Wednesday, April 17, 2013
I know that I said yesterday that I was going to blog on the Boston horror story, but somehow I haven't been quite able to wrap myself around this. I'm not sure why? As most of you know from repeated exposure to my meanderings, words usually come easily to me. Not this time. I wonder why? However there have been many out there who have said it well and have said it beautifully and I am grateful for their words. The other team that I have many friends on is "The Rookie Runners". Of course, this event hit them hard. Thankfully, It doesn't appear that any of them were directly involved. However their remarkable leader "Trish" added a sticky thread for runners to comment on. There are a couple that are very well said and you might want to visit them. Trish also suggested that this week we "run, walk or bike" as a tribute to Boston and the people there. I think that's a wonderful idea. Luv and I rode 13 miles and certainly had those injured, physically or emotionally, at Boston in our thoughts. Trish also recommended wearing race shirts or some type of clothing that tells people that you are still out there and will not be intimidated by cowardly terrorism. I also support that idea.
Snow stated that we should get out there and make sure we tell those that are close to our hearts that we love them. Always good advice, but essential right now! Snow I love you!!!
Maui tells us to focus on the good people out there and there are MANY and to focus on the fun in this world. Again excellent advice! Yes Maui, I love you too!
Through Choc we are reminded that even our daily life is filled with tragedy, but somehow we work around those storm clouds and we move on and we bask in the sunshine. Yep, love Choc too!
Then there's the rest of you on the deck who are literally residing all over the world: Canada, U.S., France, New Zealand - thousands of miles between us, but with close bond of friendship and support. Somehow this bonding helps us see past the terrorists, the global crises, the nay-sayers and opens our eyes to all the good out there, as already mentioned by Maui. Love you all!
Not sure how I wasn't able to write my blog, but this felt so natural.
Peace my friends,
There's still a lot of good in the world.
This was a post of mine on Outdoor People, but I wanted to include all my Rookie Runner friends as well so posted it here. Love you all.
Wednesday, October 31, 2012
Yeah, I know, you've heard from me before about how I like big storms! I like blizzards and hurricanes, northeasters, tornadoes, and torrential rains! My heart quickens as soon as a severe storm warning comes over the airs. I'm afraid I'm one of those guys who doesn't have the common sense to stay indoors in this kind of weather either. I get an extreme case of cabin fever real quick and I need to go out and experience the weather face to face! Yeah I quess I'm sort of a storm sick-o - an extreme weather junkie! But before you judge me too harshly, let me explain that I'm not heartless. I worry about the safety of others. I'll be one of the first to start making phone calls to the ones I love to make sure they've done what they can to be prepared. And I do sympathize with those who have lost much to these storms, both in property damage and much worse through the loss of live of people close to them.
So what is it that gets my juices flowing so freely here? First of all, I love excitement! I love almost anything that gets my endrenoline pumped up: roller coasters, fast cars, zip lines, rappeling down the side of a mountain, leaning hard into a slalom ski behind a boat, etc., etc. So it only follows that dark rolling clouds, flashes of lightning, turbulent water would all bring on that same kind of rush. It's that feeling of not quite being in control that sharpen all of my senses!
In fact, that may be the biggest thing I like about the big storms - the fact that we're no longer in control. Man is an arrogant animal thinking that he can rule over the world and that everything is within his control and then something like Sandy comes along and we find out how insignificant we truely are. For at least a short period of time, we are truely humbled!
Violent weather tends also to bring out the best in people. Before Sandy arrived I started getting emails, texts and phone calls from friends around the country who knew that we were in Sandy's path. I assure you, that felt wonderful, knowing that people cared. But its during and after the storms that suddenly men and women who have been too busy with the business of everyday living are out there helping friends, neighbors and total strangers: some by assisting physically and sometimes by supporting the groups and organizations like the Red Cross. Everywhere ordinary people become heros, responding to someone in need. How can you not be moved by that?
I watched the special on tv last night about the aftermath of Sandy. The destruction indeed was beyond words, but with that destruction came proof that we Americans can respond quickly to help others and to do so we'll cross the boundaries that so often restrict us. For at least a little while, we can forget about our political, social, religious, racial differences and just allow ourselves to be human. And that my friend gives me hope.
Once again, I still think
Life is good!
Sunday, June 17, 2012
Luv and I got married in the very early 70's. Viet Nam was still an American nightmare, doomsdayers were predicting not only an economic meltdown, but a complete self-destruction of our democratic way of life. Unemployment was high. Most important, I was young an impressionable and allowed myself to be drug down to the level of the pessimists that seemed to be so well informed. Somehow I missed focusing on all the good people and the good things in life that surrounded me even then. I didn't think bringing childeren into this kind of world was fair to the children and had decided not to have any. Fortunately, Luv didn't share my cloud of dripping negatives and "accidentally" got pregnant!
By far the best accident that ever occurred in my life!
Today I can't imagine a world without my sons and now their families. As they grew up, I grew up. Sharing my world with them turned into a life of adventure and excitement. In place of worrying about the status of the world, life became a personal challenge and although difficult at times, it became very satisying. Life was no longer focused on me, but became focused on us and it's been about US ever since.
Then and now, we played together, worked together, solved problems together, met the challenges of life together. Back when the boys were 13 and 15 we borrowed the money and bought an old used pop up camper and spent 6 weeks touring America! We were told if we didn't do it then, the boys would get to that stage where they didn't want to do things with their parents anymore. Well that was an amazing trip, BUT we never got to that stage that was predicted. They never stopped traveling with us and doing things with us. To this day, we take a family trip every year with everyone - our sons, their wives and now their children! Life is good!
Yesterday, the boys and I celebrated Father's Day a day early with what has become an annual event for us. The 3 of us headed out for a day on the stream. We packed our kayaks with our fishing equipment and beer, slopped on the sun screen and had an amazing day together fishing, laughing and simply enjoying our relationship to one another. We even caught about 60 fish! It just doesn't get any better than this!
Now life is focused on staying healthy and fit, so that adventures like these with my sons and now my grandchildren (my 9 yo gd just got her own kayak) will continue for many years down the road.
So now I look back on that pessimistic young man that I once was and can't even imagine what life would have been like if that first accident hadn't occurred. (BTW, I don't think there was any real accident involved.) I am a very blessed man!
Life is good!
Sunday, June 10, 2012
We often find ourselves totally astonished by modern technology - cell phones that access the internet and rearrange our lives; instant messaging with which we can communicate at a whim with others around the world; lasers, once the weapon of science fiction now a precision tool in modern surgery; energy captured from the sun or wind or an atom and put to use in maintaining our everyday lives. None of these modrn innovations com anwhere close to being able to understood with my limited training in these areas and, to me, all seem impossible.
But even the most amazing inventions of our technological world come close to the mind boogleing miracles that have always been around us every day - living things - very complex things that seem to come from nothing and then later become nothing again - completing the cycle.
The most amazing thing of all is the "self", the "ME", the "soul" - the part of us that is much more than the physical structure of tissue and bones. It's there when we're born and I tend to believe that it's there after we die - it's our connection to God, the Universe, Eternity.
The anser to William Shakespear's most famous question, "To Be or Not to Be" cecomes an easy answer. "To be" - forever.
Life is good!
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