Monday, April 04, 2011
Just looking at my Seven!!
My Seven for 2011:
1. Lose 25 pounds.
2. Plan weekly menus.
3. Reestablish lost relationships.
4. Study life of Jesus with Granddaughter, Jill.
5. Plan knitting and quilting projects.
6. Downsize "stuff" to half - again.
7. Drink up to 8 glasses of water daily and take my "pills".
#!. The numbers on the scale are just stuck!! I lost about 10 pounds last year. Have not lost any more - but am feeling so much better - am trying to be more active.
#2. Well, that one needs some work. I am gone many evenings and my son is not always up at dinner time.
#3. Have restored a relationship with my oldest son. We meet every Mon. evening for dinner - he is not ready to come back to my apartment because of his relationship with my son, Geoff who lives with me. My older daughter, Vicki who lives in Salem, is very distant from the family. I am planning to just start writing to her again - the last time she did respond, but the letter seemed very distrusting.
#4. Jill is 10 years old and has been diagnosed with "something". Her mother just gives me the letters - which indicate an explosive temperament. She is now on medication and is doing so much better. I had reached the point that I did not even want to be around her. But, she is doing so much better now - so perhaps it is time. And Jill loves to "play in the dirt" so am going to have her help me with my gardening this summer.
#5. Love to knit and have some projects lined up for the summer. Right now am knitting another pair of socks. Have a couple of quilt tops that i need to get quilted.
#6. Where does all the "stuff" come from??? I now have 4 boxes to take to Salvation Army. Will get that done this week!!!
#7. Am still working on the water!!. I find that I do drink more when i buy the bottled water. What a waste when we have a Brita in the fridge. But, I just do not drink it. So will used the already bottled for this month and the will see. Perhaps if the habit is there i can switch. And, I have the pills in my pocket. I once had a supervisor who told me that is does not work by osmosis - I have to put them in my mouth and swallow them. Maybe I should start doing that.
So, this is where I am. Not doing very well - but, I have at least started. Am planning to definitely finish all by Christmas!!
Friday, April 01, 2011
I do love changes -----I have moved a number of times. In Medford, as a single parent and while my children were growing up, we moved often. My Dad always teased me, "Oh, that place is dirty now so time to move on". And, as a child we moved fairly often - between Oklahoma and Southern California. Then when I was 7, we moved to Medford where I grew up. Now, I have been here in Pendleton and this apartment for almost 5 years. I am getting "ansy" again. But, will probably not be moving this time. I do love my apartment - just the right size, close to downtown, and a beautiful view of the river.
The change I am having a hard time with right now is the loss of our Youth Pastor at church. He was here for almost 10 years and so loved by the youth. I am so sure that where ever he goes, he will do well. I miss his "Good Mornings" over the intercom and just his presence in the building. I will certainly miss watching his son, Liam, grow up.
Change in our lives is inevitable but how we handle it is our choice. So, I am going to pray the very best for Pastor Joseph, Candace and Liam and know that God is in control. When a new Youth Pastor occupies the office downstairs, I know that I will grow to love him too.
There is a change in the air too this morning. Instead of the cloudy sky outside my window, the sun is shining so bright!! There are a few dark clouds overhead and there may be some rain, but I know the sun is still shining and Spring will soon be here. (I have some geraniums ordered from a friend at church)
"There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under Heaven:
a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,....
a time to weep and a time to laugh.......
He has set eternity in the hearts of men; yet they cannot fathom what God ha done from beginning to end."
Ecclesiastes 3:1-4, 11
What a good reminder for me that I have a choice in how I see my life and what I do with the time God has given me. A choice to stay overweight and feel sorry for myself because I am so "unloved"--------or know that God created me and loves me just as I am. And, with that I can go out and "conquer" my little world. I can make the changes I need to make to lose weight, eat more healthy, exercise daily, and smile at the world.
So now to my "7 for 2011" . I need to post them on my home page and get out my index card daily as a reminder!! I have been sorta working on them. Have definitely restored a relationship with my oldest son. But, I have a daughter in Salem that I have not communicated with for a few years. That one will take some thought as to how to proceed.
Saturday, March 12, 2011
Yesterday morning I had heard about the earthquake in Japan, but had not learned the extent until later in the afternoon. My sister lives in Brookings and I called her to ask about the extent of the damage there. She said the tsunami had destroyed the docks there and a number of boats were lost. There were a number of business in that area, but she did not know how much damage they had received.
I have been looking at the pictures and just cannot imagine what the people there are experiencing. But, I know that God is watching over them. Now, all I can do is pray for them.
Sunday, February 27, 2011
Am reading "In a Pit with a Lion on a Snowy Day" by Matt Batterson and found this:
"God is great not just because nothing is too big for Him. God is great because nothing is too small for Him either."
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
At the beginning of the year our Pastor told us we should slow down and learn to just say "No!". In December he had cellulitis in his leg - spent 4 days in the hospital - and was off most of the month. So he learned how important it is to just rest at times.
However, it seems like my life has gotten busier. Well, actually the things I am doing are adding so much to my life!! Monday evenings I am working on #3 of my goals for the year. (Restoring lost relationships). Am meeting my oldest son who had withdrawn from the family - again. This week we met with his Dad to celebrate my son's 49th birthday. (And I thought I was only 49!!) Oh, well. We had such a good time - just reminiscing and sharing stories.
Am walking a little more - slowly adding steps so my weekly average is going up. And, have lost another pound - even tho I have not been tracking my food intake. Actually, just do not have much of an appetite - except when I have gone out for dinner.
Have been spending more time with Jill, my 10 year old granddaughter. Will soon start our Bible study.
Have finished knitting a scarf for my Pastor's wife and have started another for me. Also, am hand-piecing a quilt for my oldest granddaughter who is getting married in March. The quilt however will not be finished before at least Christmas. (They had originally planned to get married in Sept.)
Am still sorting and tossing in my bedroom. Have discarded some books and taken a couple of boxes to the Salvation Army. Feels so good to have my closet cleaned out.
So, I feel like I am right on track. Just want to focus now on losing a couple more pounds this month. Better get with it!!!
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