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Lost My Drive

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

This doesn't happen very often but have to say, I've lost my drive for working out. I guess with all the stress of my husband's job situation and mine too (negative boss), it's taken it's toll.

Any tips out there on how to get your drive back, the zest for life back?

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PRAIRIECROCUS 5/17/2013 11:45PM

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KRYSTALLA 5/15/2013 9:47PM

Try not to get stressed out to much over the negative boss, I know it is hard. I know that times are tough, you can get through it. Sometimes changing your exercise habits a bit can help. Try not to dwell to much on the negative of the situation, you are a good person and deserve the best in life, so try to keep positive by knowing you are worth taking care of and you have family and friends that care a lot about you and they mean more to you then someone else's negativity.

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TERRY0217 5/15/2013 6:48AM

I know the feeling...stress will sap all your energy...remember, this situation is temporary...remain positive...if you don't feel like working out, take a nice walk...drink your water and pray...

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ALEXSGIRL1 5/14/2013 6:42PM

a negative boss is a hard thing you have to keep reminding yourself just how good you are . The only way to get your motivation back is by beginning . I start by walking with my favorite music in the sun if you can .What ever you love to do , do a little and then bam the spark will come back. If possible show your strengths to other managers . hugs I hope things get better.

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SUCCESS_IN_2013 5/14/2013 3:13PM

Me too. It started with not being able to get my treadmill to work, cause I don't know how to oil it. Then the SAC hours changed. Then my late-start classes started and my schedule changed. Now finals. One thing after another and now weeks have passed since I worked out. =(

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JLDACQ 5/14/2013 12:12PM

I agree with MZZCHIEF, in that not working out is punishment to you and your body. It really is a completely different way of handling stress, keeping our goals in sight, and still feeling like we want to reach those goals.

I'm rootin' for you & DH, in your corner. *hugs*

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MZZCHIEF 5/14/2013 11:26AM

Exercise is an expression of your good intentions towards your self. It keeps you healthy and strong... its part of who you are.

So it may be helpful to examine why you are punishing yourself by not following your true intentions... doing what you know is right for your self.

Especially at a time when things aren't as bright... why snuff out this light of self care and nurture?

Once you know the reason you can chose a positive way of expressing your self that's more in line with your true intentions.

Just a suggestion...
Namaste
: )
Mzzchief

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HELEN_BRU 5/14/2013 10:50AM

I find diversions help. Like watching a good movie, treating yourself by shopping, going to the theatre, meeting up with some good friends over coffee - all give you a new perspective. There are just some things we cannot change, but we can change our outlook and attitude.

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AKATHLEEN54 5/14/2013 10:06AM

I just went through this and I think the key is just to be kind to yourself, don't push and give yourself some time. The Spark will come back, but if you try to push yourself too hard with all that stress on your shoulders you run the risk of completely derailing yourself. Just try to be careful with your nutritional plan and do what little exercise you can do to keep active and it will all work out.

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SIRENSONGS 5/14/2013 9:50AM

I'm sorry to hear that. Stress can be pretty dangerous when it comes to motivation. When that happens to me, I try to make sure at least I'm a little bit active, walking every day. Give yourself time, rest, and don't be too hard on yourself. Your spark will come back, you just have to be patient. Life goes in cycles and the bad times don't last forever. Hope you get through this slump soon!

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MORTICIAADDAMS 5/14/2013 9:49AM

I'm not sure your will welcome my advice because it's a difficult solution but to me you have to resolve the underlying problem. If the cause for your lack of motivation is due to job related stress then it's where your effort to improve the situation should rest. I don't know the particulars but is there any way that you could offer your boss support since he/she is negative? Do you know why this person is negative? Is there a solution? If not, can you find other employment? Life is too short to allow others to steal your joy. While you will face challenges your job should not interfere with your personal life. Start brainstorming on how you can make your dreams you mentioned a reality.

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SLIMMERJESSE 5/14/2013 9:07AM

I've been through this so many times. Relieve some of the pressure of not working out by just doing 10 minute increments of something during the day. For example, if you watch TV, walk in place, pedal on the stationary bike, etc. Just keep moving, no matter how little. Eventually, you will re-spark.

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Further to Lemons Again, But Trying to Make Lemonade!

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Thanks for everyone's posts. More news, as of yesterday, now I am part time. 2 or 3 days a week. Happy in one way, more time at home with family. Not happy as doesn't help pay the bills. Applying for jobs but in my heart, I want to find a way I can pay off bills but stay home more with the family and follow my dream to move to the country. Thinking I should do Avon more and get into that as I could be home more.

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PRAIRIECROCUS 4/25/2013 5:20PM

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MORTICIAADDAMS 4/24/2013 1:25PM

I'm sorry about your lost hours. We went through that years ago and it was tough. I hope you find a way to follow your dream. I did it. It requires some sacrifices but it works for us.

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SUCCESS_IN_2013 4/24/2013 9:35AM

My mom sold Avon. She never made that much money at it, and she really put in her all. I think they pay structure of Avon isn't good.

Maybe Quixtar--I have great faith that they can make ya rich.

Or Mary Kay. Mary Kay has made more female millionaires than any other business in America and plus you work with women only which is wonderful. I am going to do that after I finish school (you know, from a position of being able to support myself as an accountant, I'm going to do it on the side until I can replace my income =)

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KRYSTALLA 4/24/2013 12:26AM

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ALEXSGIRL1 4/23/2013 6:54PM

hugs i think that is a great idea

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-WRKNG2ABTTRME- 4/23/2013 6:04PM

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MZZCHIEF 4/23/2013 2:50PM

Sounds like a plan!

: )
Mzzchief

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Lemons Again, But Trying to Make Lemonade!

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

I thought that the new job I got would be working out. Now that they are getting veggies in the store, they want a new girl to look after them when they come in so I lose a day. Now down to 4 days a week, minus another 2 hours a week. On the hunt again! But maybe the universe is going to bring me what I want! To be able to stay home with my family, move to a place in the country and be in nature, enjoy my dogs and cat more too.

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BARCLE 4/21/2013 4:58PM

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MZZCHIEF 4/17/2013 6:46PM

Can you be the veggie girl, or would that take too much time away from your family and the things you want to do?

Best with this, Wolfie!
: )
Mzzchief

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USMAWIFE 4/17/2013 6:03PM

hope the universe will get your something better soon

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ALEXSGIRL1 4/17/2013 5:35PM

I am glad you make lemonaide that is a good dream you have. sorry about your job maybe the door will open to a better one.

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DEBBY4576 4/17/2013 4:47PM

I want a place in the country too. Grow my own food.

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REALCAROL 4/17/2013 12:16PM

Fresh lemonade is great. haha

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MORTICIAADDAMS 4/17/2013 9:26AM

I hope you are able to achieve your ideal life.

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SUCCESS_IN_2013 4/17/2013 8:58AM

It seems like a conspiracy is in place to limit everyone's hours so no one has to pay health care! I hate it that American businesses are SO about profit that ppl don't even matter. Good luck, as you start your search.

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BIGDOG18 4/17/2013 8:22AM

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LJOYCE55 4/17/2013 8:17AM

Hope you get what you wish for.

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A Little Humour to Brighten Your Day...

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Swiss mountain guides who always do the same trails can get tired answering the same questions over and over. One time an English tourist was giving his guide an especially hard time with silly questions. They were walking through a mountain valley that was strewn with rocks, and the traveler asked, "How did these rocks get here?"

"Sir," said the guide, "they were brought down by a glacier."

The tourist peered up the mountain and said, "But I don't see any glacier."

"Oh, really?" said the guide. "I guess it has gone back for more rocks."

From Round Table email

Have a great day!

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JEWITCH 4/18/2013 2:21PM

Good laugh, thanks.

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ALEXSGIRL1 4/17/2013 5:37PM

cute entertaining and thought provoking plus i learned about glaciars thank you

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MORTICIAADDAMS 4/17/2013 9:25AM

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LEANNAW4 4/17/2013 8:56AM

That's definitely a "here's your sign" kind of comeback! Loved it!

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KKKAREN 4/17/2013 8:49AM

cute!

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CELIAMINER 4/17/2013 8:36AM

My geography/geology DH will love this!

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KITT52 4/17/2013 8:34AM

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JO88BAKO 4/17/2013 8:21AM

thanks for the laugh

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A Little Humour to Brighten Your Day...

Friday, April 12, 2013

A motorist was mailed a picture of his car speeding through an automated radar. A $40 speeding ticket was included.

Being cute, he sent the police department a picture of $40.

The police responded with another mailed photo of handcuffs.

From Round Table email

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REALCAROL 4/20/2013 10:13AM

Some people are pretty stupid or daring. I don't know which. My gosh it was only $40.

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BARCLE 4/15/2013 8:51PM

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PRAIRIECROCUS 4/13/2013 11:16PM

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ALEXSGIRL1 4/12/2013 6:47PM

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MORTICIAADDAMS 4/12/2013 5:10PM

LOL!!!!

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HELEN_BRU 4/12/2013 10:59AM

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SUCCESS_IN_2013 4/12/2013 10:46AM

ha ha good one! I love your new background, its awesome!

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JACKIE542 4/12/2013 10:37AM

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JJSSPARK 4/12/2013 9:16AM

Thanks for the laugh...needed it!

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WALLINMW 4/12/2013 8:50AM

Funny. Stay motivated!

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