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Updating my Spark friends

Thursday, May 23, 2013

I have had a very hard last 2 weeks. Thanks to all my Spark friends for their prayers and concerns. My husband passed away last night. He went very peacefully and from what I was told by Hospice, he was in NO pain. They helped me very much. I was hysterical when I found him because my children and I were preplanning so we could have everything the way we wanted it so that there were no questions later. We each had something we were doing and all of a sudden i just got up and went to check on him. He had several times taken a few breathes and then stopped breathing for about 15-30 sec. When I came to check on him, I thought he was going to breath again and he didn't and didn't and didn't, so then I realized that he was in Heaven with his Lord and Saviour. I am going to CT for a while to be with 2 of my daughters. I'm not sure if I will be on SP or not. I still need your prayers, but most of all my 15 year old daughter needs your prayers.
She doesn't understand why her Dad was here for her sister's 4 years of high school and graduation, her brother's 4 years of high school, and he's not going to be here for her 4 years of high and school and graduation. She's taking it very hard. i know a lot of people like to pray with a name. Her name is Kelleigh (pronounced Kelly).
I will try to write again when I get to CT.
I love you all.
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SANDY-TOES 5/24/2013 10:40AM

    I am so sorry. My most heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
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LADYFROMTHEWOOD 5/24/2013 9:12AM

    Oh, my dear, dear friend, I wish I could just swoop you up in a way to comfort your deepest hurt. Words just can't speak enough the depths of feeling. I will, of course, pray for you and all your family.

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ADZY86 5/24/2013 7:49AM

    I am so so sorry for your loss. Keeping you and your children and familly in my thoughts. My deepest sympathies.

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OKIE30 5/24/2013 12:32AM

    God bless you, dear!

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MARYGOLD5 5/23/2013 11:36PM

    So sorry for your loss. I lost my husband almost 7 years ago, and it is not easy, but God will see you through. It is good to know that they are in Heaven and we can meet again. emoticon

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3G1RLS4ME 5/23/2013 10:44PM

    So sorry for your loss, praying for your family emoticon

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JO88BAKO 5/23/2013 10:36PM

    I will pray for you and your daughter. My heart goes out to both of you. It is so very hard for girls that age to process these highly emotional situations.

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EVIE4NOW 5/23/2013 10:26PM

  Sincere sympathies and prayers to you and your family.

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JUST2SWEET 5/23/2013 10:21PM

  So sorry for your loss,deepest sympathies.

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Taking it one day at a time.

Monday, May 13, 2013

Every day seems to be different than the day before. i never know what to expect. My husband and I are in the care of hospice. He has been on new medicine since last Tuesday and things are certainly different. He has fallen 7 times in the last 4 days. When the nurse calls to schedule a visit for this week, I will be asking for a hospital bed. Even though he only weighs 124, I can't pick him up from the floor. It's too hard on me and my back. I don't want to hurt myself and then not be able to care for him.

  
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JUDITH316 5/14/2013 3:04PM

    I'm so sorry you are having such a tough go...I want you to know my prayers are with you both as always... emoticon emoticon emoticon

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CINDYSDAY 5/14/2013 8:17AM

    My thoughts and prayers are with you! emoticon

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PMFISH 5/13/2013 6:43PM

    Sorry you guys are having such a tough time. Lady is right, ask for help or you will end up having to be waited on also. Do you have any children near by? Will put you both in my prayers to have the strength and wisdom to maneuver this hard time in your life. emoticon emoticon

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LADYFROMTHEWOOD 5/13/2013 5:10PM

    You ask for whatever you need, that's what they're there for. When someone is unable to help you help themselves up, it doesn't matter if they weigh 124 or 360; it's nearly impossible to get them back up. Don't hurt yourself. It is not a reflection on you, but a reflection of a very hard situation! Still praying for you. Take as much care of yourself as you can. I know your heart is heaviest of all.
(((hugs)))

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Making progress

Thursday, May 09, 2013

I'm making progress since I started weighing my food again, doing a little bit of cardio, and a little bit of strength training. I've been doing what I can to keep me in shape. Thanks to all my Spark friends who motivate me!!

  
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JUDITH316 5/9/2013 9:22PM

    emoticon emoticonyou are doing emoticon great keep up the great work, you can do it, I cheer you on...

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KATIBUG49 5/9/2013 6:01PM

    Keep up the good work, you can do it!

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  Keep it up emoticon , it is worth the time

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trying to get through the day

Wednesday, May 08, 2013

I am trying to get through the day. My husband was up from 10:30 p.m. til 9:00 a.m. He ate a few bites of cereal, but did want anymore. I gave him his medicine. One is liquid and he swallowed it and the other is a pill that dissolves on his tongue and just as he was going to bed, I found it on the floor. He has been sleeping since about 9:15 a.m. and it is now 10:35. I was able to get
40 min. of cardio exercise in. I'm hoping to get more in today.

  
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LADYFROMTHEWOOD 5/9/2013 8:55AM

    Living on lack of sleep like you are is SO hard. Nap when you can. I find it amazing that you still found a way to exercise! Way to go! Do take care of yourself as much as you can, you need it and DESERVE it! Think of it as refueling.
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CINDYSDAY 5/8/2013 10:25PM

    I hope that you get some rest!

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NANCYPAT1 5/8/2013 5:56PM

    hope you get some rest now - keeping you in my prayers

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PMFISH 5/8/2013 3:16PM

    Hope you get some rest today.

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56ROSE 5/8/2013 3:12PM

    emoticon My mother-in-law was diagnosed with Parkinson's disease 10+ years ago and is now living in a hospital care center. We will visit her this Sunday to celebrate Mother's Day. Hope your day goes better than expected. Take care of You!

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HELLO!!!

Tuesday, May 07, 2013

I am still here, for everyone that is wondering. I've just had a hard time with getting on the PC and getting on SP. My husband is not well. I've had to call in hospice for him. I thank you for everyone on SP that think about me and pray for me and my husband everyday. I appreciate it soo much!!! I will get on SP every time I can. The rest of my life is dedicated to my husband until the Lord Jesus Christ takes him from me. I can't tell you A:: enough how much I appreciate ALL of you!!! You ALL are emoticon

  
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LADYFROMTHEWOOD 5/8/2013 7:54AM

    I'm so glad to hear from you! You've been missed!
I'm sorry to hear that your husband has gotten worse. Hospice can be such a blessing though, to him and to you. You take care of your own life and know that we'll all be here when you want to return. And are always thinking of you and praying!!!
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MAWMAW101 5/7/2013 8:39PM

    My thoughts and prayers are wilth you and your family. emoticon

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USMAWIFE 5/7/2013 8:30PM

    emoticon emoticon saying prayers for you and your family at this time

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