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Revenge revisted

Monday, May 28, 2012

I've got to say that now looking back on this whole event, I'm disappointed in the way I reacted! Can you tell that I'm spoiled and used to getting things my way? lol

The situation was resolved with us getting most of our money back. It was finally Rich's wife who offered the money, mostly to get rid of Luv! She was laying the quilt trip on him pretty heavily. In all fairness to Rich, I've asked around and it seems like the man is really pretty well liked. It does seem like the problem was with his grandson, not really with him. The classic between a rock and a hard place type of situation.

Now going back to being spoiled. Once again things really seemed to have worked out for the better. We've already bought another tandem. This time a Trek T900 from a legitimate bike shop. So it has a full warrenty. It's much lighter than the Raliegh and seems considerably better built. So we'll probably be happier with this one anyway.

Revenge? You people know me better than that. Even a little sorry I used the term. I'm still a firm believer that when you treat others with respect and kindness, it's what you usually get in return.

Once again, Life is good!


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ARCHIMEDESII 5/31/2012 12:48PM

    It sounds like the grandson is ruining his grandfather's business reputation in his quest to make money off ebay. Glad Rich did the right thing. The grandson could learn a few things about customer service from his grandfather.

As far as "revenge". How about trying the German word Schadenfreude instead ? Rough translation, taking delight in the misery of your enemies. In this case, taking delight that the grandson got overruled by Rich.

Enjoy your new bike !!

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KAYOTIC 5/31/2012 10:14AM

    Yes, maybe "revenge" was a poor choice of words in the situation, but it's nice that you got resolution on the deal, and that Rich stepped up and did the right thing (even with the help of his wife and Luv!) Enjoy your new, better tandem, quilt or guilt-free!

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BOBBYD31 5/28/2012 11:26PM

    i bow to you my friend! you are a true gentlemen and we all know that revenge is not your style.

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K-PO110 5/28/2012 10:33PM

    Don't be too hard on yourself my friend. You have a very clear sense of how to treat others and always practice love and good treatment for yourself. It's ok to be a little indignant over being mistreated. Glad to know that you have come full circle as Snow says.

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CASSIOEPIA 5/28/2012 10:11PM

    Love that you wrote "QUILT" trip instead of guilt trip! LOL, that is something I could see Luv doing. You are priceless, and no wonder one of my best online friends. I was surprised to see 'revenge' coming in a blog of yours, but it was a great reminder for all of us. thank you for the human side of you!

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SNOWSNAKE 5/28/2012 9:16PM

    I'll toast with you to that one! I knew you had come the full circle....just waiting for this post........ Life! ***SNOW*** emoticon

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CARILOUIE 5/28/2012 9:06PM

    This kind of thing happens to me all the time... my gut reaction is to get really mad at a situation, but really, I'm the kind of person who tries to solve problems as peacefully as possible. I think the whole blogging thing can really help us to get out our frustrations before we act on them.
Glad to hear the situation ended the way it did - enjoy the new bike!

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Thursday, May 17, 2012

I just allowed someone to enter my life and let him make me someone I don't want to be. The situation filled me with anger and disappointment and just cost me a night's sleep.

Here's the Reader's Digest Condensed version. We just purchased a tandem bike: something we've talked about doing for a long time and Gloria, my wife, decided that now would be a good time - my birthdays coming up soon. We were quite excited about the idea.

First we checked out Craigs List, came up with several, but none worked out for us. Then we did a little research on line comparing brands, decided on what we thought would be a good one and called a local bike shop. They had one that had not yet been assembled. Said they'd put it together and then we could come down and be sized for it. Turned out that it had a damaged wheel and they had to order a new one. In the meantime, we found another on Ebay that just happened to be available at a locale small independent bike shop. You know, one of those working out of someone's garage. (but in business a long time). Name of the shop was Rich's Bike Shop in Wellsville, PA. Supposedly, it was new, but a floor model with a couple of blemishes. The price seemed right and he offered me a discount if I'd purchase it directly through him (without Ebay) and paid cash. Yes I know - red flags everywhere and we ignored them.

Well to make a long angry story shorter, it became obvious that the bike was not new and on our second ride, the pedals, gears, I'm not sure what, locked up and we could no longer pedal the bike. We walked it back to the truck.

Now in the Ebay description it said there was a 14 day return policy and we decided to do just that. Rich wouldn't take it back. Said we didn't buy through Ebay; that we bought it through him for cash and therefore "as is". To say the least, we weren't happy and let it be known. Didn't matter, he didn't back down.
So threats were made and we ended up spending too much of the night figuring out what action to take.

A part that hurts is that I really liked Rich when we were dealing with him. He's an older guy still making a living with his bike shop. Problem seems to be that he now lets his grandson sell bikes for him on Ebay and I'm afraid it's the grandson who is putting his grandfather in a bad spot here. Rich originally said he'd give us our money back but then called his grandson who said "no way".

Okay, now we've both lost a night's sleep discussing the many things we might do - most of them things that would at a minimum cause Rich some discomfort and at the most damage his business. In other words, we were looking for revenge.

There's a problem with Revenge - it starts to make you act like one of the bad guys. I spend a lot of energy trying to live a life that doesn't make me one of these bad guys. So now what, roll over and play dead? That doesn't sit well either.

So now I'm thinking we'll take the hit, fix the bike and sell it for less than we paid for it. Maybe trade it in? I'm not sure. At this point I'm trying to come up with something that will make us feel good, not bad.

I've got a couple of ideas.

We'll see.

In the meantime, I'll go back to trying to live my motto of "Life is good" and accept that not everyone out there is going to make that easy for me.


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MIAMIA7 5/28/2012 5:54PM

    Well isn't this just wrong?! But unfortunately it happens. I am with the others in maybe trying to talk with Rich one more time and see what he can do. I know this is late in a response so maybe things have changed. I hope by now things are resolved. Hugs to you and Luv.

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KAYOTIC 5/18/2012 10:13AM

    Everyone else said what I was thinking, so I'll just say, that sucks! And I don't think it's revenge to get him to do right by you and Luv, and either fix the bike or take it back, and if that's not a option, then others should know that this guy is not what he makes himself out to be, whether that is his own doing or his grandsons. If it's his business, he is ultimately ressponsible for the product coming out of it, and he should own it, one way or another, and back it up too!

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ANDYLIN90 5/18/2012 4:44AM

    Oh, I'm so sorry this happened to a nice guy who obviously plays by different rules than Grandson does. I agree with the other responders...certainly BBB and a talk with Rich might help.

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BOBBYD31 5/17/2012 10:00PM

    damn brother that just kinda sucks but i love how you are the bigger man in all this. maybe if you can stop by and talk with rich you can work something out

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NEILITHICMAN 5/17/2012 6:09PM

    Well that sucks. I guess next time you'll stay away from the "under the table" deals. At least the ebay rules allow you a bit of protection. Did he at least offer to repair the bike?

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RUNNINGWILD 5/17/2012 2:29PM

    I'm a little bit angry right now. What if you and Luv had been hurt when things went sideways?! I'd put in a complaint with the BBB. I'd also make sure that everyone I know, knew the story. I don't like to be vengeful but I do like keeping my friends safe.

Life IS good but that's mostly because people like you and Luv are a part of it. I'd like to keep it that way for a good, long time.

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MAUIMA 5/17/2012 11:10AM

    Oh my...what a sorry deal this has been for you all really.

I guess, I would think the bike should be fixable. Do you have any idea what is really wrong, now you have had time to think about it?
Snow has a good point...cause if it'll raise your BP every time you see it might not be worth a dime.

Cassie also has a good idea with the BBB...maybe a new discussion with Rich with a plea for reason and fix the bike. Otherwise you'll have to write a report to BBB. Rich must understand you basically have 2 options...to give him a good report or a not so good report. With Yelp and other such news groups too...lots of these internet site a really get a lot views. I don't think its revenge to write honest reports. so...Rich has a chance here too, which report does he want???

Loss of sleep is not worth it...

And it really matters, how much the repairs might cost. Rich should give you a deal...

Wood- you are a good guy...these things happen, cause there are some icky people out there.
Just know we have all been there too...

A quote I like to think about when I have these types of 'run-ins' is...
Acid only hurts the vessel in which its contained.

so, don't hold on too long...
How bout a big deck hug...and a long soak in the hot tub?

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K-PO110 5/17/2012 10:52AM

    I'm proud to know you as one of the good guys and that you will strive to fix this situation in a way that feels as good as possible.

I am so sorry you had this experience though...you're right to sell the bike. It will just never give you the freedom and joy you deserve after a negative origin.

You're a smart guy Wood.

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SNOWSNAKE 5/17/2012 10:34AM

    Im on the side of maybe seeing if having a "satified customer" might be important to these guys, get more bees with honey" kind of thing. Worth a try, then sell it if it still makes your BP go up when ya look at it! Hugs Wood and Luv, and get a teensey nap in today, thanks for finding my pink bikini! Im having some shots with you later in the hot tub! ***SNOW***

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DEBBYFROMMT 5/17/2012 9:49AM

    He should fix it for you. I can see not wanting to take it back, but at least fix it!

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CASSIOEPIA 5/17/2012 7:51AM

    If Rich has been in business for a long time, he must know something about customer service. It must be painful for him to watch what is happening with his business now that the grandson is making decisions.

Here in Canada, we have something called a better business bureau. We have used that a couple of times here, and a call from them is usually enough for a business to try and correct the problem. Nobody wants to end up on their "list".

I'm truly sorry you and Luv had this experience. I agree that revenge isn't an emotion that we want to spend any amount of time on. It will eat at you, and if you do something that makes someone else feel badly, I know that would also bother you. No win-win there.

Hope you have a better day. Life is good, and you my friend deserve the best there is out there.

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A journey of souls

Monday, April 09, 2012

Seemed to have awakened very early here this morning. Still a full moon looking in on me sitting here at my computer. Thought I'd go out and meditate in the hot tub since I seem a little contemplative, but then I realized that my chimes outside my bedroom are playing a rather rowdy melody already this morning. Indeed my trees are dancing boldly in the early morning light. So I'll have to be content with the surge of the hot caffine to begin my day. There are certainly worse ways to get started.

Don't know why sometimes I wake up seeking answers that are not to be found; trying to solve mysteries that remained mysteries since humans first realized they could communicate with other humans; but it happens. Thinking about interactions between us souls locked into imperfect bodies that at times disappoint us and at times totally fail us. Trying to understand what makes some relationships seem almost spontaneous, easy and natural, yet exciting. Others more like summer sunshine on naked skin - warm and comfortable. Then there are those relationships that are more like an August thunderstorm that comes in fast and furious, but is gone as quickly as they appeared.

Seems to me this morning that this is all that life is really about - this huge complicated perpetual motion of souls sometime just passing each other by, sometimes just touching one another as they pass by, and other times colliding painfully head on, only to once again be put in motion and continue their endless journey. ....and life goes on and on and on and....

So I guess this morning your soul just bumped into mine.....

Life is good!


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MAUIMA 4/10/2012 9:46AM

    Bumping into you...well...one of life great gifts. Love this blog, love you...the virtual bumps are great...looking forward to our next real life meet up. And many to come...life is good my friend. I am not going anywhere. Did you ever have bumper cars at an amusement park as a kid??? I had one near by. You know those work yes??? You and your friends all get in teh cars and bump away. and of course...you seek out your best freinds to bump the hardest...so watch your 'car'...cause...I used to be good at this game...Thanks for getting up early to write. Hugs my friend.

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SNOWSNAKE 4/9/2012 11:55PM

    Wood.... This was totally worth waiting for, what an awesome concept and truth you have discovered! I actually read this 3 times today, and realized something different each time I read it, that is the wonder of it all, really. I love that i have "bumped " into you (like Kay said) for now a vitual bump! Thank you for being exactly who you are, I really like the way you think too! Huge mondo-bondo hug from me to you! emoticon***SNOW***

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MIAMIA7 4/9/2012 8:43PM

    Bump! Thanks Wood...I need this today. Church yesterday made me contemplating a lot about life in general and for some reason today I am a bit down. Thanks for lifting me up!
Hugs, Anne

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RUNNINGWILD 4/9/2012 1:14PM

    I'm so glad that we bumped.

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PEACEFULONE 4/9/2012 1:00PM

    Thank you for sharing your lovely thoughts. It's nice to meet you.

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KELPIE57 4/9/2012 12:24PM

Even more so having met my first grandaughter today. Life is not only good, it is wonderful, meeting for me a real new soul.

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LEANNRENEE50 4/9/2012 12:06PM

  I found your writing very uplifting and I wonder if this is something we can indulge in, only after the busy-ness of life has abated? I find that I was aways speculating about these notions, but never had the time to really think about our nature and why we are here and what it all means. I was always too busy. Now that things have slowed down some, I find that I'm frequently contemplative. Growth, maturity, boredom, something you do in mid-life? Anyway, I enjoyed your thoughts and your writing style. Thanks so much for putting it down.....



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BOBBYD31 4/9/2012 11:55AM

    to steal your saying, life is good!

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DEBBYFROMMT 4/9/2012 11:40AM

    Wow, it gets me thinking about stuff, isn't life grand? And the answers will come, in one way or another. Feel free to bump anytime!

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CASSIOEPIA 4/9/2012 10:16AM

    Love your blogs Wood. This one reminds me of something I read about all of us beings inside bubbles, travelling towards the sky. Some we can see, some we bump into, and some too far away to take any notice of. I like the thoughts of contemplation. And so glad that our souls finally met. You are an amazing person to know.


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KAYOTIC 4/9/2012 9:50AM

    so happy to have bumped into your soul, Wood....even if it's just a virtual bump, for now....!

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KITS4CHANGE 4/9/2012 8:14AM

    Reading this this morning was so surreal. My hubby and I had a eerily similar conversation last night. Not that surprising I guess after a holiday where family gathers....lol Soul bump! Love it! lol

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Compassion and other angelic traits

Sunday, January 08, 2012

Okay, it finally looks like I might be back for more than just a day or two. Yes, it has been a rough couple of weeks for me, but I've got to tell you that along with the pain and sadness it was laced with companionship, good will, compassion, and love! I've been almost constantly enveloped by beautiful caring people who made Dad's transition into his next world as easy as it could be made as well as helping guide us gently into a world without him. I am ever so grateful for the gentle care of hospice nurses and aides - they are truly angels here on earth. They were never more than a phone call away and not only assisted my mother in the physical caring of my father, but sat by his bed near the end, held his hand and joined in our tears and grief as well. They even sent a harpist to play for him and mom on a weekly basis. How's that for an angelic activity?

Then there was Pastor Bill, a pastor from their church who visited Dad several times a week and would sit with him, share stories, laugh with him and of course pray with him. Yesterday, he presided over the service that honored Dad and he sounded more like a close friend than a minister. Bill personifies what I think a spiritual leader should look like.

Most importantly we've been surrounded by family and friends! Roughly 150 of them were present for yesterday's service. Many of them spoke publicly of how my father had influenced their lives and although much was said through the shroud of tears, just as much was accompanied by smiles and laughter. There was almost as much mirth as there was sadness. A fitting service for a man who enjoyed his life fully.

I wish I could properly convey how wonderful my family is. My sons shared the reading of the psalms, my wife and daughter-in-laws spent hours upon hours creating a collage of pictures and memorbalia that properly summarized Dad's life with his family, friends and my mother. My granddaughters, ages 7 and 8 handed out the pamphlets to all who came to join us and they brought smiles to everyone. My mother is this tiny petite woman who conveys more strength than any man I know. My one year old grandson stood with me in the greeting line gently playing with my beard, laying his head on my shoulder and smiling to all those whose hands I shook, making a very difficult task so much easier. And then of course, there's Gloria, my wife, who talks me through all of my frustrations, worries and emotional meltdowns.

Yes, it has been a difficult time, but now, my friends, I am happy. Yes happy. I am happy that my father had such a life filled with adventure and an amazing woman that he spent most of his life with. I am happy that I am more blessed than anyone that I know. I am happy that even now that I can honestly tell you that "Life is good!"


Below is a copy of my presentation that I made at Dad's service. I included it here because I believe it will give you a little idea of who my father was.

I’ve got to say that I’ve had a lot of time to prepare this little presentation – We were pretty certain about 18 months ago that Dad wasn’t going to be with us much longer, but somehow he became the energizer bunny and kept going and going and going and we were given a substantial extension on the time we had to spend with him. Perhaps the thing that impressed me the most over this past year was his attitude that he had taken about his situation. Repeatedly, he would tell me that he was a lucky man to be given this extra time to spend with us. Repeatedly, he would talk about his many blessings, which always included his family. Seldom did he complain about his life. Most importantly, he appeared comfortable with his relationship with his God and what God had in store for him after his departure from his earthly body.

Like my father, I wear my emotions on my sleeve, so I apologize ahead of time for choking up as I stand here in front of you.

Dad was a good man who worked hard and played just as hard. His working years were mostly years spent in the service station business partnered up with his dad, Pop Moyer, briefly followed by a time with his brothers Ernie and Stan and then for the majority of years with just my uncle Stan. These businesses did well mostly, in my opinion, because Dad like his father and brothers were friendly and caring people. They treated their customers, as well as their workers as friends. As a result, many of these customers and workers became exactly that – friends. In fact, one of the things that always impressed me was just how many friends Dad and Mom had.

Although, Dad worked long hours for most of the time I lived at home, he always seemed to find the time for the things he loved to do. I’m sure that many of you will remember that Dad was enough of a baseball fanatic that he built his own softball diamond in our back yard – equipped not only with a backstop, but with lights as well. For many summers, double headers were played weekly in our back yard. Bob and I were the only kids I knew with a real baseball diamond for a back yard!
Then of course there were his other interests: fishing, hunting, golf and bluegrass music! Summer after summer found us bass fishing in Canada along with Stan and Ernie’s families. We’d be up a dawn for the early top water fishing, back out in the afternoon with live bait and then again out in the evening to find those bass that were ready to strike right before dark. I think he barely had time to eat. Then after he retired he simply wasn’t getting his fill of fishing with his annual trips to Ontario, so he and Mom started spending winters in Florida where he could chase bass and crappies all winter long.

His deer hunting was something that he was able to drive Mom nuts with right up to the very end. Long after he was having difficulty getting around he was still finding ways to get to his deerstand down in the meadow behind their house. When he was no longer able to walk that far he drove his lawnmower to the stand. He spent hours in that deerstand and harvested quite a few deer from it after most men would have given up the effort.
I was probably 9 or 10 when he started to play guitar and like Dad always did when he decided he like to do something he jumped into it with both feet. Before long he was playing in a bluegrass band, had a collection on guitars, basses, mandies, and I’m not sure what else. Festivals became another summertime requirement.

Dad had a good life and he knew it. Maybe most importantly Dad had a good wife and he knew that too. Mom provided him with the opportunity to spend his hospice care at home with her taking care of him. It was a big job and he knew it and I know that he was very grateful for her. Mom – dad and I both thank you.

I learned a lot from my father. I learned that a good work ethic is important to a happy life and I hope I passed that on from him to my boys. I learned that marriages can work in today’s world, and I hope to be as happily married as long as he and Mom were. I learned that work is only part of life and that the rest of life has to be filled with adventure and fun as well. Glor and I have learned that lesson pretty well. I learned that if you treat others with respect, you get treated with respect as well. I learned that if you’re at peace with your God, death is not nearly as scary, nor is it the end. And to all of you, I say, that learned that the world is a better place because Dad was in it.
I will miss him terribly.

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BRENDALEEFREE 2/23/2012 2:12PM

    Wood I'm so glad I had the opportunity to read this and that you gave us this opportunity. It is a beautiful reflection on your father and why you are the way you are. Thank you for your kindness to all of us, and thank you to your Father for teaching you that.

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BOBBYD31 1/8/2012 4:34PM

    i am sorry for your loss larry but it sounds like you were blessed with a wonderful father. i can only hope that some day my kids will reflect as fondly on me as you have with your father. our prayers are with you

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KAYOTIC 1/8/2012 4:12PM

    What a wonderful testament to a life well lived...what a wonderful father you had...

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SNOWSNAKE 1/8/2012 3:06PM

    How lucky I am to have just "met you", and to have the honor to hear and feel your heart sing about your life, your lessons learned, your dad's importance in that life, and how his passing has clarified the meaning of your favorite expression....that "life is good." Beautiful! ***SNOW***

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MAUIMA 1/8/2012 11:03AM

    Wood, I too, sitting in happy tears, knowing I am blessed to call you (and Gloria) friend. ((hugs))

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KELPIE57 1/8/2012 10:14AM

    He taught you well, and you continue to pass that on. Isn't that the best legacy?

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CASSIOEPIA 1/8/2012 8:13AM

    Sitting here with tears rolling down my cheeks, and feeling blessed that you are in my world.

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We're never too old!

Monday, October 24, 2011

I'm one of the lucky ones!!! My life has been filled with activity, adventure and some really great people! My younger years were filled with speed! I was brought up in my dad's "service center" where I learned a love of cars and motors. By the time I was 16 I was building hot rods and getting high on the power of V-8's (motors not drinks). I loved the roar of the modified power plants unrestricted by standard eshaust systems. I was into motorcycles - the feel of the wind rushing by unhelmeted head. (or maybe it was through my head as I now look back at it.) I slalom skiied at high speeds and was quick to take stupid dares. Although my friends were much like me, always looking for excitement, I want to mention that believe it or not, we were not into alcohol for our kicks. Simply didn't need it. Life was good!

Got married when I was 21 to the girl you all know as "Luv" and settled down some, but not much. We still loved adventure, but sought it out in different places. We were never idle! Got started on a lifetime of camping, hiking, and outdoor pleasures. We made new friends who too loved to play. Volleyball was a big deal to us at the time and we played almost every weekend at least 8 months out of the year and even built a volleyball court in our back yard which was used for volleyball parties on a regular basis. Life was good!

During this stage of our life, all of a sudden we found ourselves to be parents! Whoa! Wait a minute, we weren't mature enough yet for that role! But we learned how to play the parts. The boys grew up moving from being carried in backpacks and sitting in bike seats to carrying backpacks and racing down rocky mountain trails on their own bikes. Volleyball got to be a family sport with the teens vs. the dinosaurs and the dinosaurs were good! The calendar was scribbled so full of events that you could hardly read the dates: sporting events, musical events, drama and working out at the gym kept us all in a very hectic mode! Life was good!

And then....empty nest!!! How did that happen? Our kids were grown up and we still weren't! So we filled the newly formed gaps in our calendar with travel and yet more adventures. When we got home from school on Fridays our pop-up camper was already hooked up to our vehicle that was already loaded with all of our gear and we were off for the weekend. Destination - all over the place - wherever there were festivals, or trails or moving water. Oh! ...and by this time we had taken on the new challenge of country dancing that we literally jumped into with both feet! In fact we got so fanatical about it that it became our part-time job! We taught beginner line-dancing at campgrounds all over PA! We had a blast! Life was good!

Suddenly, we're retired! Again, how did that happen? We still haven't matured! It's a whole new era, but the calendar is still full just about every day. Many of the activites are the same: hiking, biking, kayaking, etc. but today we have the freedom of traveling wherever and whenever we decide to do it. So instead of kayaking just in PA streams all of a sudden we find ourselves doing it in places like Kauai and Alaska! Wow! Who would have thought. And making new friends has become an even bigger adventure by forming friendships from all over the world on the internet and then actually traveling to them and sharing real life adventures with them. Life is good!

(Now for the really BIG "Life is Good" - these two immature fun seekers somehow became GRANDPARENTS! Just how amazing is that!!! Two granddaughters and three grandsons from 9 months old to 8 years old! Everyone beautiful and everyone amazing! It seems like Luv and I are always babysitting and we love it. Our house is again cluttered with a house made out of a cardboard box, kid size chairs, a rocking horse in the living room that was actually mine when I was a toddler (imagine that). There's artwork on the refrigerator and pictures hanging everywhere! Again I find myself with a kid in a backback and it might even feel greater this time. All of them have already been introduced to a love of the out of doors! I am almost overwhelmed by the experience of them. Life is amazing!

Along with the passage of time came new activities. A big one in our life I already mentioned - our country dancing. But there have been many many more. Both of us have learned many new skills. Luv has become a very talented and creative quilter. I learned a lot of new skills by assisting a carpenter in building my garage w/ 2nd floor wood shop and also building a large addition on our little house. (totally new experiences for a teacher of 35 years!) I've learned that I love to work in my woodshop, something I never had the opportunity to do for the first 56 years of my life. ....and now recently, I have learned that I really enjoy singing!!! I had done the teenage thing of being in a rock band, but we weren't very good (BIG understatement) and I never considered myself as to having any real aptitude for the activity. Then somehow about a year ago, we got talked into joining the church choir and for the first time in my life I find that not only can I sing in harmony, I love doing it. Just like speed (fast things, not drugs) made me high back when I was a teen, I have now learned that singing brings out that same great feeling! (BTW, I still like fast things! LOL) So, you know, I've still got to say: Life is good!


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BOBBYD31 10/24/2011 7:35PM

    what a great recap of your life so to date! i wish i had you energy, you are truly an amazing man(and of course LUV too). your motto life is good, my motto, i wanna be like wood.
thanks for sharing

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KELPIE57 10/24/2011 5:08PM

    What can I add.....except this quote that I found "Gross well says that children are young because they play, and not vice versa; and he might have added, men grow old because they stop playing, and not conversely, for play is, at bottom, growth, and at the top of the intellectual scale it is the eternal type of research from sheer love of truth."

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FUNSAHM 10/24/2011 12:07PM

    well said! love ya!

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RUNNINGWILD 10/24/2011 12:04PM

    I wantPaul & I to be just like you & Luv. Your energy and love of life is so inspiring.

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SLIMMER150 10/24/2011 11:07AM

    You sure know how to Live Life! No wonder Life is Good!


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SNOWSNAKE 10/24/2011 10:55AM

    emoticonMini biography! This painting of your life colors my day, it gives me a kalaidescope view of the wonderful person who calls himself "Woodheat". Just enough detail, warmth, and flavor to fill in the gaps of wondering just what makes up this man? I adore that in closing you have disovered "that voice"...what was the first thing I recognized in that voice mail you left me? The voice is amazing, as amazing as the mind that fuels your lifebeing, to know that your life has truly been good!! (let's say great!) emoticon's and emoticon


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MAUIMA 10/24/2011 10:38AM

    Wood my friend,

Well done my friend. I think you have so well explained how finding your way to the joy of life. Each stage new options and discoveries ...never closing the doors of opportunity.
One of the reasons I so appreciate you.
Thanks for a lovely start to my morning.


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KAYOTIC 10/24/2011 10:30AM

    I always look forward to your blogs, and as usual this one does not dissapoint! What a wonderful review of a fantastic adventure that is life....and it's GOOD!

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CHOCLAHOLIC 10/24/2011 8:21AM

    Great blog Wood.... I think we all need to stop and "review" our lives now and then... I've always found that the good times always outweighed any bad... guess knowing where we've been helps us know how to keep moving forward to new adventures and challenges....


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CASSIOEPIA 10/24/2011 8:11AM

    What a great recap for a life well lived. I giggled at the thought of you needing to explain that the V8 you were talking about was not the drink!

A rolling stone gathers no moss!!!


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