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Hugs For You

Monday, July 05, 2010



If I could catch a rainbow
I would do it just for you
And share with you its beauty
On the days you're feeling blue.

If I could build a mountain
You could call your very own;
A place to find serenity,
A place to be alone.

If I could take your troubles
I would toss them in the sea,
But all these things I'm finding
Are impossible for me.

I cannot build a mountain
Or catch a rainbow fair,
But let me be what I know best,
A friend who's always there..



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SUCCESSFUL-GALE 7/7/2010 10:54PM

    Very cute!

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LOZUKE 7/6/2010 6:53AM

    emoticon So Sweet and Very Nice Arlene and love your page
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PINKNFITCARLA 7/5/2010 10:02PM

    Awww, this is such a nice blog! Thanks for the smiles.

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TERMITEMOM 7/5/2010 9:33PM

    Very nice Arlene! PIcs are great!

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FIGHT2SURVIVE 7/5/2010 7:31PM

    I want that chimp! Look at that little face. Who couldn't love that? I am beginning to think you are a real animal lover.
Erin

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PUGRAD1995 7/5/2010 6:47PM

    nice emoticon


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SPARKPIXIE 7/5/2010 4:55PM

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PLAYBLUES22 7/5/2010 4:29PM

    That's sweet emoticon

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BARBARAROSE54 7/5/2010 4:24PM

    Ahhhh the furbabies are adorable !

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ALISA-UCDI-1 7/5/2010 4:24PM

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LITTLE_QUEEN 7/5/2010 3:43PM

    Loved it

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NEWNAC304 7/5/2010 3:24PM

    Nice. Thanks for sharing.

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I Am So Ashamed

Sunday, July 04, 2010

On June 28, in anticipation of the new challenge, Four by the Fourth, I made a rash (though hopeful)statement that I would “work at this to the very best of my ability. I am NOT going to give in to any temptations that will surely be placed before me.” Then I went on to say, “If I lose that four pounds by the Fourth of July, plus just a wee little half pound also, I will reach my goal and will invite you all to my cyber celebration!!
Let's hope I don't show up here in 28 days with my tail between my legs!!

Well, here I am!!



Note the tail between the legs. And yes, I am howling loud and clear!! What did I do?? Why did I let this happen?? I didn’t lose at all, In fact, I gained. I am so ashamed of myself.

But I did learn one thing through all of this. It truly is a life long life style change and to not continue in the same way as I have for the past year, it can all be for naught!!

I am soon going to be active in another challenge and I won’t make any rash statements. But I WILL pay attention to what I am doing. No matter what I eat, it will find its way onto the tracker. I will only get on the scales once a week. For awhile there I was weighing every day and could so easily tell myself that “Oh, that pound or two gained yesterday is no big deal”. But it was a big deal!! Once a week, the scales will tell me where I am and I will listen!!

Wish me luck!!

  
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SUCCESSFUL-GALE 7/7/2010 10:55PM

    No shame allowed! Just keep on working it!

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SIMPLYABUNDANT 7/5/2010 7:48AM

    Please don't feel ashamed. There's not a single one of us who is perfect. I personally avoid challenges to lose a certain amount by a certain date, because how much and how quickly we lose isn't always something that's in our control...and yet so many challenges seem set up that way. Instead, I like challenges where the challenge is to modify our behavior and our actions. For example, reward yourself for working out for at least 30 minutes (or whatever works for your particular fitness level) 5 out of 7 days a week for 12 weeks. Or a "no sugar" challenge for a particular length of time (although that one might kill me!) Then instead of either winning or losing the challenge, give yourself a reward based on how many days out of the total you are successful. Just an idea...

Keep at it though. The biggest challenge of all is to pick yourself up once you're down and keep on going!

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LOZUKE 7/5/2010 6:35AM

    Don't be ashamed Arlene I blew it Big Time!! I am going to try again too......I am going to try again. and again... this time will it be different ? I don't know. but it is all I have and each other emoticonWe can do this.
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PINKNFITCARLA 7/5/2010 1:51AM

    Arlene, no need to feel ashamed! You're human, just like we all are. There is hardly any of us who haven't done the same thing.

The good thing is everyday is a new opportunity to get it right! Take one day at a time and you will get there :-)

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HICALGAL 7/5/2010 12:47AM

    this is a life long thing for sure....unending even when we reach goal. never be ashamed for trying to be your best. hugs and love. emoticon emoticon

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TREEFROGLADY 7/4/2010 8:55PM

    Celebrate the fact that you are alive for another day and have people who care about you. Best wishes! emoticon

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FIGHT2SURVIVE 7/4/2010 7:24PM

    We have a new challenge starting the 10th . Make NO predictions but blow us all out of the water!
Erin

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FATROCKSTAR 7/4/2010 7:11PM

    Don't be too hard on yourself-it happens! It just makes more determined to try and do it the next time, and the scales do move around if you weigh more than once a week (I know this first hand!) Hang in there!

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RONIE11 7/4/2010 6:50PM

    I'm sorry this last challeng didn't work out for you... you gave it your best shot.. I know for me the only thing that keeps me going is by NOT putting junk in my body that way if I over eat at least I have control over what it is.. I wish you the best and I know that with all the support here.. you will be one of the top winners in the challenges ahead.. believe in yourself and take it one day at a time... I didn't do so great either but with out the holiday in our way we should be able make the next one a huge success...

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THENEWME43 7/4/2010 6:06PM

    Baby steps, Arlene. emoticon emoticon

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KITT52 7/4/2010 5:43PM

    so your human, don't be too hard on yourself....
tomorrow is a new day, and a new start....one day at a time....
have a healthy week


Kitt

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CAROL3SAN 7/4/2010 5:37PM

    Don't beat up on yourself too much. We all deserve second chanches.. and third, and fourth chanches. Just keep doing it until the job is done. None of us are perfect. emoticon

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SUSHIMAMA1 7/4/2010 5:09PM

    emoticon Don't be ashamed...we have all been there just pick up dust of and start again, you can do it and we are all cheering for you! emoticon

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MOMWANTSNOWAIST 7/4/2010 4:46PM

    It's ok!! We're all human and it IS hard to lose weight!---Betsy emoticonHave a Happy 4th and emoticon!!!!

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LAFEMMEDELALUNE 7/4/2010 4:38PM

    No need to feel ashamed. You are a strong and wonderful woman, no matter what the scale says!
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PUGRAD1995 7/4/2010 4:34PM

    Hey Arlene, I'm in the hall of shame for weight gain right along side of you. I even lost and then went back up (still hoping it is from holding water). The body does it's own thing and we just have to keep working at it. Fortunately, creative Pixie keeps coming up with motivational challenges to keep us going!

So here's to making Santa a very jolly fellow!
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DEBSZOO74 7/4/2010 4:09PM

    Don't be so hard on yourself! If it was that easy, we wouldn't all be here. I'm really glad that you're not giving up and will be back for the next challenge. I know that emoticon

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WINNIEATWELL2 7/4/2010 3:59PM

    Rest assured, you're not the only one whose done stuff like this. I have done this kind of thing myself. Like the saying goes, try, try again. We gotta keep trying!! Never give up.. It definitely is a lifestyle change..I wish you the best with your next challenge!!

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WINNIEATWELL2 7/4/2010 3:59PM

    Rest assured, you're not the only one whose done stuff like this. I have done this kind of thing myself. Like the saying goes, try, try again. We gotta keep trying!! Never give up.. It definitely is a lifestyle change..I wish you the best with your next challenge!!

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PAULA3420 7/4/2010 3:58PM

    My heart goes out to you. emoticon I've been there, putting my goals out there for the world to see and then falling flat on my face. Good News! There is only one way to go from here and that is UP emoticon i can tell from reading your blog that you have a good plan in place and will make the best of this. emoticon

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GODDESSLIL80 7/4/2010 3:44PM

    All you can do is keep getting back up. Keep getting back on the horse. You CAN do this. Just hang in there.

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RENA1965 7/4/2010 3:33PM

    Don't be hard on yourself.. Hang in there and keep trying..

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SPARKPIXIE 7/4/2010 3:28PM

    Arlene, don't waste a moment of your life on feeling ashamed. I didn't do so hot either. We just need to keep on trying. I believe in you!

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LITTLE_QUEEN 7/4/2010 3:25PM

    Arlene, Please don't feel badly, I was very very lucky to have a loss at all, as I have been binging, and I did not lose a whole 4 pounds, I know that next challenge we are going to do great!

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_COSMOPAULATAN_ 7/4/2010 3:17PM

    It's ok, we forgive you. Keep on, and try again.

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A Copy From Lori~~~~Thanks

Saturday, June 26, 2010

Where is your cell phone?
purse

Spouse?
Gosh! If you find one for me, let me know where he is

Your hair?
mostly grey/white

Your mother?
In Heaven

Your father?
In Heaven

Your favorite thing?
My family and the Ruby Lites

Your dream last night?
Don't believe I had one

Favorite drink?
Coffee

What room are you in?
Bedroom

Your hobby?
Sparking and reading

Your fear?
Almost too many to list; health, finances, family tragedies, etc...

Where do you want to be in 6 years?
Happy and at goal weight

Where were you last night?
Home

Something that you aren't?
at my goal

Muffins?
Pumpkin or blueberry

Wish list item?
More Income

Last thing you did?
read Lori's blog

What are you wearing?
Shirt & shorts

Your pets?
3 spoiled dogs

Friends?
My Spark friends and a gal from church

Your life?
Could be better

Your mood?
Ok

Missing someone?
not right now

Drinking?
Nothing

Your car?
1001 Honda Civic wagon

Something you're not wearing?
shoes

Your favorite store?
Walmart

Your favorite color?
Blue

When is the last time you cried?
yesterday when reading the Rainbow Bridge to two great grand kids

Where do you go over and over?
Spark.com, church and grocery store

Five people who email me regularly?
Sara, Jane, Jan, Jim, Norm

Favorite place to eat?
Any Mexican restaurant

Favorite place I'd like to be right now?
A cabin right on the beach of a nice lake

  
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WINNIEATWELL2 6/26/2010 9:45PM

    These "getting to know you" questions and answers are fun!

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PINKNFITCARLA 6/26/2010 7:12PM

    Love your answers Arlene, especially about the spouse, LOL

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BUFFYSMOM2 6/26/2010 4:23PM

    How fun! Keep it up! emoticon

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SPARKPIXIE 6/26/2010 4:16PM

    I'm going to do this too. Its cool!

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LITTLE_QUEEN 6/26/2010 4:02PM

    Well I got mine from Bobbie, I love these questions as you get to know your friends better

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Why You Always Pickin' On Me??

Friday, June 25, 2010

No I have not seen your lipstick,

why would you even ask me that? I'm insulted! Every time something goes missing around

here, everybody looks at me! For your information, I don't even wear that shade.

It doesn't flatter my complexion and it tastes terrible. oops.







  
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RONIE11 6/26/2010 12:03PM

    ok that was a LAUGH OUT LOUD moment thanks so much for sharing.

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RENA1965 6/25/2010 11:42PM

    emoticon make sure he does jobbies outside or you will have a red carpet lol.. That doggie has a face even I could forgive lol..

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FIGHT2SURVIVE 6/25/2010 11:28PM

    I remember that song - Charlie Brown he's a clown that Charlie Brown
He's gonna' get caught just you wait and see
Why's everybody always pickin' on me?
But that dog is too adorable.
Erin

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CGDINASIA 6/25/2010 10:47PM

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Love it!!!

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LITTLE_QUEEN 6/25/2010 10:33PM

    That is so cute!

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DRURY23 6/25/2010 10:08PM

    HAHAHAHAHA! How cute is that??! Thanks for the smile!!! emoticon

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WINNIEATWELL2 6/25/2010 9:44PM

    emoticon I love it! emoticon

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I Don't Mean To Brag

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

I don't want to brag or make anybody jealous or anything, but I can still fit into the earrings I wore in high school.

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IMESASSY 6/24/2010 5:06PM

    It's good to know your earlobes haven't gotten fat over the years. I HATE WHEN THAT HAPPENS!!!
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Bonnie

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NOW2DAY 6/24/2010 11:48AM

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Me too. I saw that on Kim Benson's website.

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BARBARAROSE54 6/24/2010 9:42AM

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BABYLOSTBACK 6/24/2010 7:40AM

    omg! I'm soo jealous! And how dare you come here and rub it in our faces!lol

You always make me smile!

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FIGHT2SURVIVE 6/24/2010 3:42AM

    OMG. You cracked me up with that one. I think I still wear the same size socks but that's about it.
Erin

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GRAMMY13X 6/23/2010 11:10PM

    That is just too cute. I will have to remember that line. emoticon emoticon emoticon

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SOFEDUPP 6/23/2010 10:24PM

    That was awesome!!!

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MINDYJ1 6/23/2010 10:22PM

    Way to go Arlene! emoticon

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PUGRAD1995 6/23/2010 10:08PM

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you know-I'll have to look but I may have a pair too! Heaven knows nothing else does.



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MARJIJANE 6/23/2010 10:08PM

    ROFL!!!!!! Good one!

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GIGIANDDAISY 6/23/2010 9:53PM

    Cracked me up!!!!!

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TERMITEMOM 6/23/2010 9:47PM

    LOL LOL LOL you are just too much! emoticon

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MARY1313 6/23/2010 9:44PM

    LOL!!!!

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LITTLE_QUEEN 6/23/2010 9:42PM

    emoticon I needed that!

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