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September Intentions, Update2

Tuesday, September 23, 2014

I got to work on Monday morning and looked in the mirror to finish putting on my lipstick and thought "hmm, something looks different". Then I noticed it again an hour later on my first bathroom break of the day, so I stopped and gave myself a closer look.

I'm sure no one else would ever notice, but my chronic and ever-present dark circles were just a tiny bit lighter. Not gone - I have too many airborne allergies for them to ever go away completely, and most of the women on my mom's side had them too, so there's a genetic component there too, but they are definitely lighter.

Woohoo! Confirmation that even increasing my sleep time by just a few hours a week makes a difference. I certainly have noticed that I'm less hungry and slightly less stressed as well.

Now, there's one item on my September MUST DO list that I have been neglecting, and I have to start doing it TODAY: Scheduling a defined half hour for lunch, when I work/play only on personal business. My day still "streams" too much, with no designated break between work and personal time. Like right now. I'm waiting for an "app" to finish processing, so I pop on to SP for a few minutes. But doing that kind of means that I also feel obligated to answer my phone and emails in the middle of eating my lunch. I'll start working on carving out some time, starting today!

  
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WOUBBIE 9/23/2014 12:46PM

    Eliz, I had to look it up - it's Outlast #521: Eternal Flame.

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BE-THE-CHANGE 9/23/2014 12:30PM

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NOWYOUDIDIT 9/23/2014 11:33AM

    Wow! That's great!!
Lipstick? What shade? :o)
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CAROLSMOM1 9/23/2014 10:55AM

    emoticon on getting rid of the dark circles, and finding out what causes them. I have chronic fatigue as a result of chronic insomnia! The only thing that seems to help me sleep better and longer is my pre-bedtime routine. Good luck, WOUBBIE. I hope you find something to help you sleep better.

If you take time for yourself (and you are worth it) for lunch away from your desk, that would be a good thing. Drop your shoulders and take a few deep breaths. Take it from someone who has been there, done that.

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IN102WIN 9/23/2014 10:48AM

    emoticon work on it and don't feel bad to have your lunch hour. Your job specs allow for it right?? I hope you usually don't have a problem...

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MOONGLOWSNANA 9/23/2014 10:34AM

  I have those dark circles too. They hide behind my glasses. I'm glad you're getting more sleep and noticing the difference. I'm working with my sleep problems too.

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SKATER787 9/23/2014 10:32AM

    Excellent. Sounds like a good progress. emoticon

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September Intentions, Update 1

Tuesday, September 16, 2014

Stress and Sleep Challenge

To recap:

SEPTEMBER MUST DO’s:

I must

~ Declutter my current batch of paper and clerical To-Do's by
~ Getting all my daily personal clerical upkeep tasks done in the first hour of the day and
~ Scheduling my workday workouts like I would schedule a meeting and
~ Scheduling a defined half hour for lunch, when I work/play only on personal business

Item 1 and 2 are coming along nicely. Most of my personal tasks only take a minute or two at most, but I continually push them off, day after day. For instance, I only need to read a two page letter from the Band Parents and either send in a form or throw it away. By scheduling a tiny bit of time for this while I'm waiting for files to open or pages to load it got done and it's no longer scratching at the inside of my brain trying to get my attention!

Items 3 and 4 are still in the Assess phase.

Item 3: I would like to start my daily list of activity by doing my Tai Chi and Kata before I leave home. As I get my bedtime and sleep issues addressed I should actually be able to free up a few more minutes in the morning without my having to sacrifice any more sleep and rest. My M W F schedule of light weights is "working as intended" so I don't need to change that. Also, my random bits of exercise at my desk and on-the-fly work fine. I get in a fair amount of squats and other thigh exercises during the day, though I need to figure out how to improve my deep squats without hurting my knees, especially the tetchy right one.

Item 4: Rome wasn't built in a day. Maybe I'll look at this again next week. For now I'm less stressed than I was even a few weeks ago, so this can ride for just a little longer.

So! Things are moving along! I have been sleeping about the same amount, but I actually feel more rested, which tells me that the daytime stress was still accompanying me in my dreams. The "drowsy alert" is working pretty well.

All that means is that, when it gets near bedtime I periodically close my eyes and "test" whether my body and mind are sending me signals that I'm ignoring. If I zone out almost immediately I shut down the computer and hit the hay. If I'm still alert then I stay up for a bit longer. This is, truly, the most progress I have made on my bed time issues in about 30 years! Woohoo!

EDIT/ADDON:

I've just realized that if I have coffee at work before I have water I delay taking my supplements (sometimes all day), and I don't get my water requirement in for the day. So that little habit is going on the must-do list as well. You know, so many times it's not the big habits that undermine your best intentions, but the little ones!

  
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LAURELEI 9/20/2014 2:34PM

    You are right. Those little issues can be big problems if we don't recognize them! You are doing amazing. Good for you!!!

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TX_WILDHEART 9/20/2014 11:42AM

    Sounds like a good plan. I always found setting a timer for things was helpful so I didn't get so distracted. Keep up the good work!
Rhonda


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LUNAANGELUS 9/20/2014 5:04AM

    Sleep is something I struggle with because I work nights. Kudos to you for identifying your issues and working (successfully) on fixing them!

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BE-THE-CHANGE 9/17/2014 9:43AM

    I read this and realized I haven't taken my supplements or had any water since I got up. Thanks for the reminder!

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NOWYOUDIDIT 9/16/2014 11:25PM

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I don't even have to lay down to know I'll fall asleep! LOL!
Oh how I hate forms. :o)
The last one I filled out for the kid's school I totally messed up because I paid no attention to what it said- they ended up calling me! emoticon

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DAISYBELLEKIA 9/16/2014 6:22PM

    I really like the way you figure out if your body needs to sleep! Going to bed at a reasonable time is one of the most difficult things for me, especially if I get home late. I really hate only being home for a couple of hours and having to go to bed. I need to start doing what you do and listening to my body instead of getting 5-6 hours of sleep most nights.

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SKATER787 9/16/2014 2:38PM

    Wow. Anything to do with 30 years is a big deal. Congrats! emoticon

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CAROLSMOM1 9/16/2014 2:18PM

    Good for you, WOUBBIE! You are making progress! As FLY Lady maybe would advise, "Love your body enough to relax." Roberta emoticon

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REGABA 9/16/2014 1:07PM

    Good for you on the sleep issues. That is one area of my life I try not to mess with. I've got some pretty hard and fast rules about bedtimes and what I am and am not going to let myself do when I need to get to sleep.

I like the drowsy alert idea. I also have a rule that if I'm in bed and can not sleep I must get up and read--no TV no computer I have a book called the dictionary of useless information and it has short chapters and nothing too exciting. For the last year it has been my "I can't fall asleep reading" When I find myself blinking a lot then I can try to go to sleep again.

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September Intentions

Sunday, September 07, 2014

The areas that need my focused attention this month and for the following few months are:

SLEEP AND DE-STRESS: Getting enough sleep (at least 7 hours a night consistently) and enough downtime daily.

STRESS AND DISTRESS: Managing what can be managed, and learning to cope with the rest

(Getting more cardio activity and losing a few more pounds are also on my “intentions” list, but my success with those things depends almost entirely on my success with the first two, so I'm not really including them in the September goals. If I improve in those areas it will be entirely because I've improved in the Sleep and Stress areas.)

These two “action items” have been on my fix-it list for way too long now. For months I’ve had “get enough sleep” on the monthly team challenge thread, and as long as I approach it from an end-of-the-day perspective I’m doomed to fail.

Let me say this nice and loud: I don't have trouble falling asleep. I have trouble agreeing to lie down for the night. :D

The issues with my getting enough sleep at night are rooted in how I spent the rest of my day, not in what I do for the last 2 hours. Because what I do for the last 2 hours comes about as a direct (and indirect) result of what I did all day.

Where to start?

The most successful part of my day is my morning at work. I’ve known this for a while. Sometimes when I’m feeling stressed or overextended I almost look forward to that fresh start at my desk. Almost.

Which leads to the obvious question: Why? I mean, I like my job, but I don’t LOVE my job. I don’t really want to be there, yet the routine is comforting, even when the stress ramps up.

There's one of my answers. Routine; that thing which is missing from too much of the rest of my day and makes my brain bounce from thought to thought to thought like the proverbial chicken with its head cut off. Routines are how things get done without much thought on your part, like driving a familiar road. It requires much less brainpower and thought than driving down a road you don’t use very often.

So why am I examining my workday routine? Because I think that the key to my last two and a half health and wellness challenges can best be met by reworking that routine. By optimizing it.

Sleep and Stress.

Stress and Sleep.

MUST DO’s:

I must

~ Declutter my current batch of paper and clerical To-Do's by
~ Getting all my daily personal clerical upkeep tasks done in the first hour of the day and
~ Scheduling my workday workouts like I would schedule a meeting and
~ Scheduling a defined half hour for lunch, when I work/play only on personal business

OK, that's plenty for one month! Gonna put this list in my signature so I see it every day!

  
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DIETROCKSTAR 9/15/2014 2:01AM

    I also have some similar issues! I bought a paper calendar to get to work on them.

I better get to it.

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TWESTEN1 9/14/2014 10:18AM

    That is very interesting. I prefer 8 hours of sleep a night, but am happy with 7. But many nights I have a hard time getting up to bed too ~ not that I'm even doing anything that interesting... it can be lounging in front of the tv - even watching shows I could care less about & for some reason don't want to get up to bed. And then I pay for it the next day :)

Hope you are able to get your schedule in order this month! I'm sure you can do it :)

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GURLNEXDOOR 9/13/2014 11:43AM

    In the past 6 months I hit a 8 hour sleep session once?? I don't get it in order to get enough sleep I almost have to go to bed right when I get home from work and I do NOT want too!! So sleep of 4-6 hours is max. If only there were more hours in the day!!! If I could drop work of my daily pie of getting things done I noticed I would have way more time!

Bittersweet ...
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TX_WILDHEART 9/11/2014 10:36PM

    Just a thought here.. I tried an idea that really works for me and my need to be more organized (but neat) At the end of the day - I make my todo list for the next day. Priorizing each item based on timeline. The next morning I didn't have to think "ok what am I gonna start with" it was already there.

Use a fresh paper each day... otherwise I wallow in the NOT DONES.

You might like it.
Rhonda

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BOSS61 9/11/2014 8:38PM

    Suggest you not make those goals too ambitious!

Congrats on the new position for your hubby too!

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BE-THE-CHANGE 9/10/2014 6:25PM

    "Scheduling my workday workouts like I would schedule a meeting"

Definitely my biggest issue! I make time for every one and every things - except me. Great blog!

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GETSTRONGRRR 9/8/2014 8:47PM

    Sounds like a great plan....one of my mentors told me a long time ago to schedule those workouts and make them as important as every other meeting you go to.

Sometimes, I just have to go to bed early in order to fall asleep earlier....try it on the weekends

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NOWYOUDIDIT 9/8/2014 8:43PM

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Sounds like a great plan. I need to think things out. I just keep putting it off which = stress. OY!

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DAISYBELLEKIA 9/8/2014 4:17PM

    That's a great plan :) I also find that routine is an essential for my weight-loss success. The times I struggle most are when I'm off my routine, and when you add stress to it, it's 10x worse.

You will do it! :)

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REDSPIRALWOMAN 9/8/2014 8:39AM

    I loved how your quickly saw that specifics like 'do cardio and lose some pounds' can only flow from the resolution of points A & B. Clear-sighted you are. emoticon

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LUCYSUNFLOWER 9/8/2014 12:02AM

    Ah, Woubbie, once again you sorta mirrored the noise in my own head! Same issues, different coast... LOL

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SKATER787 9/7/2014 11:53PM

    Good luck and best wishes.

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CAROLSMOM1 9/7/2014 10:48PM

    Have you heard of FLY Lady? She has quite a following for home and office. Roberta emoticon

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Some sage advice from Chris Kresser

Friday, August 22, 2014

I signed up for his email list a few days ago and downloaded the free e-book, but it's just been sitting on my desktop since. I had a few minutes to start reading it today, and this little section jumped right out at me:

"Over 50 percent of the calories the average American consumes today (and my guess is the number is similar in other industrialized countries) come from flour, sugar and industrial seed oils.

"We consume flour in the form of bread, pasta, muffins, bagels, crackers, cookies, cakes, and a variety of other processed grain products. We consume sugar in obvious places, like colas and candy bars, and less obvious places like hamburger buns, salad dressing, breakfast cereals, and flavored yogurts. (Sugar is so ubiquitous that the average American now eats 152 pounds of it a year, or about a half a cup a day!) And we consume industrial seed oils—soybean, cottonseed, sunflower, safflower, corn, and canola oils - in just about all processed, packaged and refined foods.

"So what’s wrong with these ingredients? Why is it such a disaster that they now account for more than half of what we eat on a daily basis?

"There are several reasons, but two stand out.

"First, these foods PROMOTE OVEREATING. They’re high in calories, but low in nutrients, fiber, and water. Nutrients, fiber and water are what make us feel satisfied after eating a food. And if we don’t feel satisfied, we don’t know when to stop eating.

"I’m sure you’ve all had the experience of sitting down with a bag of potato chips or a pint of ice cream and eating the entire thing in one sitting—even though you weren’t particularly hungry. When is the last time this happened with a bowl of broccoli or even a juicy steak? People don’t tend to overeat real foods like they do processed and refined foods, because real food satisfies us and nourishes our bodies in a way that processed and refined food does not."

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You know, it's not like I myself didn't already know that. But sometimes I'm grasping for a way to make the light bulb go on for other people.

This has to be one of the simplest but most compelling explanations of how we end up so fat from these things!

  
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LAURELEI 9/7/2014 9:07PM

    Thanks for the info. If I hear and read things enough eventually I successfully practice what makes sense for my life. Once is never enough. emoticon

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CINDYT63 9/1/2014 7:51PM

    It's become really hard for me to validate any kind of diet that includes them.
It's crazy. Even if I want to, I find it hard to justify eating them. How did we get so far removed from what food is.
Lucky for us, we have YOU!
Thanks for your wisdom!

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DIANESKATZ 8/28/2014 7:43PM

    emoticon emoticon I think the problem is that restaurants also serve too large of portions and too many carbs. I like Chili's for steak and broccoli but I have succumbed to terrible choices in the past such as onion strings (deep fried), fries, nachos etc. Most of the time I cook my food at home, otherwise the smells will encourage me to eat the wrong things and too much of it. Not worth it. If only people would realize. I remember the time a coke was just 8 oz. in a bottle! Now, people guzzle 32 ounces with no problem. Don't get me started. Hahaha..good no great blog, my friend.

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EDDYMEESE 8/28/2014 12:11PM

    Great reminder...I try to explain this all of the time, but they don't get it...oh, well!

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BLH507 8/23/2014 8:20AM

    I definitely agree! Although......that steak sounds really delicious and I could really overeat on a good juicy steak. Even excellent food needs some portion control.

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CAROLSMOM1 8/22/2014 5:44PM

    Thank you for posting that info from Chris Kresser. After reading your post, I went to his website, downloaded the ebook, and saved it to read and re-read. Then I sent it off to family and friends. emoticon Roberta

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NOWYOUDIDIT 8/22/2014 5:36PM

    I read his blog and he makes a lot of sense. Thanx for sharing! emoticon

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GETSTRONGRRR 8/22/2014 2:42PM

    Ditch them all! Best to go cold turkey....that is, eat some cold turkey...along with plenty of veggies!

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Dancing "On the Fly"

Monday, August 18, 2014

A FlyLady Morning Musing. I've read this one numerous times, but it still rings so true!


Morning Musing: Dancing on the FLY

Dear Friends,

I can tell you exactly why I put together a Control Journal! I was tired of building "To Do" Lists! Every day I would put the same thing on the list and every day I would check things off. Was I lazy! NO I call it resourceful.

We love to make lists. It doesn't take long until those lists become boring. Maybe I was just bored with the same thing and I needed a little creativity to make it fun again.

Now listen closely! My Control Journal took shape over several months. I did not build it on my fateful New Years Day that I decided to get organized. It was on that day in 1999 that I made the biggest list of all and promptly decided that it was mean to expect me to do it all in the beginning. That is when I came to the conclusion that it would be much kinder to just practice one habit at a time. That is exactly what I did! I kept my sink clean and shiny for the whole month of January. It was my only requirement and because I didn't pile on with that huge list I could just do what I wanted. I was FLYing from start because I was loving myself enough not to push too hard. Everything I did was fun because I was not under the gun of my perfectionism.

As my habits were established I began to think of them as dance steps. I put them together into logical flow to start my day. One, two, three! One, two, three! One, two, three! Dancing on the FLY!

Basic Steps to my Daily Dance

1. Get up 2. Make bed 3. Go to the bathroom

1. Weigh 2. Check calendar 3. Shower

1. Get Dressed 2. Fix Hair and face 3. Swish and Swipe

1. Take vitamins 2. Turn on computer 3. Put on shoes,

1. Check Laundry 2. Fix coffee 3. Dust Mop the floors

1. Empty dishwasher 2. What's for Dinner 3. Eat breakfast.

1. Fill water bottles 2. Start my music 3. Sit down to work at the computer.

Do you see how it all flows or shall I say FLYs by! One, Two, Three! This takes me about 20 minutes from start to finish because I have done my before bed routine and I am not trying to function in clutter.

My Control Journal became a place to hold my routines. I still had to be reminded when I was in the bathroom what the steps were. I am still a SHE and I will always be a SHE! This is why I love Post-It Notes. I don't beat myself up because I need them. I have a morning one and a before bed one in my bathroom. This is where I start my day and end my day. I even keep my calendar in my bathroom. I use it to chart my weight and put appointments in red to remind me. I am just starting to list my menu planning on it. This is because I have been cooking more.

Your Control Journal is just a place to keep your routines. It also helps others to see exactly what has to be done in a home. When you keep your routines in a sheet protector, you don't have to rewrite them every day or print them out from our Flight Plan. Use your Control Journal as your Check List for Take Off!

Are you ready to FLY with your Control Journal as your Personal Flight Plan!

FlyLady

If your perfectionism has gotten in the way of you building your Control Journal; I have a solution for you. I made you one to fill in the blanks.

You are not behind! I don't want you to try to catch up;
I just want you to jump in where we are. O.K.?

Rock Your Routines in 2014!

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Woubbie's thoughts....

I've always tried to apply this methodology to my health and wellness goals.

If you tackle too much all at once you're setting yourself up for probable failure. You cannot get through life relying on willpower to get things done, you have to develop doable routines.

When you make food and activity choices they have to be sustainable; and that doesn't mean that you just cave in to all the poor choices you've made in the past, because continuing in poor health habits is not really "sustainable".

And I love the 1-2-3 image! Eating and exercising should be fun, and a natural, graceful part of your life, not an endless struggle for mastery. Break it down! Break it down into doable steps and then make it routine, daily, and non-negotiable! Yes, it takes longer than a season on The Biggest Loser, but it lasts. And when your situation changes, as it inevitably will, you'll have the skills to roll with those changes and adjust!

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NOWYOUDIDIT 8/19/2014 2:41PM

    Aaaack!! THAT is what I am missing!! Post it notes!! DUH!! I lose track and don't look back at my journal because it is often farther away from me than is practical. I tried carrying it around, but eventually set it somewhere and move off to another floor of the house. With post its I can remind myself! Woo-Hoo! Thanx!
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EDDYMEESE 8/19/2014 12:53PM

    I love this, too! FlyLady is so awesome :)
I have a journal that I keep (just a day planner, nothing special) but I've had trouble figuring out what to put in it. I like the 1-2-3 routine.
I think mine would look something like this:

1. Get up 2. Make bed 3. Bathroom
1. Boil water 2. Let dogs out 3. Feed the cats their morning treat
1. Make coffee/tea 2. get on Spark, check Facebook 3. Take thyroid meds
1. Make breakfast to eat at work, pack lunch 2. Get dressed 3. Makeup/hair
1. Let dogs in 2. Check all windows/doors (so Bruce doesn't escape) 3. Go to work

Not much there from the FlyLady stuff...thinking maybe adding check laundry, check calendar, etc. and the rest of the tasks that will keep me on track. I'll work on this!

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