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Tried on summer dresses

Thursday, May 17, 2012

I have a high school graduation to go to, so I went to the department store to shop for a new outfit. When I'm heavier, I usually gather up a few outfits, try them on and just buy the one that fits, whether or not its flattering.

Today, I went to the store and tried on five summer dresses. I looked terrific in four of them! Instead of seeing lumps, rolls, bumps and double chins, I saw toned shoulders and arms, smooth, clear skin and the beginnings of an actual jawline and waist. How often does THAT happen? I was so undecided about which dress to buy that I had to put them on hold while I think it over.

Tomorrow, I have an appointment with a nutritionist to discuss my prediabetes. I sent her two week's worth of my SP food diaries along with responses to some questions she emailed me. I am looking forward to getting feedback on how I can improve my eating habits.

Overall, it's been a good day, which is something I never take for granted.


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SONYALATRECE 5/18/2012 3:58PM

I'm SO proud of you, soror!
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FLEURGARDEN 5/18/2012 11:24AM

    Woo Hoo! Congratulations! I have always hated trying on clothes, but doesn't it feel awesome when you actually like how you look? emoticon

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BARBAELLEN 5/17/2012 11:41PM

    Bad days, good days. This was a GOOD one! I know we're supposed to focus on the physical benefits of all our hard work, but realizing you look terrific while trying on new dresses is hard to beat! No question, this should help alleviate your frustration as you work your way past that crummy plateau!


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LMGBRIAN 5/17/2012 10:41PM

    :-) congrats on your shopping success and new found confidence! Since you put them all on hold pick the one you like best for the graduation then keep trying on things it can be very motivating to see your progress in styles you might not have chosen before.

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Sooo Frustrated with the Scale

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Time for a divorce. From my bathroom scale, that is. I weighed myself yesterday and learned that I'd gained half a pound (of water). It seems that when the scale doesn't give me immediate good news, I weigh constantly until the scale gives me a number I want. Daily weigh ins are probably fine for maintenance, but I'm gonna go nuts if this continues.

So I've pledged that after my official weigh in on Saturday, that I won't weigh again until Saturday, June 9th. At least then, I'll have a couple of weeks of sanity.

I am working diligently to move off of this plateau. I've read and implemented all of the SP tips about changing up the exercise, calorie cycling, etc. What the articles and message boards DON'T tell you is how LONG it takes to see results.

The only cure to a plateau I'm seeing is patience, which I'm ABOUT to run out of. I'm just SO frustrated with plateauing at such a high number. Why not a plateau when I'm 15 lbs from goal?? Why not a plateau because I quit tracking my food or reduced my exercising?? But NOOOO!! It has to happen when I'm RAMPING UP the exercise and CONSISTENTLY keeping a food diary!!

In the words of the late, great Marvin Gaye, "Makes me wanna holler; throw up both my hands."

For real---I'm literally ready to scream. But the only thing I can do is just keep on keepin' on.


Time to press forward.


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DIBANANA 5/17/2012 7:53PM

  I agree with you on divorcing the scale. You know you are doing what you should to lose. It will show up when you least expect it!. Once a week weighing is better than daily!

Hang in there.

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AANGEL3 5/16/2012 5:57PM

    Yep...I'm right there with you. Up a half pond or so..then down a half pound or so. I was weighing everyday but I've stopped doing that...or I'm trying too. It's just too depressing! emoticon

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FLEURGARDEN 5/16/2012 4:24PM

    Glad to know I'm not the only one who keeps weighing myself in hopes of seeing a number I like better than the first one (or two, or three). :-)

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JAZZEJR 5/16/2012 2:33PM

    Why not then? Because the weight loss will show tomorrow or next week!!! IF you stay on your plan. Who says you haven't actually already lost a lb that's just not showing on the scale? I read that even barometric pressure can affect the scale--nothing to do with our bodies. So yes, divorce yourself from the scale for now--you two can have a reconciliation in a week :)

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BARBAELLEN 5/16/2012 2:30PM

    I've commented before that I LOVE your blogs, because they remind me to practice patience (which is not my strong suit). Sooooo -- I suggest you go back and read your previous blogs (and your weight tracker) to remind yourself that patience and persistence HAVE worked! They will continue to do so!

BTW, if you think that plateaus will be easier to handle when you're nearer your goal, think again. You're gonna get there, but losing pounds is a much slower process when working from a reduced base, so get ready to add patience workouts to your program. :)

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Why I am doing Sparkpeople

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

This week, I'm really trying to stay focused on WHY I am doing the SP program. Yes, I want to lose weight. Yes, I want to look good in my clothes, but most of all, I'm highly motivated to AVOID diabetes. It was that self-talk that got me to the gym yesterday. When I told myself that I didn't FEEL like working out, the immediate response I had was "Then, do you FEEL like being a diabetic??" My internal critic was silenced and I drove to the gym without further ado.
I still have my medium-term goal to lose 20 lbs by August 31st, but my real motivation is to reduce my blood sugar count. I am scheduled for a third blood test around July or August. If I drop the weight, that will bring my total weight loss to 45 lbs.

Yesterday, after I left the gym, I ran up two flights of stairs without getting winded. It was only when I was near the top of the second flight that I realized how remarkable that was. Six months ago, two flights of stairs would've left me breathless and winded.

I thought my daughter was going to treat me to a Sunday buffet on mother's day. I was wrong. My gift was a 1 hour massage at a swanky day spa in an upscale Kansas City suburb. That was two days ago and I'm still feeling calm, cool and collected.

No real change on the scale...yet. After bouncing up and down between two pesky pounds, I'm back down to my lowest recorded weight. My official weigh in is on Saturday morning so hopefully, the scale will continue to move down. For extra help, I've cut my calories to the low end of my range, cut out soft drinks, and am taking tea with lemon juice. Yesterday, at the gym, I worked hard--switching between jogging and walking on the treadmill and tackling the elliptical using lots of resistance. By the time I finished, I was drenched in sweat.

So what if there's no change on the scale this week, either? I keep mixing it up, keep my body guessing, but regardless---I stay on program.

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MRFUZZ 5/15/2012 11:41PM

    You just gave me more motivation. My dr told me exercise is like taking metformin, a diabetic med. I am really motivated to keep exercising as I just got off that med.

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SLIMMERJESSE 5/15/2012 3:12PM

    Avoiding diabetes is a HUGE motivator. Good for you.

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Lessons learned from my 2,000 calorie day

Monday, May 14, 2012

Yesterday, I planned to eat 2,000 calories. The idea was for me to eat more, thus firing up my metabolism, keeping my body guessing and moving off of this plateau. It's too soon to tell whether or not this worked, but I did learn a few things about myself that day.
1. It's a good idea to plan specifically what to eat that day. Even at 2,000 calories, if the planning isn't on point, you could go over.
2. If you're going to indulge in high calorie, high fat food make sure the quality is high. I had this pasta dish from an italian restaurant that was worth the splurge.
3. Drink your water
4. Maintain awareness of what you are eating
5. Write everything down
6. if you end up eating lots of junk, identify ways to improve next time.

I think these lessons will also help me maintain whatever weight I lose.

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DIBANANA 5/14/2012 10:48PM

  Surprising your body is a good thing. I bet you will get off that plateau soon.

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CAMAEL100 5/14/2012 4:13PM

    Good idea to ensure the day was planned as it is far too easy to go mad!

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ISISNIRA 5/14/2012 3:41PM

    from my understanding this technique does work. keep us informed. emoticon

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My 2,000 Calorie Mother's Day Plan

Sunday, May 13, 2012

Today, my daughter has asked me to block off my time between 11am and 1pm. She won't tell me what she has planned, so I am assuming it's going to be brunch. After my struggles at the Casino buffet, I grew concerned about how well I was going to handle a Sunday brunch. Rather than fret and worry, I just said to myself, "What if you just budget 2,000 calories for the day?"

I'm trying this for several reasons:
1. A message on SP popped up in my food diary for the third time in two weeks suggesting that I am undereating and recommending I adjust my calories.
2. Since we don't lose weight in a straight line, why should my daily calorie intake be in a straight line?
3. It's an excuse to eat. Yeah, I said it. I like to eat. If I didn't, I wouldn't have a weight problem.
4. Maybe it will break my plateau.
5. I can go back to my regular plan tomorrow.
6. I won't feel guilty, abandon the plan, etc.
7. I've never tracked my eating with a planned 2,000 calorie intake. Usually, when my daily calorie count is 2,000, it means I've screwed up.

I'm already on my way. I woke up at 6:30 am and decided to eat breakfast. I ate a breakfast burrito with a whole wheat tortilla, three eggs, a bit of cheese and two slices of turkey bacon. I also drank 8 oz of juice. That's nearly 500 calories right there. Then, I'll probably eat around 1,000 calories at brunch and have a snack at dinner time--popcorn or something.

Really, I have no idea if this is going to work or not. Who knows? It's something new that I'm trying.

On a completely different note, yesterday I was out running around with the dog and my jeans slid down to my hipbone. I tucked in my t-shirt to keep them from sliding, but that didn't help. I was constantly hitching my pants up. When I got home, I discovered that I could pull my jeans off without unbuttoning or unzipping them. Guess it's time for that pair to go. emoticon

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GINGERGIRL1031 5/14/2012 3:56PM

    Sounds like a good plan. I've been on a plateau for a little while so I might try this too. Good luck!

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SNIKWAD 5/14/2012 11:02AM

    Very interesting spin on "calorie cycling", get the Spark going this week! emoticon

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BUTTAPECANB 5/13/2012 10:02AM

    Great for you. Some studies suggest that if you eat at the high end of your calorie intake on one day and then at the lower end on an alternate day...this may very well break you out of your plateau. It seems as though you're losing inches if your pants are sliding off. My mother complimented me yesterday about how i looked like I was slimming down again (yeeeesss!!!), especially since that darn scale still hasn't moved yet. But I can tell that I am losing something---my mind maybe.

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