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A Letter To My BFF

Wednesday, July 03, 2013

OK, so it didn't go as planned. That's alright. Even the best intentions don't work out the way we had hoped. All is not lost. Today's a new day and you've been given another chance to try. "Trying" is the most important thing. Don't ever give up. Stop demanding perfection from yourself. I know you learned that early on, but consider the source. Was your Mom perfect? Of course not and you didn't expect her to be. Is Tito perfect? No, and you wouldn't want him to be. Why do ask more from yourself? Stop already. You don't like it when others expect and demand perfection. Quit doing that to yourself.

Look at all you've accomplished in the short 14 months you've been on Spark. You've accomplished quite a bit. First off, you're still here! What an accomplishment! You never doubted yourself. When you put your mind to something, you get it done. I'm so proud of you! Your determination is untouchable! You're 54 pound lighter. Now that is nothing to shake you're finger at! You went from obese to normal in 6 months. Sure, your weight loss has slowed down quite a bit but there are extenuating circumstances. You started out focusing only on your physical health, but then extended that focus to your mental health. It's not your fault that the psyche meds cause weight gain. I'm proud of you for sticking to it despite the weight gain once so far already. You stuck to it and lost that and more. You continued to go through medication adjustments to take care of yourself and gained some. With your untouchable determination, I know you aren't going to let that stand in your way of reaching your goals. You haven't yet and you're not going to either. I know you. I know you better than you know yourself! Nothing can stop you. You're unstoppable!

Look at you! You're sober! WOW! Not everyone can say that. You know who I'm talking about. What's more is you have a genuine desire to be. You started off not drinking because of the empty calorie content of alcohol. Now you're doing it for your physical and mental health. Good for you! Every one is so proud of you! I'm your biggest fan, next to you of course. I know how proud you are of yourself, and that's a great thing. You're even, already, bringing others along for the ride. They are sober too. You are affecting those around you in a positive way. I know that's got to feel good. Kuddos to you! Just as your healthy journey on Spark has influenced those around you, so has your sobriety. God says, "Well done, my good and faithful servant"! Who can ask for more than that? God loves you so much and so do I!!! You are some awesome woman and I mean that from the bottom of my heart! Don't you forget it!


Your BFF

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COOLMAMA11 7/27/2013 8:21AM

    Loved this blog, straight from the heart!

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ASIAM62 7/18/2013 10:10PM

    Love this! You are AWESOME!

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MEDDYPEDDY 7/5/2013 1:08AM

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MENNOLY 7/4/2013 4:38PM

    I'd say you have had great success. emoticon emoticon emoticon

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NELLIEC 7/3/2013 4:08PM

    Being sober is a wonderful accomplishment. You and Jesus did it together. I have been praying for you for quite a while now, and I am so glad that you have continued on your journey to a better life. emoticon

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BEEJAY49 7/3/2013 12:17PM

    You are AMAZING!!!!!! HUGS!

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ELSAT137 7/3/2013 9:58AM

    Awesome blog!! What a wonderful way to encourage yourself!! We need to give ourselves positive pep talks. You are doing awesome!! Keep pushing yourself. Great job motivating others to join you!

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    What a wonderful tribute to a BFF. Everyone should be so lucky as to have a BFF like you.

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PEGGYO 7/3/2013 7:36AM

    way to go

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MYTHMYTH 7/3/2013 7:31AM

    emoticon You have REALLY made positive changes in your life. You have so many things to celebrate! emoticon

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Restarting the 5K Your Way Walk/Jog Program!

Sunday, May 26, 2013

I'm so excited! emoticon I've been trying to do this training program since January 2013 emoticon . I did week 1, day 1 with no problem, but since I didn't have proper running shoes emoticon , dropped out until I could afford to buy some. Wise decision no matter how badly I wanted to start jogging.

Since then, working out has been pretty much hit or miss. emoticon I have become bored with walking and lacked motivation to get out there. Been doing SparkVideos.

I was finally able to get a pair of running shoes at the beginning of May. Not being in the habit of exercise and not committing to a race, left too much wiggle room and I found myself skipping workouts. emoticon

I reset my program, signed up for a virtual 5K for the week of June 23 - 29 emoticon , set an appointment for myself for June 28 to do the race and joined the SparkTeam emoticon . I've committed to begin Monday, May 27 at 6:30 am. (tomorrow)I've made appointments with myself for MWF's for the next 5 weeks. emoticon T,Th,Sat's will be 30 minute strength training days emoticon and Sundays will be my rest days (that is until BLC22 starts up). I'm going to tell my husband of my plans as soon as he wakes up to hold myself accountable. Believe me, he WILL bug me about this emoticon ! LOL. I've even bought some new workout clothes to help motivate myself - anything to see myself through this time. I'm tired of sitting on the sidelines.

So, there are my plans. I'm holding myself accountable to you and will continue to post my progress! Please feel free to check up on me if you like. I'd really like a virtual workout buddy! emoticon Anyone interested?

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    Just read your blog! Way to go you for getting started! :) How is it going? Would love to hear, as I'm just getting to jogging myself and its proving a fun challenge(I just finished week#2)! Whatever you do, (as I'm learning/doing) adjust it to YOU, and go at YOUR pace! Enjoy it! :) Have a great wkend!

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NELLIEC 5/27/2013 5:19PM

    It's good that your hubby definitely will bug you about it! emoticon

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MYHANDS4GOD 5/27/2013 9:01AM

    Great encouragment. Maybe I should try this too.

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Big Goals for the Future

Friday, May 24, 2013

The year is 2023. I'm 60 years old. I'm happy, healthy, sober and content. I weigh 125 lbs and wear a size 6. I'm living in our newly renovated little house with my beloved husband Tito who's healthy and active at 74. I have 2 chihuahuas who I love dearly, Chico and Sarah. I go to church on Sundays and Wednesdays, do bible studies, read my bible daily and I am spiritually fit. God has continued to bless all my days. I have lots of real, close friends from my church. I'm singing in the choir. I'm a prayer warrior. I'm a many-times-over sponsor in Alcoholics Anonymous; I've been sober 10 years. I eat healthy and exercise and feel great. I'm running 10K 5 days a week, strength training 6 days a week, and doing yoga daily. I still Spark daily, helping, supporting, encouraging and praying for others. I am a Sparkpeople motivator. I am a fine example of happy, healthy living. I vacation, travel, and hike in Europe that year for my birthday, taking Tito to all the places I went to when I was in my 20's. Life is good. I think I'll stick around another 10!

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MEDDYPEDDY 5/26/2013 2:12AM

    A very good vision for the future - you go girl! emoticon

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NELLIEC 5/25/2013 7:17PM

    Those sound like great goals!

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ALYSSAR2012 5/25/2013 3:59PM

    Love this blog! Best of luck making this all come true. emoticon

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Overcoming My Biggest Exercise Excuse

Friday, May 10, 2013

My biggest exercise excuse is "I don't FEEL like it." That's just the enemy who comes to kill, steal, and destroy. Exercise will help me to live a longer life which the enemy doesn't want. He'd love to kill me early to prevent me from spreading a message of hope to those still suffering. I want to be a good example of taking care of God's temple and exercise matters. I want to spread the AA message to those still suffering and reach as many alcoholics as I can. The longer I live, the more suffering alcoholics I can reach. And don't forget fellow sparkers. They need to hear that SparkPeople works.

The enemy wants to steal my joy and self-esteem and energy; all things that exercise gives me. I may not feel like exercising at the moment, but I'm always glad I did. After exercise, I'm left with a feeling of satisfaction and contentment. I feel like a success. I'm full of energy. I'm happy I got my sweat on.

The enemy wants to destroy my success. He wants to take away my muscle tone and my cardiovascular health. He wants to destroy my lung capacity. He walks about as a roaring lion seeking whom he may devour. He can only devour me if I let him.. I need to stay alert and vigilant.

My feelings are deceiving. They don't take into account the whole picture. When it comes to exercise, I tend to forget the feel good endorphins it produces for hours afterward. When it comes to drinking, I tend to forget the misery. It's really messed up. The lie is that exercise makes me feel bad and drinking makes me feel good. Satan is a liar and the father of lies.

It helps if I just "act as if". Act as if I WANT to exercise. I'm doing that this morning. I ate my pre-workout snack and am putting on my new workout gear. I'm suiting up and showing up. I'm recalling yesterday's feelings during and after exercise. I'm feeling how good it hurts.

So...why don't I want to exercise? Because I listen to the lie. This morning, I choose to listen to the truth as I've written here and concentrate on Jesus. Jesus is the way, the truth and the life and provides freedom to the prisoners. I choose to live in freedom.

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TANYAMWA 5/12/2013 8:11AM

    You can do it! Be strong!

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NELLIEC 5/10/2013 6:29PM

    There are so many alcoholics in this world who need to know that it doesn't make them feel better in the long run. Plus any problems they have won't go away, they will just get bigger!

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8MOREB4 5/10/2013 12:00PM

  I taught a health class for high school years ago. One of the test questions I always used was.."What is the very best exercise for your health?".

The answer is THE ONE YOU'LL DO!

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ROSCOEKR 5/10/2013 11:22AM


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He's Alive!!!

Sunday, March 31, 2013

He's Alive - David Phelps & the Gaither Vocal Band

"He's alive! He's alive! He's alive and I'm forgiven! Heaven's gates are open wide."

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FITFULLIFE 7/5/2013 10:35PM

    Amen! Plus I like GVB and David Phelps.

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MISSCUS 4/19/2013 10:44PM

    Amen!! I got here late, but at least I got here!! Been wondering how you are doing. I sure like your new haircut!! You look like a pixie!!

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MEDDYPEDDY 4/1/2013 3:14AM

    Ah, I really used to like that when I was more active in church - first the heavy burden and sorrow of the week up to good friday - and then the jubilant joy on easter day!

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RUTHE_51 3/31/2013 5:03PM

    He is risen indeed!

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NELLIEC 3/31/2013 4:39PM


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SLIMLEAF 3/31/2013 1:58PM

    Indeed, He is!

and it makes all the difference in the world, doesn't it?!

Hallelujah! Thank you, Lord Jesus!

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