Butterfinger day!! Help!!

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Ok, so this is not one of those stories where I have a lofty point at the very end. In fact, this is just one of those stories where it just helps to stand back and …. Laugh!

So this morning when I got to my office, I put down my purse, my lunch bag, and my lovely pink Susan G. Komen lunch bag. Then I started up my computer and did a few other things before I realized that the 1% milk in my Komen bag had gotten knocked over and there was 8 ounces of milk on the indoor-outdoor carpet! Let me tell you, 8 ounces of milk may not seem like that much when you are drinking it with your lunch, but when it spreads out across the carpet it seems to take forever to wipe up with paper towels! Mind you, an infinite supply of said paper towels! So after a lot of exercise from bending down to soak up the milk and walking back and forth to the kitchen area for more paper towels, the mess was finally gone. Now I needed to concentrate on replacing the milk. Tricky point since I did not feel like walking to the local snack shop for more milk. Thankfully, I was able to find someone who was on their way over there to get more coffee and he picked me up some milk.

Not to belabor the point but I have spent the rest of the day not being able to hold onto things!! Normally, this is not a problem for me but today is a completely different matter!! Oh well! Pretty soon I will be able to go home and spend the rest of my day under the covers!!

So my gut feeling is that this all started because of jealousy on the part of my Komen bag! It has heard rumor that I recently ordered a nice large size thermal lunch tote from the Breast Cancer Site! If only I had told my Komen bag sooner that the new bag is an enhancement, not a replacement!!! Oh well!! No sense crying over spilt milk!! LOL!!! Can't blame me for the pun!!

My jealous bag is the Zebra pattern in the middle!





Since someone asked, here is the link to the Lean Cuisine Susan G. Komen website where I ordered my jealous bag. These lunch bags are from the 2007 series so I am not sure if any of those 3 bags are available for order still. But in the FAQ, you can click on a link to sign up for their 2009 series notification.

www.leancuisine.com/Komen2007/Index.
aspx


And in case you were wondering about my new bag, here is the link for the Breast Cancer Site:

shop.thebreastcancersite.com/store/i
tem.do;jsessionid=E14466A2819439361578
AC3D85BBA969.store-c?itemId=33498&site
Id=224&sourceId=1480&sourceClass=Category&index=4


And here is the link to click daily for helping give women in need free mammograms:

www.thebreastcancersite.com/clickToG
ive/home.faces?siteId=2

  

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1FAVOREDLADY 6/20/2009 5:40PM

LoL You tell that jealous bag it better learn about being thankful, cause IT could have been a fill n toss----- yep and where might it be today but it's not so......tee Report Inappropriate Comment

MRS_TOAD 6/18/2009 7:15PM

Mario should know to be more careful when he packs your lunch! Make him earn his salary! Report Inappropriate Comment

NANCY1204 6/18/2009 7:10PM

I've had those days! Love the bag. Thanks for the links nancy co-leader stressed out moms/women gettin' healthy Report Inappropriate Comment

ADLINS 6/18/2009 5:09PM

Lordy, I've had those days. My worst - a 32 oz soda. Everywhere. Second place.. a soda can that exploded on impact in my pantry. Only about half of it sprayed, but heavens, I found soda when I moved! For about 4 ounces, it sure went to a lot of places (and set of the house alarm when it exploded which just about gave me a heart attack; took kitty about an hour to forgive me). Cool bag. I didn't know you could order stuff from them, so I'll keep that in mind for my next lunch bag. Comment edited on: 6/18/2009 5:09:47 PM Report Inappropriate Comment

GINGE75 6/18/2009 4:57PM

Cute bag! Report Inappropriate Comment

SALAVAD 6/18/2009 4:01PM

LOL!! I think we have all had days like that. I used to get the serious dropsies right before I would get my period. I really like that bag - what site did you use to order it? Report Inappropriate Comment

Am I a bad mom if I am apathetic about my son graduating HS in a few days??

Thursday, June 11, 2009

I really hate to admit this. I have been such a devoted mother over the years to the children. When they were little, I specifically worked part time so I could be home while still contributing to the family budget. Sometimes, our budget got really, really tight during those many years but hubby and I felt that working 3 days a week was more than enough time away from the children.

Three years ago when my daughter graduated HS, it was a huge celebration!! Hail the conquering hero!! She worked very hard and her graduation was a celebration of that hard work!! She had a super GPA and she is/was ready to light the world on fire when she got to college! And she has done awesome!!! (Check out my blog a few blogs back about my bragging on my daughter for more details!)

But this time around I am completely apathetic. In fact, I got one of my SILs in trouble for not telling her when graduation was. I had no intention of getting her into hot water but the topic of graduation never came up! (I eventually sent her an email apologizing for my part in the fiasco!) Why? Could it be because my son has aggravated me so very much during his last 6 or so years of school? His GPA is barely 2.0? That it seems like he has missed more school than attended? He has no plans for life after graduation? (And let me add that he has no job since he quit his job 3 weeks ago because he wanted to go to a party. And he has not done any job hunting!) BTW, mooching is not an option and will not be allowed under my roof!!! His general attitude and how he treats me and my husband? A few months ago, my MIL was all excited about throwing him a graduation party after the pomp and circumstance ceremony. But in the past 2 weeks, despite repeated requests by me, hubby, and his grandmother leaving him several voice messages, he cannot return her call to let her know who he would like to invite to HIS party!! She is so dejected that she has soured from going all out and cooking her fantastic meals to going out and buying BBQ. In his laziness and disrespect, my son has really hurt his grandmother's feelings!

OK, so there is the root of this apathy. Therefore, I will celebrate graduation because he chose to finish HS when he could have gone in so many other directions. I will celebrate that he has completed a huge undertaking that not everyone finishes. But beyond that, I cannot think of much else to celebrate! Maybe one day there will a parade but not in the near future!!

  

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DEMIKIT 6/17/2009 7:20PM

My FIL has a saying about teenagers: "You are really just taking care of the body until the brain gets in." I am so sorry to hear that he has hurt you and others with his lack of interest. It may be, since he is smart, that he just didn't feel challenged by school and so he isn't apathetic so much as just plain bored.. My husband was that way in high school. But whatever the reason, I can only echo what others here have said: You are a great mom, and don't question that. You may feel like you are being harsh, but it sounds to me like you are actually giving him the tools, and teaching him the lessons, that will help him to survive in the real world. I know that you let him know that you love him, and it sounds to me like your judgements have been good in this. Report Inappropriate Comment

LIGHTNINGRUNNER 6/14/2009 5:34AM

You are so far from a bad mom...in reality you are a great mom. You are letting him be responsible for him. He is choosing his bed so now it is time to let him lie in it. As long as he knows and has known the consequences of his choices. No job - what no money for food and a roof over your head....I think much too often these days - parents allow their kids to do what they want and still coddle them. He doesn't want to respond to his grandmother about his party....there just won't be one...whose fault is it....HIS not yours. Go with an easy feeling, you have raised him and done well. He will be learning a lesson that too often kids these days never learn. They are responsible for their decisions and for every decision there are consequences. Report Inappropriate Comment

JENNIFER124 6/13/2009 9:45PM

its been a rough several years... i think that your feelings are warranted.. sounds like you are a GREAT mom...jen Report Inappropriate Comment

BRENCOR19 6/12/2009 8:57AM

Good morning! I think as mothers we expect that we should be able to handle anything and when we cant we blame ourselves! That is not how this world works. We as mothers are not responsible for every action that our children commit! Will we never learn that. Your son is old enough to know that there are consequences to everything that he does! He knows right from wrong and he knows what he is doing! He is responsible.....NOT YOU! Enjoy your day! You got him through high school! Nowadays that is a great accomplishment! Share in that spotlight because he probably wouldnt have made it without you badgering him the whole time! My daughter will be a senior this year and after the last year and half with her I really think she might be coming around but it hasnt been easy and it wont get easier and I still hope to get her graduated without getting pregnant..darn shame that is our goals! Have a party invite your famiy and your friends and celebrate the fact that you dont have to worry about him and homework or attending school! You now will have other worries because it never stops.....being a mom! You are great and YOU deserve a party! If he shows up and enjoys himself that is just icing on the cake! have a great day and know in your heart that we all go through this and we all survive it and we all love YOU! You are a great mom! Someone once told me that "God created the teenager so it would be easier to let our babies go"! I think we never let go we just hold on different! Report Inappropriate Comment

MRS_TOAD 6/12/2009 8:05AM

You are far from a bad mom! You have had a very rough couple years and now he has only added to your frustration levels! Of course, you are upset! He has repeatedly hurt you and your DH and now Grandma! Easy up on yourself and just be thankful that he has graduated. Maybe, just maybe, he doesn't want a party and doesn't know how to tell you?!?!? Report Inappropriate Comment

CELLEBRUCE 6/12/2009 12:58AM

You are definitely NOT a bad mom!! I have 4 daughters, the first two did great in high school and went on to college. The last two have not been quite so easy, however. My baby graduated a few weeks ago and although she didn't have a horrible GPA it wasn't great either. So, in my mind, I'm thrilled she made it. She had some serious issues since she was 15, so it was difficult to be to hard on her. If for no other reason, why don't you celebrate the graduation because you made it through. Two down and two to go!! Either way, good luck and you will be in my prayers. Report Inappropriate Comment

XHASTEDMOMOF2 6/12/2009 12:53AM

That is a really good question and one that I wish I knew the answer to. He is highly gifted in math and reading. In fact when the school gave him one of those tests to see what he should study in college, aerospace engineering was first on the list of results!! I really hope he grows up soon and and learns to take pride in his effort so he can stop getting by with just a minimum effort! Report Inappropriate Comment

DRSOOO 6/11/2009 11:40PM

Any ideas about why he is apathetic? I am fascinated at the way children in the same family turn out. One can be super successful and another barely functioning at all. I hope you stand your ground though, albeit with plenty of love and understanding. Good luck! Report Inappropriate Comment

ADLINS 6/11/2009 9:16PM

You should celebrate the graduation. One thing my brother taught me is that college is not for everyone, but there are plenty of options out there that are good. I totally understand where you're coming from. Hard to celebrate something that has not had a lot of effort put toward it. If he'd worked his butt of for the C average, that would be one thing, but he hasn't really worked for it. Which is sad. Like my brother, I think he has a ton of potential, it's just right now he's adrift. I totally agree with the no mooching. i also think, sooner rather than later, he'll come around. Sadly, he won't be able to undo the hurt he's caused his grandmother. I never got to know my grandparents, so I always find it very sad when those who have grandparents don't realize what a true gift it is. But, I also think this is just part of his teenage years. Hang in there! And, truly, congratulations on his graduation, because you're right... the alternative would be no diploma and this is much better. Report Inappropriate Comment

Musings in my little corner of the world! Ups and Downs!!

Friday, June 05, 2009

This week has been a little different but that is OK. First, I am still resting my right knee. Aches and pains are nothing new as I am a retired NCAA gymnast. You cannot compete all those years thru high school and college and expect to come out of it with your joints unaffected, especially by the time you hit age 5-0!! My knee does seem to bother me quite a bit lately but I just have no desire to go to the doctor. I truly expect he would tell me to take anti-inflammatory drugs and rest; maybe even a shot of cortisone. (No thanks -- been there, done that way too many times!!) So I would rather save my money and time. Recently, I have discovered that "resting" my knee truly means resting it!! Not just sitting in a chair but actually stretching out my legs as if I was sitting in a recliner or sitting up in bed. At least I have been able to catch up on a lot of shows that I can stream on my computer.

The print shop where hubby works has been really slow lately; to the point that I have been rather nervous about their viability. It appears as tho my fears were well founded as they cut everybody's hours to 32 a week. At least the owner is taking steps to avoid closing the plant!! So hubby and I have been figuring out our finances. Thankfully as long as I can keep my internet, cable, and electricity, I will be able to continue to afford my beloved Sparks!!



Along the way in our financial discussions, hubby and I have told our son he is being totally cut loose, financially speaking. We also told him if he wants to keep his pick-up truck, we are going to need his help making the payments. For several months now, I have not given my son any money. Hubby gives our son gas money and entertainment money every so often. But that well has run dry. Face it, if my son can quit his job because he wants to go to a party, then he can face the consequences of his stupidity; especially after I used to constantly remind him to watch his step because he had something a lot of people do not -- A job!! And he up and quits over a party? So be it!! Since he quit his job 2 weeks ago, I can tell you exactly how many job interviews Mr. Lazybones has been on but I think you already figured out that number!! Is he still going in the Navy? Probably not because it would interrupt his play time!

Earlier this week I went to the neurologist. I first went about a month ago because my restless legs were keeping me up. So this was a followup visit. We discussed adjusting the meds she has me on. But the big excitement for me was that I weighed 4 pounds less on their scale since my first visit! I have not adjusted my weight tracker because the “official” weight is my home scale and I will weigh myself this weekend. And no, I am still not having relief from those burning legs as I would like and it is still keeping me from sleeping; but we're getting there!!

I also had my annual OB visit. That did not go well. I told the dr that I had been a bit sore on my left side for a few weeks now. She said she could feel something so she ordered the heavy duty, extra squashy mammogram and sonogram. She also said she was pretty sure it would not be anything bad but better safe than sorry! The earliest I could get in was next Wednesday, June 10th. I will keep you all posted on the results.

Earlier this week, my SIL's father passed away. He was 90 when he succumbed to cancer. And yes, he truly did live a full life!! The viewing was last night so hubby and I went to support hubby's brother and of course, his brother's wife. It was as nice as a viewing can get and they had placed a rose in her father's hands for his dear departed wife. I expect they will close the casket with the rose still in his hands which I think is very sweet. My poor SIL has had a very rough week as she was in the dr's office discussing the cyst on her son's brain when she got the cell phone call with the news about her father. It is still early in the case with my teenage nephew so they are still trying to figure out what to do next.

After the viewing, hubby and I met my dad and stepmom for dinner at a place called Trader's Seafood and Ale. It was right near the Chesapeake Bay on Maryland's Eastern shore. We actually walked out near the rocky edge and took some pictures while savoring the salt water smell!! The food at Trader's was really good and I tried to stick to my diet; but alas, the crab dip and cream of crab soup were beyond yummylicious!! At least I had the crabmeat and shrimp salad! And the Old Bay seasoning on the boiled crab and shrimp was just enough that I barely used any salad dressing!! So for the first time in several days, I went over my limit. Oh well; such is life!! At least the food and company were very good!

So that has been my life this past week or so. I am still resting my bum knee but at the same time staying under my calorie max for most days. Oh, and I really have been getting antsy to get back to my Wii workouts!! Knee first, tho!!!!

  

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JENNTINYSAM 6/10/2009 7:03AM

Get that knee better. i wondered why you werent posting any miles. You were keeping me on my toes. Get better and have a wonderful day. Report Inappropriate Comment

AQUAGIRL08 6/8/2009 10:28AM

Hi, I love that you're so positive despite all of the things going on in your life right now. It's good that you are putting yourself at the top of the list and resting your knee and going to the neurologist about your restless legs. I never knew that restless legs could be so painful. Sure hope your meds will help you with that. I'm praying for your SIL and family as well as for hubby's job. You are doing so well with the stress. I lived in the Maryland area (just outside D.C.) for 40 years before moving to Florida. Nothing compares to Maryland crab! I'm glad to see that you're practicing tough love with your son. He may think he hates you now, but he'll love you even more later in his life. Stand your ground! It 's hard but well worth it in the long run. Some kids need a boot in the butt in order to step up to the plate of responsibility. I wish you well - it may get worse before it gets better! Hugs, Cyndi Report Inappropriate Comment

ADLINS 6/7/2009 9:49PM

Wow! I'll keep my fingers crossed for your mammogram and will keep you and your nephew and your SIL in my prayers. No matter how expected, the death of someone close to you, esp a parent, is never easy. I hope the meds help with your legs - I know what it's like to have something like that keep you awake at night. I think you're doing the right thing for your knee - it's hard, but you have to take care of yourself. As for your son, also the right thing. He's young and eventually he'll figure it out, but till then, the road for all will most likely be bumpy. Here's hoping this week is better! Report Inappropriate Comment

DEMIKIT 6/6/2009 8:19PM

Good to see you staying so cheerful with all this going on. Let us know how the doctor's appointments go, and do keep resting your knee!! I will say a prayer for your SIL & her family. And also for your hubby's job. :) And by the way, I think that you absolutely did the right thing with your son. A lot of folks would be second-guessing themselves with something like that, but don't... It is time that he learn that responsibility and fun do not have to be mutually exclusive!! Report Inappropriate Comment

1FAVOREDLADY 6/6/2009 4:42PM

Some times life just isn't fair. I am so glad God never leaves us nor forsakes us. That is very comforting especially in this time for your sil. I see you are still hanging on to a positive attitude and this is wonderful Report Inappropriate Comment

MRS_TOAD 6/6/2009 1:10PM

You have had your share this week! Keep Sven working for you! I'll pick up the tab. Report Inappropriate Comment

JAYCEE77 6/5/2009 8:03PM

I'm sorry to hear that your knee has been bothering you. It always seems to be something, especially the older we get! I think I've heard of that restaurant and the famous Cream of Crab soup and one great meal will not ruin a good eating plan. We all need a special time like that to make up for the crappy times. May you have more great times than crappy times! I'll be saying a prayer for you and your family. Janet Report Inappropriate Comment

CHEFROSE 6/5/2009 7:38PM

Glad to hear from you. Your son sounds like he is going through the I know more than my parents syndrome. There is no known cure! Seems like as old as that disease is someone would have come up with a cure! I'm sure they'll win the Nobel Prize. I hope you will feel better. I also go back to the doctor on the 10th. I will be praying for the best for you. Your friend, Rose Report Inappropriate Comment

Great verse from Romans to try to remember!!

Thursday, May 28, 2009

I get different Christian newsletters in my email. I like them because they generally take a verse and then explain how it can apply to my life. Some of these I can relate to while a few are a good read but otherwise they leave me lukewarm.

When I got this one from Joel Osteen, I knew this one was destined to become imprinted into my heart. From the moment I read the verse, I felt a strong connection. "We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation". (Romans 5:3-4, NLT).

Joel goes on to say, “Did you know that the way you handle your adversities has a huge impact on your success in life? If you shrink back, choose to get bitter, and lose your enthusiasm, then you are allowing the difficulties of life to bury you. You are allowing hardship to keep you from your God-given destiny. But if you choose to keep pressing forward with a smile on your face, rejoicing even in the hard times, you are allowing God’s character to be developed inside of you. You are setting yourself up for promotion.
Did you know that the only difference between a piece of black coal and a priceless diamond is the amount of pressure that it’s endured? When you stand strong in the midst of the trials and difficulties in life, when you allow God to shape and mold your character, it’s like going from a piece of coal to a priceless diamond. Those difficulties are going to give way to new growth, new potential, new talent, new friendships, new opportunities, new vision. You’re going to see God develop your life in ways that you’ve never even dreamed!”

Joel finishes with a marvelous prayer: “Father in heaven, thank You for giving me strength to overcome every obstacle in life. I choose to rejoice no matter what may come against me because I know You are working all things together for my good. Thank You for developing Your character in me. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.”


So the next time I have a setback with my diet, another fight with my son, or the doctor adjusts my meds again, I will remember that these are all part of my personal growth and that I should face them boldly. Now I just have to remember to fall back on this the next time my son (who now owes me 3 ring payments because I chose to be nice and help out), up and quits his job because he has a party he wants to go to!!

  

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BRENCOR19 6/3/2009 3:18PM

Thank You! I need to follow this! I need to stop this boohooing and get a grip! I need to pony up and be strong! Ineed to let God do what His Will will do! Thank you! I am printing this off and I am putting it in different places so I can be strong. For me, for my husband, my children, my mother in law and for GOD! It is often hard to just let go. Even when we know that God will not give us any more than he knows we can handle. It is hard to release everything and say "Whatever happens is God's Will!" It was hard when I was trying to get my daughter away from that boy that was controlling her evey minute. But once I finally said whatever and went on living for the rest of this family and taking care of everyone, even myself did she finally see the light! So now this tumor is finally roaring its ugly head and the doctor said it is time to take it out. No other option and I am scare to death but I cant walk around here crying and depressed worrying if he will survive this surgery! If this is my trial then I will stand strong and deal with it. I have cried enough. I can handle this and I will get through it! He will be fine! He is a strong healthy man and I need to remember that. He tells me all the time he is not ready to go anywhere! I know it really isnt in his hands but he is confident and he doesnt need me out here crying while he is in there with his head open! Thanks I need this! I can cry on my own time because it scares the sh*t out of me that they are doing brain surgery on my best friend but this too shall pass! I got my girls beside me and we will stand together and get him through this nightmare! I hope things are going better with your son! I dont have any advice because I am drained but I hope that things start to get better! My daughter is still doing good. She seems to be through with him and moved on. Lets hope it stays that way! Report Inappropriate Comment

ADLINS 5/28/2009 10:41PM

It is so true! Every time something goes wrong, I sit back and look for the lesson. Cause, there is always one. I try to learn for next time. So far, it's always something different the "next time" but I'm stronger because of everything that has come before. I'm also finding that it helps me help those experiencing what I have in the past, which is also a blessing. Report Inappropriate Comment

DEMIKIT 5/28/2009 9:24PM

Thanks for posting this, I really needed this today!! Here is to all of us diamonds-in-the-making!! lol Report Inappropriate Comment

MRS_TOAD 5/28/2009 4:21PM

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for putting perspective into my day! I so needed this blog! I am so grateful for these words and my hubby doesn't even know what a great gift you gave him! Ok, so maybe he does sense the gift you gave me, but also to him. He just called before leaving work and in the conversation asked, "Is your knee that much better? What changed?" Comment edited on: 5/28/2009 4:52:04 PM Report Inappropriate Comment

TEACHINKIDS2 5/28/2009 4:01PM

Thanks for sharing! I enjoyed reading :) Report Inappropriate Comment

COCOBUTTERFLY 5/28/2009 2:49PM

Thank you so much for your post- I really, really needed to be reminded of that today. God is always good. Its up to us to press through the tough times. Thanks again! Report Inappropriate Comment

Even after 28 years, I still miss you, mom!!

Saturday, May 23, 2009

To say my mom and I had a rocky relationship would not even begin to describe what my childhood was like. Without dragging too many skeletons out of the closet, I will leave it at my mom had her demons and they most definitely controlled her life for way too long. As a child, you have no clue why the world is playing out like it is and you just do your best to survive. Finally when I was 14, my father divorced my mother as a way to save our sanity. To this day, I marvel at how he was able to take on the challenge of raising 2 kids while being a single dad in the 70's but that will be another blog!

When I was 18, my mother finally turned it around. She had an extremely acute attack of pancreatitis. She spent a week in ICU on a cooling blanket and nobody was sure if she would make it. Thankfully, she did and the doctors told her she had to do several things if she wanted to live. They told her she would have to quit the alcohol, quit the drugs, quit smoking, and she would have to lose almost 200 pounds as she weighed over 300 pounds then. AND they also told her she had to everything at once because her life depended on it.

She chose to clean up her act. It was not easy as first but she did everything the doctors had told her to do. I remember one time I went to visit her. She had boiled a pot of sliced yellow squash and she salted and peppered the squash once it was done cooking and that was her meal! And yes, she enjoyed it!!

She truly relished her new lease on life. She was very proud of herself and how she had got back her figure. She even took up disco dancing lessons! I included a picture from one of her classes. I specifically chose this one because she was so very proud of her shapely legs!




Then came the day of my 22nd birthday. I got a call from my uncle wishing me well and, oh by the way, your mother has been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer that has spread throughout her body and she has less than 6 months to live. But she did not make 4 months! I strongly believe to this day that had she not had the cancer, she would still be dancing and enjoying life without any chemical enhancement. She never backslid into her old ways during that short time she was fighting for her life. And fight she did! She would go to her chemo appointments an hour early to start wearing the ice hat so she could keep as much of her hair as she could. (Apparently wearing the ice hat freezes the capillaries in the roots of the hair so the chemo cannot reach them.) And when she lost her battle 28 years ago today, she really did have a pretty good head of hair!

Mom, I know you are in heaven so you know I have missed you. There were countless times when the babies were little when I really could have used your kind touch or even a hug. And I still remember how I would walk over from the college campus to meet you for lunch; so you know how long it took before I finally stopped trying to call you to see if you were free for lunch. Even now I still think about you and wonder what you would be like right now and how your grandchildren would also enjoy hanging out with you. I know you would still be your happy carefree spirit that you were those last 3 years of your life because if anyone can go thru what you went thru and not go back to your old ways, then they know what life is really all about!! So yes, even after 28 years, I still miss you! I love you, mom!

  

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CJROMB 7/9/2009 7:11PM

What a beautiful blog. I lost my mom to cancer when I was 19 and she was 45. We hadn't really made up yet, and I'd give anything in the world now if we had. I'm so glad for you and your mom that she did have some time with her life turned around. I'm sorry you don't have her now and thanx for sharing. Report Inappropriate Comment

U8RMY007 6/26/2009 6:45PM

Thank you for sharing! Report Inappropriate Comment

LOTSACATSME 5/25/2009 12:35AM

What a beautiful story, thanks for sharing. Sharon Report Inappropriate Comment

MRS_TOAD 5/24/2009 1:16PM

Thanks for sharing such a beautiful story with all of us! Report Inappropriate Comment

MOBAYGIRL 5/24/2009 11:51AM

I don't even know what to say but what a beautiful story and thank you so very much for sharing. Reminds the rest of us to appreciate what we have while we have it as we never know when it will be gone, whether it be loved ones or good health. Comment edited on: 5/24/2009 11:53:21 AM Report Inappropriate Comment

SHERRILOU47 5/23/2009 8:43PM

Your blog was really beautiful and your mom, wow, she was a very pretty lady...I think that one of the things I am most thankful for is the memories that God allows us to keep...sometimes there are the not so good mingled in with the good, but the good ones seem to stand out more.. I am sure you do miss your mom so very much..I know I miss mine.. I was just sharing with someone the other day that my mom could not have been voted "mother of the year", however neither could I..so from your blog, you reminded me of the wonderful memories that I have held onto... Thanks for sharing those memories with us, and the most awesome part of it was that your mom turned her life around and never went back to her old ways.. Now that is a wonderful legacy she left for you.. Have a blessed day, Hugs and Prayers, Sherrilou Report Inappropriate Comment

SLENDERELLA2010 5/23/2009 6:05PM

I loved reading your blog today. I admire how you have taken the high road and realize that your Mom had her areas of brokenness and you forgive her for that. She must have been SO PROUD of you, so grateful for your forgiveness. You're a special woman. God bless your mom for having you. Sue Report Inappropriate Comment

TINYBITES 5/23/2009 3:29PM

AWWWWWW! many blessing to you and your family, I know she is proud of you too, I believe you will see her dance again! stephanie Co-Leader "Stressed Out Moms/Women Gettin' Healthy" Comment edited on: 5/23/2009 3:29:40 PM Report Inappropriate Comment