think you have said all you can to encourage others (me especially) you go and do it one more time. You truly are an amazing woman, you deserve only good things in your life.

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I haven't been on SP much due to limited time - just checking in, and you still inspire me.

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  Such An Inspiration

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GARDENCHRIS 4/20/2014 10:04AM

    Thank you Beth! and God Bless you!

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SHERYLP461 4/20/2014 8:22AM

    Baby steps, this is an important concept. We are so overwhelmed when we look at 50lbs, 100 lbs or even 25. Look for that 2 lb and how easy it would be just to have a banana instead of a cookie. Thanks for reminding us that it starts with one small step.

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    I love that! A Winner is a Loser who tried just one more time!

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CFMOSS 4/20/2014 7:37AM

    Doing what's doable...one step at a time. Thank you for your persistence and sharing your journey (including the struggles).

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  One moment, one step, one day at a time!

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SANDYCRANE 4/20/2014 7:01AM

    I do believe baby steps are the key. I always get some bit of widsom from your blogs.


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Life Changing

Monday, April 14, 2014

I went to a conference this weekend where they were talking about changing lives by being a "Spa-Girl." Yes, I'm a spa girl, I pamper women as one of my career choices. It was a great conference, full of positive people and yes, certainly attitude changing things... but LIFE CHANGING?

When I think Life Changing, I think SparkPeople and it's founder, Chris Downie.

Me now holding Spark Rallies to help people get well...

Me unable to help even myself... pre SparkPeople

SparkPeople. Second chances do exist. I'm really not just some picture on the internet. I'm a real person, who has eating issues and isn't that keen on exercise. I have to give myself pep talks all day long and use every trick in the book to outsmart my body rather than fight it's tendencies to want certain things. So I'm not any super willed woman, I'm just like you!

I got on Spark People and decided to be as I could be, bare and raw, not perfect by any means. When I gain weight, you see it on my ticker. When things go wrong, you see it in my blog and you see my solutions to those issues too. USE SparkPeople. The whole site is full of tools. Take the welcome tour, use SparkAmerica.com for a 60 second mobile quickie... just stay Sparking and never give up! It's only when you give up that you fail.

My point is that no matter how wonderful spa products are, you put them on. Real change is something you put in. Are you putting in or putting on?

  
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MILLIE5522 4/18/2014 6:13AM

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    Yea You!! Keep Sparkin'~!

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    I love how you reference the fact that you are a real person, and not just a picture.
And it is very true that it is all about you put in, not what you put on :)
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    Great blog!

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    I love you! You are so real. You are all of us. Just trying to better yourself one day at a time! So Awesome!

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    Congrats and thanks for a great blog.

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    Congrats for your successful weight loss,looking gorgeous from in and out.
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Your honesty is what helps you make progress. Honesty will help us make progress.
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PATTYKLAVER 4/15/2014 3:00AM

    Putting in definitely comes first. I haven't been doing that lately. Once I put in, I can put on as a bonus for reaching a goal.

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    This is a change for a lifetime! Thanks for being such an inspiration

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    Yes you are a "spa girl". You pamper us from the inside where it really counts. You reach down and touch our hearts and massage the parts no one else ever cared about. And sometimes it doesn't feel good working out the kinks or getting over the hard parts.... but without it some of us would never imagine us as ever beginning to be beautiful or feeling good about ourselves. You help "tone up" our courage to go on, when we think we can't continue, and when we fail, you are the mirror we look into to see that when you fall, you pick yourself back up and go on again. You, my dear Beth, are the best kind of "spa girl"; and I am so very thankful for you. emoticon

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    You do a wonderful job of inspiring and motivating. I have a feeling doing the Rallies are doing a world of good for you as well as others. The RV Enthusists met for a mini rally last fall in Custer SD and we 7 couples had a great time!! So great that we are planning another this fall in Branson!! Just a little info to let you know a spark does fly far!!
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Thanks you.

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    So true great blog Beth emoticon

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BAMAJAM2 4/14/2014 3:06PM

  Beth-- You are real, genuine, and wonderful! Thank you for the encouragement that you give to all of us. You show us "never quit" by your sweet example!
Thank you from my heart!

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Love Love Love your blog today

a well needed message for us all

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    Beautifully said Beth... just like YOU!!!!! emoticon

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    Trying to put in!

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PATTISTAMPS 4/14/2014 12:38PM

    Oh, Beth... You are so much more amazing than you can ever realize. Have a great, inspired day, because you just gave me one!!!

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CHERIJ16 4/14/2014 12:35PM

    Every time I read your blogs I feel that you are speaking to me directly because you seem to identify the problems I am struggling with at the time. You are a great inspiration to me and so many others. Thank you so much for sharing this journey with all of us. emoticon emoticon but most of all emoticon

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NANFACEMIRE1 4/14/2014 12:14PM

    So glad you took advantage of your 2nd chance and found Spark People..

Great job.

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    Being real ... is what makes us human. We can be the best we can be.

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EEKAMIGHTY 4/14/2014 11:37AM

  Wow. You are amazing. Thanks for reminding me that I, too, can be amazing.

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  Beth, for sure you give an honest picture of what's going on and have the courage to talk about it here which gives OTHERS the courage to be honest in their own journies, too, and moving forward!'' HUGS

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Regaining Weight Can Be Overcome- Here's HOW

Thursday, April 10, 2014

So you think you might be in trouble or regaining weight. Guess what? I do it too, and I lose it again and then some. I've done it for 9 years now on SparkPeople. It really isn't the end of weight loss as you know it and you aren't necessarily going to gain back all of your weight with extra pounds, UNLESS you give up. My motto, NEVER GIVE UP. That is the only time you can fail.

I'm going to write about 2 kinds of ups... when you gain because you are off track and when you gain because your body is re balancing and on a plateau.

When you start regaining because you are off track, you have to ask yourself why you are off track in the first place. Is there extra stress? Is it emotional? Are you extra hungry? If so, why? When did it start? Was there a medical reason for it or a supplement you started taking? Really think about what is going on. I realized that you cannot just rip an eating habit out of your life and not replace it with another habit. Mine was shopping. Yikes, the bills. Then I had to replace shopping at more expensive stores with thrift stores. So there is the habit component of it... Finding something you enjoy doing besides eating. There is also the emotional side of it, finding something to elicit the same emotions that food usually brings you. Ask yourself what you are wanting food to make you feel. I usually want to feel warm, safe and comforted. So my go-to is candles (scent), a soft warm blanket (touch), and a movie (sight). Notice that those things are all physical soothers to replace the physical soother of food (taste and smell). I believe it takes a physical soother to replace a physical soother and a physical habit to replace a physical habit.

Weight loss naturally has ups and downs. Yes, LOSS has ups too. It's the body balancing itself out with water and new muscle... When you lose weight and start working out, you are literally changing your body's composition from inactive fat tissue, to lean, active, muscle tissue. Muscle takes up less space than fat, so it looks smaller, but weighs more. Let's hear it for looking smaller! Yeah! The thing is that the body has to balance the books sometimes and it just doesn't seem fair. We get on plateaus, but they can't last forever. My favorite plateau busters are calorie cycling and increasing your workouts by just a little. Drinking lemon water helps too.

If you hate something, doing it is only going to aggravate your desire to eat, so I suggest you find ways to indulge yourself in pleasant activities in the fitness world, find foods you love that are healthy and really explore yourself. Not everyone is a protein drinking runner. I would LOVE to be a runner, but I am not one, I'm a walker at present. I used to be a swimmer. I think tastes change at different times of your life, so don't be afraid to explore. Find your passion about whatever healthy lifestyle you choose and then make some gradual changes to become that person that does those things.

Regain happens. Treat it like a danger blip on the radar screen rather than an inevitable failure. Never give up and stay the healthy course.

  
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POLSKARENIA 4/17/2014 3:10AM

    As always, a timely and excellent blog. There would be nothing left of me of I had just lost those extra pounds without regaining... still plenty to do, but it WILL happen.
Thank you!

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    Wonderful words of wisdom thank you.

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    Reading this was very helpful! I really needed this. Sometimes I just look to much at the weight loss instead of at the good things which come from healthy living!

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    Great blog! Thanks for the plateau busting tips.

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    Thanks for the great advise!

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ALIHIKES 4/13/2014 5:10PM

    Thank you Beth for this supportive and encouraging blog. It is a huge inspiration to all of us that are stalled or slightly up on the scale

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  Thanks - this is good to hear.

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APRILRUSSELL3 4/13/2014 10:43AM

    Thank you. I really needed that because I had a bad week.

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ANGELN325 4/13/2014 10:28AM

    Great blog and I will totally look at gains differently now and not just give up if I stay stuck at a plateau.

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    emoticon emoticon Just what I needed to read to help break the plateau that I have been on for some time now.

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    Thank you, this really helped me put some things in order in my head.

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PUPPYFITZ 4/13/2014 3:23AM

  Timing is everything. This was perfect for me at this moment. Thank you. Great insights. Thank you. ( did I say thank you?). Thank you!!!!!

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FAERIEBERT1986 4/13/2014 2:32AM

    Thank you, I so needed to read this. I gained some weight after my mom passed away last year, and I'm just now getting back into exercise. It can be so frustrating trying to get the weight back off, but I know I can do this! emoticon

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LINDA! 4/12/2014 11:16PM

    You are so right. Finding things that make you happy is the way to go. Replacing eating with things you enjoy will definitely have you in the mindset to lose weight.

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GORDON66 4/12/2014 3:57PM

  I like the concept of replacing a warm and fuzzy feeling with another that has nothing to do with food. Thanks for sharing.

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CALIDREAMER76 4/12/2014 3:49PM

    Thanks,
I've been regaining since I started training for the Flying Pig half-marathon - LAST year. Walking the entire way, it was a great experience that left a sour taste, so to speak, because as I increased the exercise all the "experts" I went to - and they were very knowledgeable people said eat more - specifically protein, which I did, but trying to keep in moderation and then after the race I knew I had to cut back and I did both eating less and slowly cutting back to what I considered normal distances - because as you stated if you don't like it, you aren't going to do it. I didn't like how much time it occupied in my day, other things got behind, but I had a goal to reach and I did it. I'm glad to have had the experience, especially with the contingent of sparkers that were there last year. But the weight has slowly crept up to 30 pounds gained and it scares the bejeebers out of me. Talking to DeeJay - a long time sparker she said trust the process, but for a year the process feels like it is failing me.
Now next week I'm having blood work done to see if it's medical / hormonal and then see what new plan of action I can come up with.
Your blog especially having met you a couple of times is encouraging. Thank you

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  Thanks for your words of wisdom. I did Spark People for a while and lost 20 lb., then I was at a plateau and got frustrated. Well I am back and hoping to get back and do better. This time it will be one day at a time. Thanks for your encouraging blog.

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SHARONSIZE8 4/12/2014 2:43PM

    I, too, have lost and gained the same 40 - 60 pounds over the last 17 years or so. I have been back on my journey to health since April 1st, and this blog is what I needed to confirm that my efforts are worth it! emoticon

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    You are always full of wisdom!!

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FIT-AND-FUN 4/12/2014 1:10PM

    Thank you for this. I have gained and lost the same 30 pounds for years. It is time for some self-reflection.

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BELLE0308 4/12/2014 9:40AM

    Excellent blog! I love this. You explained what happens to me he only difference is I usually just give up. That is my main problem and you just handed me the reasons it does and how to deal with it. Thank you so much! emoticon emoticon

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SHARONCAPPS 4/12/2014 8:46AM

  Great post. Thanks for sharing with us. It is so true.

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Hubby's Cancer Results

Wednesday, April 09, 2014

Negative!!!! They got all of the precancer and there is no cancerous material! Praise God and thank ALL of you for each thought, prayer and message.

Beth and Chuck

  
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MILDOLLARSMILE 4/18/2014 3:29PM

    emoticon Praise God...so happy for y'all!!!

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    Praise God! I am so glad to hear this!

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    That is awesome!! So glad to hear this good new! emoticon

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    So glad they got it all! emoticon

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    So glad the news is positive. Now you can start breathing again. emoticon

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    Praise the Lord! So happy for you.

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    That's great news. It must be such a relief for you. Take care,

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SMILINGEYES2 4/11/2014 9:44AM

    Such great news PTL

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    So happy to hear the news! What a relief!

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IRISHGAL46 4/10/2014 9:50PM

    Praise God. That is wonderful news.

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    Praise God!!! So glad for your news!!!!! God is good all the time. Have a great week end. emoticon

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  I'm so happy to hear this!!

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    Great news!

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    Thank goodness for modern medicine!!!!

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    Wonderful! Early detection can be the key!

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EVIE4NOW 4/10/2014 11:16AM

  That is so wonderful. I'm sure you've had enough worry and stress to last a lifetime. All the best to you both.






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    I am so happy for the both of you, what a blessing! Nice pic of the both of you, I wish you both many many more wonderful years to come. emoticon emoticon

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    Fantastic News! emoticon

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STALEYK 4/10/2014 5:16AM

    So thankful! Thanks for updating us! Cute - good looking couple!

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    that news deserves a emoticon

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    Amen!! emoticon emoticon

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    Amen

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    Great news!!!!

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    emoticon emoticon emoticon Praise The Lord! emoticon Chuck!

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    excellent news

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    This is the best news! Very happy for both of you.

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1CRAZYDOG 4/9/2014 5:30PM

  Hallelujah! Praise be. I am thrilled for you both. HUGS

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DAWNWATERWOMAN 4/9/2014 3:10PM

    Such awesome news. I'm so happy for you both.

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MTN_KITTEN 4/9/2014 3:09PM

    Praise the Lord. Both of you are on a journey to get healthy ... never take it for granite.

I am 27 months and counting Breast Cancer overcomer!!!!

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    Great news.Stay well. emoticon emoticon

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  Outstanding!

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CAROLFAITHWALKR 4/9/2014 2:11PM

    Thanks be to God! Kneeling at His feet and saying, "Thank You!", right now!

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KAREN608 4/9/2014 1:57PM

    So wonderful. You have a lot to smile about now!

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    We're all with you! emoticon

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    emoticon Amazing! God is good all the time!

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    emoticon Very happy to hear this!!!

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    Relieved and happy/ PTL and thanks for prayers answered. emoticon

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How Will Getting Fat (Again) Help?

Thursday, April 03, 2014

I received a comment on my blog that was GENIUS! Just what I needed to ask myself to give myself strength when fighting emotional eating- I call it emo eating.

How will getting fat (again) help?

WOW POWERFUL! I thought about the situations that are getting me down and none of them would be easier if I gained weight. They would be harder. Why? Because I recently regained my ability to walk and my freedom from a wheelchair. I need to stay thinner to take care of myself and my husband, whether he has cancer or not. I just now started working again and I need to stay mobile to do that. I do SparkPeople Rallies and I REALLY enjoy that part of my life. That too would go away of I got fat again. So everything I have worked so hard for= a life, would go away of I got fat again and I would once again lie in my bed waiting to die. Not going to happen.

SO WHAT IS IT YOU WANT MORE THAN FOOD?

I went back to thank the person for their comment, and the comment was either gone, or I couldn't find it. So thank you and all of the rest of you who said prayers, offered advice and care. I know I communicate in blogs most of the time, rather than individually. That's because I care about so many of you and I just don't have time to write each of you. I also want to encourage anyone and everyone who may happen across my blogs. My dream is that my blogs reach people in bed, just like I was, bedridden, who feel hopeless, and they learn that they too can do something... maybe not everything. Something is always better than nothing.

I feel lifted up and strong today! Woohoo! Let's do this!

  
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    Much success to you....Keep on reaching out to others.

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    Thank you!
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IMGLAMRUS 4/10/2014 9:07PM

    Thank you....It's really something to think about. Great blog!!!!

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LILIVW 4/10/2014 9:27AM

    Thanks, I loved this blog! I am going to blog about your two questions and think about how they relate to me personally. Glad your husbands tests came back cancer-free!

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BRADMILL2922 4/8/2014 2:08AM

    You have helped so many with your story and I have no doubt that you will continue to do so!

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TRAVELGRRL 4/7/2014 9:52PM

    That really was a genius comment! I'm going to remember that the next time I'm tempted to emo eat!

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SUPERSYLPH 4/7/2014 7:58PM

    What a wake-up call!

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FRABBIT 4/7/2014 5:14PM

  Great blog. Thanks for sharing!

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LOVINGKATE 4/7/2014 5:02PM

  Very awesome blog Beth. Thanks so much for sharing it. Great question to ask myselfand I will, often.

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MAGGIEVAN 4/7/2014 3:56PM

    Thanks for sharing. It meant a lot to me today. Be blessed.

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PUPPYFITZ 4/7/2014 10:45AM

  Very powerful message in such few words. Thanks for grabbing it and passing it forward to us!

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JLSKIDS10 4/7/2014 9:54AM

    thank you, Indygirl, for that wonderful statement "what would getting fat again do for me?" Although i haven't gotten to my goal weight yet, i am more active than I was 1 year ago. it is still difficult for me to be as active as I want to. However, I push myself past my comfort zone as often as i can, because i need to know that I can be active and healthy, regardless of the # on the scale.

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AZ_CAT_PERSON 4/7/2014 1:55AM

    A very powerful blog. I am going to have to remember that phrase. I have been having so much trouble doing all of this and your blog just gave me enough inspiration that I am going to try.

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IMAVISION 4/7/2014 12:34AM

    I wish you continued success in all areas of life!

You are such an inspiration to so many of us!

God bless!

Ima

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LINDSAYB2013 4/6/2014 11:37PM

    You are always an inspiration!

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    emoticon GREAT Blog!
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PCASEY7 4/6/2014 11:11PM

    Loved the blog!

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GIMLEY77 4/6/2014 10:58PM

  thanks for sharing great blog

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LOVELYLINDA491 4/6/2014 6:25PM

    WooHoo yes we can do this together. Thank You for being YOU my emoticon

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MOMMAKNOWSBEST 4/6/2014 5:27PM

  Wow, such power in 6 little words!

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KRISTY927 4/6/2014 5:12PM

    great blog... I never looked at it that way.. thanks for sharing :)

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BHENDRICK2 4/6/2014 2:57PM

    thanks for sharing that

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    emoticon What a great inspiration you are to all of us! You have overcome your demons and now you are stronger then ever inside and out! We all have choices in this life, weather we choose to stay a victim or we will be a survivor! You chose to be a survivor! God bless you! Keep going strong! You are a powerful person! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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ANGELN325 4/6/2014 11:04AM

    What a powerful question to ask when we are battling the demons that keep us in our prisons of sluggish bodies from carrying around extra weight. I will definitely ask myself that next time I'm tempted to just throw caution to the wind and go on a binge. I definitely want the scale to go down this year, but more importantly, I want to do things that take care of my body so my body takes care of me. Sometimes I need the reminder though and your blog gave me that today.

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GINA180847 4/6/2014 10:46AM

    Good luck with it all Beth, you have turned your life totally around and shown us all how to. Thank you so much!

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MEBAZI 4/6/2014 10:04AM

    Thanks for sharing! It is amazing how one question, one quote, one thought, one image and change your way of thinking completely, if you let it! Love it! I'm adding this question to my list of inspirations!!!

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LISA3TIME 4/6/2014 9:52AM

    thanks for the motivation.

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    Those simple truths can be the most important ones. We all need to be reminded of them. Thanks! emoticon

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ROXYCARIN 4/5/2014 11:53PM

  Keep pushing

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  Keep it up

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    thank you

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CAROLJ35 4/5/2014 9:52PM

    THANKS FOR MAKING US REALIZE WHY WE KEEP ON "SPARKIN'!

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MARYJEANSL 4/5/2014 8:37PM

  That is a really, really helpful thought. I only wish I had thought of it myself. Thank you for putting it out on your blog!

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MACLOVIAITA 4/5/2014 8:11PM

    I need to add a comment to this blog. I love reading this blog and see how great to stay connected with this community can help as it has help me also. what Patricia has gone through is something many people go through in their life. It seems almost a miracle and yet it is simple in a way .It takes a lot of strength to take yourself seriously , really love and care for yourself and just do what we are able to do here with so many tools . All we have to do is , we have to WANT TO.THAT'S ALL emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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GRAMSROC 4/5/2014 4:49PM

  We all need motivation, sometimes.

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BABAOF4 4/5/2014 3:55PM

  Thank you. Need to practice " mindful eating" and only eating is something I have to learn. Also I need to learn how to plan meals in advance. God bless you and your husband.

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NOKOMIS57 4/5/2014 2:14PM

    thank you once again!

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SWEETLILBLUEYES 4/5/2014 2:10PM

    You always lift me up and give me hope. I have been very discouraged lately, and feeling like, how can it help, why does it matter, why is it always so hard? So thank you once again Beth, for helping me realize that I am worth the effort!

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JUNETTA2002 4/5/2014 11:53AM

    thanks for sharing

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DAISYPETAL 4/5/2014 10:50AM

    Beth, I wrote that statement to you and it seemed to help a lot of people. I think it even put it into perspective for myself. I am having a terrible time controlling what I put in my mouth. I can talk a good game but when it comes to myself, I let it slide. I am following my tracker and doing at least 6000 steps a day and mostly more. I drink all my water, I sleep the right amount BUT the food is different. I just cannot seem to get my crap together. I hate planning. I even tried not eating after supper but our lifestyle does not allow us to eat our regular dinner until after 7 or 7:30. It is VERY difficult. I am very thankful that I have not gained but I WANT to lose. Darn! Anyway, as I said, eating the wrong food, DOES NOTHING TO SOLVE CHUCK'S HEALTH. You are going to be the one to carry the ball and help him through this difficult time of healing. God is on your side girlfriend. Hugs and get that Dr. called and chew him out! :) Jude

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CUDDLYPOLARBEAR 4/5/2014 10:43AM

    Thanks for sharing

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CRAZYGARDNER1 4/5/2014 10:10AM

  Just happened upon your comment and viewed your page. Your story is very inspiring. I plan to pass it on to a patient on mine who was so discouraged this week. She is a little older but needs new knees but she is not a candidate for surgery due to her weight. She has been turned down for weight loss surgery due to other health problems. We talked about spark people and other options that might be available to her. I hope your story gives her hope and inspires her as it did me. Thank you for sharing

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ALICIA363 4/5/2014 9:58AM

    Fantastic Question! I think I'm going to go and post it on my refrigerator now.
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