WATERMELLEN
Online Now
  73,599
SparkPoints
60,000-79,999 SparkPoints
 
 
WATERMELLEN's Recent Blog Entries

TUFFMUFFIN signs up!

Tuesday, March 06, 2012

www.sparkpeople.com/mypage.asp?id=TU
FFMUFFIN


What a guy: the incomparable TUFFMUFFIN!!

He thinks he needs to lose 10 pounds before the start of golf season.

I think he looks pretty darn good.

But . . . it's how you feel. As we all know. And carrying 10 extra pounds plus golf clubs . . . maybe more than the ol' knees can tolerate.

The knees have been fixed three times with arthroscopy (how many legs is that??) and most recently, an injection of some kind of goop that's supposed to ease the crunchy joint . . . it was good enough that TUFFMUFFIN (aka DH), Charlie and I were able to ski together on Sunday!

First time this winter. Charlie did NOT want to get into the car, really dislikes the skis which pass-through the back seat from the trunk . . . wouldn't get in until we removed the skis, closed the pass through hatch. And then of course Charlie simply pretended that they WERE NOT THERE at all when we re-inserted them, gazing stoically out the back window all the way to the golf course. But, it was worth it. Funny that skis don't bother him attached to our feet. And funny how he realizes that standing in front of someone trying to ski downhill is not a good idea.

He was in his glory, running back and forth between the two of us, covering about three times the distance we did . . . too bad I couldn't have taken credit for HIS fitness minutes too! The track has been lengthened, the wax was just right, the chickadees were singing . . . and Charlie was equally unhappy about getting into the car with those terrible SKIS (no, they're not here, I'm not looking) to go home.

So: there's a fun picture of me and Charlie on TUFFMUFFIN's photos . . . and TUFFMUFFIN is also joining me with the fatloser.com series. And so far, making great strides in logging his nutrition.

I know this guy pretty darn well after 33 years of marriage. Am I betting he's going to take those 10 pounds off before golf season starts??? Yes I am. He WILL do it!

But: your support will certainly help. So thank you!!

  
  Member Comments About This Blog Post:

NEWKAREN43 3/7/2012 8:04PM

    Welcomed your darling hubby! Thanks for introducing a new friend! Got to say I'm just a tiny bit jealous that he only has 10 pounds to lose but I'm getting over it! Hugs and blessings. Karen

Report Inappropriate Comment
TRAVELGRRL 3/7/2012 7:49PM

    Hilarious! I wish I could get my DH to join -- he is doing the whole weight loss thing but hates the computer.

Report Inappropriate Comment
SALSIFY 3/7/2012 3:41PM

    I went over to Tuff's page to say hello.

It's odd what dogs will take against - one of mine dislikes the little carts that street sweepers use & I have to drag her past howling whenever we see one.

Report Inappropriate Comment
KALIGIRL 3/7/2012 8:59AM

    Sent him a WTG note - definitely congrats to both of you!

Report Inappropriate Comment
DDOORN 3/7/2012 8:53AM

    Hooray for TUFFMUFFIN! You two sound like you just love the heck out of each other! :-)

My bet is that Charlie (re: funny how he realizes that standing in front of someone trying to ski downhill is not a good idea) learned this the "hard way"...lol!

Don

Report Inappropriate Comment
NANCY- 3/7/2012 8:21AM

    Strange how I could relate to Charlie pretending something isn't there. :)
SP has the tools to help TUFFMUFFIN reach his goal and with your support he can only lose. (sorry bad pun) but it is true that he will achieve his goal.

Comment edited on: 3/7/2012 8:37:04 AM

Report Inappropriate Comment
CRYSTALJEM 3/7/2012 7:47AM

    Great blog... those knees can be tough when they aren't behaving properly. Good luck to both of you, you'll meet your goals yet, cause that's just what you do.

I too have often wished that I could log my dog's fitness minutes... I'd be at the top of the minute count then I tell ya! Have a great day. Stay fit.

Report Inappropriate Comment
TRYINGHARD1948 3/7/2012 6:01AM

    Gorgeous photo of yourself with Charlie. You both look in great shape, and TuffMuffin lives up to all you have said. Love the word picture of Charlie enjoying the ski-ing.

Report Inappropriate Comment
_LINDA 3/7/2012 1:06AM

    What a great day! Its so wonderful when the three of you can all have fun outside together!
We finally got our winter here -enough snow to snowshoe in -my Mom's enjoying it at long last! Took until almost spring to get some lol.
Lovely photo of you and Charlie!! You look STUNNING!!
May you all enjoy many more fun activities outdoors! Those pounds will be quaking in their boots!!

Report Inappropriate Comment
CANNIE50 3/6/2012 10:44PM

    emoticon so sweet

Report Inappropriate Comment
TUFFMUFFIN 3/6/2012 9:41PM

    Tuffmuffin is glowing from the high praise from Watermellen. She is very kind and supportive. She really wants me to lose those 10 pounds. Can I even get remotely close to that billing? What a target for anyone to have to live up to!

Report Inappropriate Comment
PHEBESS 3/6/2012 8:08PM

    I sent him a "hi"!

Report Inappropriate Comment
DBCLARINET 3/6/2012 7:35PM

    That's great! I agree that TuffMuffin looks great, but I also sympathize with wanting to lose a few pounds because it makes you feel good. And heck, 10 pounds is pretty tough when you're already in good shape! So, best of luck to TuffMuffin -- I'm sure he'll make it!

Report Inappropriate Comment
LAFEMMEDELALUNE 3/6/2012 6:51PM

    Getting and staying healthy together is a beautiful thing!
I am sure you two will have many happy healthy years together!
emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment


Dieting is Permanent

Sunday, March 04, 2012

I know, I know. The word "diet" is not politically correct. Not here.

We're supposed to be all about "healthy eating" and "healthy lifestyle".

But the truth is, for me: dieting is permanent. I can't sugar coat it ( . . . too many calories, right??)

No choice, no choice, no choice.

I've gotta diet. For the rest of my life.

I've gotta track my calories. Every day. Meticulously. Because at least 80% of weight loss maintenance for me is about nutrition tracking. And that means 100% compliance with my diet. Really. If I aim for 90% compliance, and permit myself to "mess up" once a day, or three times a week -- and average just 100 calories a day "mess up factor" (which is nothing, no gross self-indulgence at all, maybe an extra apple) -- I'll put on 10 pounds a year. Compounding! Ten pounds this year, ten pounds next year, ten pounds every year thereafter . . . yeah.

I've gotta track my exercise. Even though that's less important for weight loss/weight loss maintenance it's vital for cardio health, muscle maintenance. And yeah, I know that muscle maintenance boosts metabolism, but not by much. But above all, exercise is vital for sustained self-discipline. It's vital to sustain my mood of optimism and exuberance. Exercise makes me feel good. That's the main reason it's important for me.

I am not naturally thin. If you hadn't known me in 2001 when I weighed 230 pounds, you might think I'm naturally thin. People tell me that I'm "lucky" to be thin.

But: I'm not. I cannot eat "naturally" unless I want to balloon up to 230 pounds again. Ten pounds at a time. Two hundred and thirty is probably my "natural" weight. Maybe even higher.

And at 230 pounds I'm still hungry. All the time. I can be hungry at 140 or hungry at 230. I'd rather be hungry at 140, savouring my hunger, savouring my size six black levi jeans I bought off the sale rack yesterday . . . for $9!!

"Dieting is permanent. I am not naturally thin. I must be eternally vigilant and avoid the temptations I cannot resist."

That's one of my Beck cards.

Do I like it? No, I don't.

Sigh. Oh well.

  
  Member Comments About This Blog Post:

CHRISTINECAN 3/6/2012 8:46AM

    This was so interesting I went to your main page and read your About Me info. This sounds like it was written by ME! Except that I haven't read Beck and think that I had better. I had already come to some of the same conclusions without it, but I like a leaning stick and it sounds ideal. btw, also Canadian, long term married etc.

Report Inappropriate Comment
STRIVER57 3/6/2012 8:03AM

    interesting blog. i think you are right, but i've only been on maintenance for 2 months. but i'm also short ... i think i really can only eat 1200-1400 calories a day. i'm trying to keep counting, keep working out, and ... have an occasional treat. and 6 grams of dark chocolate a day. we shall see. i think i need to put that book on my wishlist at amazon so i remember what it is when i'm ready for it. first i'm going to run a half marathon though ... for my 61st birthday.

Report Inappropriate Comment
CANNIE50 3/5/2012 9:40PM

    I resisted reading this blog because of the word "diet" and because of the word "permanant". I am glad I read it. You express yourself so well, and you obviously have some hard-earned wisdom to share. I am not at maintenance so I have more questions than answers. My viewpoint comes from being a person who has overcome several other compulsions and addictions in my life. When I first quit smoking and drinking alcohol years ago, it took a lot of work to stay that way. After years of maintaining my committment to staying free of alcohol and nicotine it became no less of a committment, but much less of a struggle. I do not think food and alcohol and smoking are interchangeable but I do think they have a commonality - trying to fill a need with something that will never fill us up. I have lost about 30 lbs in the past year and I definitely don't feel like I diet because I am not that disciplined about my eating. I rarely "eat with abandon" i.e. binge. I am disciplined about exercise (and I LOVE what you said about exercise - I have always said it makes me stronger, not smaller). Anyway, I am glad I read this blog and I hope that as you maintain your newer body that it does not always require the same amount of vigilance, at least not every single day, but I sure admire your willingness to accept that it will.

Report Inappropriate Comment
IMAGINE_IT 3/5/2012 10:35AM

    Dieting is permanent??!! emoticon emoticon YES..you absolutely right...and i agree! I have been thinking somewhere along the same lines...once i get ot my goal weight (When..ooOOh When???!! lol) i will have to keep myself in 'check' not just 40..50...or 70% No!! 100%!!
It is funny but i used to think once i am at my goal weight i can 'just stop' and at least skip workouts..and/or eat whatever i want..of course in moderation..but by now i know better that this will not be possible..unless i want ot ballon back to 210lbs!!
It kind of sucks when i think that i have to "Forever" watch everything i eat..and exercise..exercise and exercise..but i am determined to make that my regular and forever lifestyle!!
Mental toughness!!!!! emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment
NANCY- 3/5/2012 8:08AM

    You are an amazing woman!
Dealing with the realization of not being able to go back to old habits, and saying oh well... well that just rocks!
You have the insight to carve out new habits to achieve what you want.
emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment
DDOORN 3/5/2012 8:05AM

    That's some potent medicine, your Beck card: "Dieting is permanent. I am not naturally thin. I must be eternally vigilant and avoid the temptations I cannot resist."

And FWIW, the common lament of Oprah's regarding those lucky people who can eat what they want and not become obese? My bet is that they are an extreme minority of people and FAR less prevalent than we may want to bemoan!

Don

Report Inappropriate Comment
_LINDA 3/5/2012 1:27AM

    Great topic to get discussed here Ellen. There have been posts its harder to maintain then lose the weight that is for sure. And if you do want to eat 'normal' calories, then you have to be willing to hit the gym -for an hour a day every day, then you get normal calories. So, I do think exercise is very important in as far as getting to eat regular meals and not having to be stingy on every little thing. Its not much fun trying to squeeze into 1200-1600 calories every day. For mental satisfaction that just isn't going to fly. I love to exercise, so this isn't a huge problem for me.. Its the surgical lay offs that keep throwing a monkey wrench in. But as long as I can get back to my exercising and not have too much damage from the layoffs, I will be happy..
I see nothing wrong with diligent tracking. My sister is astonished I still do. Its the one thing I will not give up. I look on it as a check.


Report Inappropriate Comment
TRYINGHARD1948 3/5/2012 12:39AM

    I enjoyed the reality and truth within your blog Ellen and the responses show what most maintainers have found - this is for life if you want to stay at the so desired and worked for goal. Feeling slim and healthy are certainly worth it.



Report Inappropriate Comment
4A-HEALTHY-BMI 3/4/2012 11:59PM

    AMEN.

Luck has absolutely nothing to do with it,

It's a whole lotta hard dang work.

(But so so worth it...)

emoticon

And I feel kind of sorry for anyone who is disturbed by this news. Because unless you're willing to put in the work, you will fail at maintenance. It is much harder than losing.

This ain't no fairytale. We aren't hitting goal and then drifting off into the sunset, happily ever after. Period.

I've failed at maintenance more times than I've succeeded at it. But it's worth the work. It really is. And the sooner we realize that it's work, the sooner we're prepared to put in the time and effort.

And DBCLARINET, you are absolutely right that SP generally avoids the topic of the difficulty of maintenance. I have an email from Chris Downey where he basically says that telling people the reality of maintenance would probably discourage them.

I personally think that's the wrong approach, but he's entitled to his opinion. I might also point out that he has never been super morbidly obese. The personal problem he solved was different.

Comment edited on: 3/5/2012 12:18:48 AM

Report Inappropriate Comment
TRAVELGRRL 3/4/2012 10:16PM

    What a great discussion, and something I would love to see discussed in the broader Spark community.

I don't believe most thin people are able to eat "anything they want" all the time, especially women. From what I observe most thin women are very careful about what they eat. My mom is that way. Seventy-seven years old and 116 pounds. Does she want to eat goeey desserts and ribs and pizza? Absolutely! But she rarely does, but she also has the discipline to take a dessert and eat a tiny piece. And leave the rest.

PennyAn has brought up some valid points but everyone has to find her own way to maintain. Some people exercise like maniacs. Some gain back 10 pounds and are happy because they need or want to eat more. Other people, like Watermellen and my mom, modify and restrict what they eat almost 100% of the time.

Watermellen, I totally appreciate how hard you've worked to get where you are, and more importantly, to STAY where you are. I am so grateful to be a fly on your wall and observe how you do it. I see how you work endlessly to motivate yourself. You are an avid Sparker and tireless cheerleader, always reading and sharing books and articles on weight loss. You never take those size sixes for granted!

You are sharing your path, the one that works for you, and I so appreciate it. I want to be just like you when I grow up!!

Report Inappropriate Comment
BSTAKINGACTION 3/4/2012 8:03PM

    Honest, honest, HONEST blog. Its all about determining what you want and then committing to 100% compliance to do what it takes to get there.

You're doing the work, woman! Good for you!

Report Inappropriate Comment
SALSIFY 3/4/2012 3:01PM

    I think my little aha moment regarding maintenance came when I read the research at the NWCR which said the average maintainer subsisted on 1380 calories per day. No wonder I've never managed to maintain any of my weight losses before! The good thing about Sparkpeople and blogs like yours is that I used to think that there was something wrong with me because I just couldn't maintain on a 'normal' diet. Now I realise that a permanant diet is the reality - and the most important thing to do is come to terms with this and get on with it.



Comment edited on: 3/4/2012 3:03:20 PM

Report Inappropriate Comment
MEADSBAY 3/4/2012 12:16PM

    I don't know if it is not exactly 'politically correct' to call what we are all here trying to do as it is just more tolerable and less threatening to call it a lifestyle change.
Diet is such a loaded word for many of us.
I fell like I dieted my way up to nearly 200 lbs in the last 30 years or so (yo-yo-yo).
But you are absolutely correct that we have to continue doing it for the rest of our lives, which is why it is so important to find/ create an eating plan (DIET!) that we can live on comfortably for the rest of our lives, which I (and some of your other sparkfriends here) means a healthy nutritious satisfying plan with minimal hunger (another loaded word).
Not that hunger is an emergency- I get that-but it is not something I wish to 'savor' every single day.
Have a peaceful Sunday!
emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment
DBCLARINET 3/4/2012 11:45AM

    I disagree that this blog is disturbing. It's real. I face the same struggle, that I am basically always on a diet. Anyone who thinks they are on a diet to lose weight and then will come off the diet to maintain is mistaken. I tend to gain and lose the same five pounds, and quite honestly, I'm sick of it. I refuse to settle at five pounds heavier, though, because I don't feel GOOD at that weight. Will maintaining a lower weight require extra dietary diligence? Yes. Is it worth it? Yes. I am not a slave to my appetite, and I refuse to ever be.

I really appreciate your dose of realism. Sometimes I feel like SP sugar-coats things too much and doesn't prepare its users for the harsh reality of maintenance. The beat part, though, is that maintenance does become habit, and that makes it easier. But it doesn't make it any less of a diet.

Report Inappropriate Comment
PENNYAN45 3/4/2012 11:42AM

    I just had another thought...

What about using acupuncture or hypnosis to allay feelings of hunger?

I wonder if that could work.



Report Inappropriate Comment
TBANMAN 3/4/2012 11:22AM

    I had a lightbulb moment once watching Dr. Oz on Oprah. He was talking about weight loss - a common topic for him - and Oprah's struggles. Oprah said to him "but some people can eat whatever they want and stay thin!" and he shot back at her "yes, but that's not you, is it?"

That's not you. That's not me. That's not anyone on this site.

Does it absolutely suck? Yep.

Is life fair? Not by a long shot.

Your attitude of "suck it up, buttercup," will keep you at your "un"naturally thin self where others fail.



Report Inappropriate Comment
PENNYAN45 3/4/2012 11:01AM

    I did not like reading this blog. It is disturbing.

While I am losing weight, I have the 'finish' line of reaching my goal weight.
I tell myself that when I get there, I will begin maintenance -- whatever that may be.
I tell myself that maintenance is not going to be as hard as getting to the goal.

I tell myself that maintenance has to be more comfortable than losing the weight.

How could anyone maintain their new low weight for life feeling the way you do?

Is it possible that you should perhaps put on that extra ten pounds and maintain at that level?
Would that be easier?

How about using exercise to counteract those small 'splurges' you should be able to enjoy?

If you were walking X miles each day, would you be able to raise your calorie allowance by X?

I believe that if you-- or anyone -- is going to be successful maintaining your weight loss, you have to find some kind of equilibrium that leaves you feeling satisfied and comfortable with your food intake most days.

I sincerely hope you are able to find a way to do that.

PennyAn

PS I'm counting on all of my SP friends who are on maintenance to work out all these issues - so that when I get there later this year, I can look to all of you for good advice and guidance.





R>



Report Inappropriate Comment


Snowdrops!

Saturday, March 03, 2012




On March 3?

Just outside my back door, in a sheltered spot, on a mild day.

Glorious!

(I added the picture . . . from the Internet: but yeah, mine do look just like this).

And I'll be having coffee in my snowdrop mug to celebrate!

  
  Member Comments About This Blog Post:

PHEBESS 3/5/2012 9:26PM

    Brave flowers!!!!!

Report Inappropriate Comment
TRYINGHARD1948 3/5/2012 12:45AM

    We don't get snowdrops so it is a joy to share yours, thank you.

Report Inappropriate Comment
TRAVELGRRL 3/4/2012 9:38PM

    Well, thank you for clarifying! emoticon I learned my new thing for the day!!

Report Inappropriate Comment
SALSIFY 3/4/2012 2:54PM

    my snowdrops are out too in the garden. I love them too.

Report Inappropriate Comment
NANCY- 3/4/2012 10:22AM

    you have a gift for finding the beauty in life. Thanks for sharing for it brightening my day.

Report Inappropriate Comment
_LINDA 3/3/2012 10:12PM

    How wonderful! I have never heard of a snow drop! So looking forward to hitting the trails tomorrow -today Mom actually saw a coyote on the ice cavorting around! He was a biggie!! She did a seven mile hike though, not sure how far I will feel like going -a lot of foot and back problems, hoping they will hold off so I can enjoy getting outside..
Enjoy your Sunday!

Report Inappropriate Comment
MEADSBAY 3/3/2012 7:59PM

    Beautiful!
emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment
KALIGIRL 3/3/2012 5:46PM

    Here's to celebrating!

Report Inappropriate Comment
TRAVELGRRL 3/3/2012 4:55PM

    Not sure what a snow drop is, but I can tell you are ready to savour it!!!

emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment


It's Going to Be Glorious!

Thursday, March 01, 2012

That fatloser program is really an excellent free resource: www.fatloser.com

And today (day 11) I've picked up some new "scripts". I've got them on index cards and am adding them to my Beck stack.

Here they are:

1. Life isn't fair. Success isn't free. Don't get in my own way.

2. I have the ability to handle anything that life throws at me.

3. The universe is conspiring to help me get everything I want.

4. I can achieve anything I focus on with persistence.

Hmm. My life isn't "fair" in so far as I've (frankly) received advantages and benefits that weren't equally distributed on a global basis. Better make use of 'em. But still, success isn't free: I've gotta be 100% committed to it. And not make excuses, not permit myself to be my own worst enemy . . . by feeling sorry for myself.

Whatever goes wrong . . . and things will go wrong . . . I can handle it. Because I am tough.

Besides, if I pay attention I will see that the world IS a place of abundance and love: good things happen to me, and I can use those opportunities to move forward.

If I want to achieve my goals, gotta stay "on message". Compliance with my diet at 100% is the goal, recognizing that I am human, when I make a mistake it's "oh well" and start over. Right away. But not using that "advance forgiveness" as an excuse that I don't need to take responsibility for myself either. Because it's persistence that will get me where I want to go. As far as weight loss/maintenance goes, the scales have no choice: if I stick with the program, the scales HAVE TO COMPLY! No choice, scales!

But: clearly this is a mindset with far broader application than weight loss/maintenance.

The results? It's going to be glorious!!

  
  Member Comments About This Blog Post:

ROSGETSSERIOUS 3/3/2012 3:58PM

    Love the index cards idea - I think I will make some and put them on my mirror and fridge door! Great blog - thanks for inspiring me!
emoticon

Comment edited on: 3/3/2012 3:58:58 PM

Report Inappropriate Comment
IMAGINE_IT 3/3/2012 3:48PM

    Wow...what a coincidence.....A Spark friend just introduced me to Fatloser videos!! And i am on Day 11!But what was so interesting..the very first days after i started watching..i also started having horrible cravings for ALL the wrong food emoticon emoticon
I have now pulled myself together!
emoticon Ellen for 'blogging' about this..and giving other fellow Sparklers a chance to explore 'fatloser' emoticon
Most of us need all the help we can find...right??!! emoticon emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment
DONNACFIT 3/3/2012 10:05AM

    What a glorious blog!! You've inspired me to check out that site and make some of my own cards, too!!

I'm still savouring my senses, too!

I love coming to your page..you're such an inspiration!!

Thanks for being such a glorious Spark friend!!

Report Inappropriate Comment
FROSTIERACES 3/3/2012 8:33AM

    Great blog! I love..."Whatever goes wrong . . . and things will go wrong . . . I can handle it. Because I am tough.

Excellent! We ARE tough!! Sometimes there is no other way than to just tough through it.
emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment
FREELADY 3/2/2012 7:01PM

    Thank you for the Day 11 highlights!! I benefit so much from fatloser.com, but it won't play here at home. I enjoy listening at the library, but only got through Day 4 so far.

The "straight talk" is just what I need to hear!

Report Inappropriate Comment
_LINDA 3/1/2012 6:18PM

    Sounds like you have it all planned out and have your head in the right place -great scripts- a nice find and reminder!
You are all set to rock this thing!
Take that scale!
emoticon emoticon
You go girl!! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment
SALSIFY 3/1/2012 10:36AM

    Thanks - that's my inspirational blog read for today!

Report Inappropriate Comment
PENNYAN45 3/1/2012 9:50AM

    Thanks for the reference to the fatloser.com website. I'll have to check it out.

And I understand completely about that "advance forgiveness." I have used it several times; it has a way of getting me in trouble.

You ARE strong - and you CAN handle anything that comes your way.

Here's to those glorious results that are on their way!!

emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment
KALIGIRL 3/1/2012 8:40AM

    Here's to staying on message - especially one so grand!
emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment
4A-HEALTHY-BMI 3/1/2012 8:39AM

    emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment
NANCY- 3/1/2012 8:33AM

    "use those opportunities to move forward."
Love those words.
Sometimes we have to look for opportunities or make the opportunity.
You are just the lady to make all that happen.
emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment
SWAZY33 3/1/2012 7:33AM

    emoticonAwesome!! emoticon
I love those scripts!
I'm hanging some of them up at my desk and in my kitchen!!


Report Inappropriate Comment


Savouring Some Statistics?

Monday, February 27, 2012

Steve Siebold, on Day 5 of fatloser.com, says that right now 66% of people in the USA are overweight or obese. He says it's estimated that by 2020 75% will be overweight or obese: and by 2032, 90%.

Hmmmm.

I'm Canadian, not American. But I've started looking around the room wherever I am. And yeah. I'd say most of the time about two thirds of those present are overweight . . . generally speaking, verging more towards the obese end of the spectrum.

The stats seem to be bang on. At the grocery store. At the shopping mall. At a large gathering of professional types. And at a much smaller gathering. Even in the lobby at the Y: although not in the gym itself . . . where less than a third of those observed were even overweight. And apparently doing everything they could to exit that category soon.

Of the overweight/obese observed in the majority of situations, I'm betting many of them are not savouring life with all of five of their senses. But savouring mostly what's going in their mouths: focusing primarily on taste.

I'm going to keep right on savouring taste . . . but only giving taste its due. Enhancing my sense of taste by anticipating and fully experiencing hunger. And also savouring sight, smell, sound, touch. In all their no-calorie or calorie-burning variants!

I'm not savouring these statistics. But I'm committed to fully savouring life.

  
  Member Comments About This Blog Post:

NANCY- 3/1/2012 7:46AM

    Oops!
Moved this to to where it should be.

Comment edited on: 3/1/2012 8:35:48 AM

Report Inappropriate Comment
TRAVELGRRL 2/29/2012 7:01PM

    I have certainly noticed a HUGE increase in the number of overweight people, everywhere, just as you have.

Unfortunately, it can be a vicious circle. The less we move, the heavier we get, the less we want to move. I went to a conference in another city with a very heavy woman I worked with. (Don't even get my started on how awful the plane ride was.) She refused to walk to the terminal (a 5-minute walk), preferring to wait 10 minutes for the shuttle bus. We took the elevator up one floor rather than take the stairs.

It was really eye-opening. I am not thin; I am 20-30 pounds from a healthy BMI, but I often wonder how much I would weigh if I had such exercise-adverse habits and attitude!


Report Inappropriate Comment
DANASEILHAN 2/29/2012 12:22AM

    Wow.

If you were to look at my food record right now you'd be horrified at my calorie count and my food comp. I am aiming for at least 2000 calories a day and the specific macronutrient ratio that I seem to be hitting (wow, this is the first time it's been this easy) for specific reasons. And before this, for a very long time, since I gave up sugar soda especially, if I cut out the stuff that I know is unhealthy for me, I have TROUBLE getting up to 2000 calories a day. And yet I have been over 200 pounds since 2005.

Even now I have to remember to eat. When I get hungry it doesn't come out as stomach growling (well, OK, not all the time) but by me feeling slightly out of sorts and irritable. And really, this is a miracle. In my high-carb days I would experience *blood sugar drops.* I was mentally unstable. When I craved foods it wasn't the high-animal-fat stuff I'm eating now (and also not craving now), it was high-starch stuff like chips and noodles, and high-sugar soda. And the cravings would come and go, probably in tune with my insulin levels.

Given my experience, and given that I have now read Gary Taubes as well, I think you are all putting the cart before the horse.

How many of you have children? And how many of you have observed that if you force your child to eat a lot of food, it makes that child grow taller?

Stupid idea, right? You'd never do something like that.

Well, what makes you think fat people aren't eating more because their bodies are wanting to grow wider?

If you ask yourself that question, then you have to ask yourself, "What makes their bodies want to grow wider?" Gary Taubes answers that question, at least in part. I recommend you all go read him.

P.S. Eat nothing but green salads the rest of your lives and you'll die of malnutrition. Have a nice day.

Report Inappropriate Comment
PENNYAN45 2/28/2012 11:14PM

    That is a troubling statistic, for sure. Why so many? Why now?

When I was living in London in 2008 - I did not see that many overweight people.



Report Inappropriate Comment
LISALGB 2/28/2012 9:59PM

    The statistics are really scary - especially for our children. I work with middle school age children and I've noticed that each year there seem to be more and more in my classes that have weight issues.
It is a very sad thing.

Report Inappropriate Comment
DBCLARINET 2/28/2012 9:15PM

    I've noticed the same thing. The other thing that my dad pointed out to me after reading an article, I think in Newsweek -- people are pairing up based on weight and slowly dividing us into "fat people" and "thin people." You rarely see a thin person married to an obese person (I don't think I ever have). Thin people or fit people seek out similar people, and obese people seek out similar people, and kids model their parents, so it's slowly becoming more pronounced, the delineation between the "thins" and the "fats."

You also said something that hit very close to home: "...although not in the gym itself ... where less than a third of those observed were even overweight. And apparently doing everything they could to exit that category soon."

I have always tended toward thinness, and somehow my college friends had this illusion that I could eat whatever I want and never gain a pound. Once, a friend made that comment during a summer orchestra camp, and a guy I only knew for maybe a week said, "Nah, she's just one of those people who is so afraid of getting fat that she'll never get fat." I never thought of it that way, but it hit so close to home that I just stood there in stunned silence. It cut to the core. It was the absolute truth.

My mom is by no means significantly overweight -- I'm not sure she's even actually overweight (maybe just a bit overfat based on body composition). But she's always a little unhappy with the way she looks because she's neither inclined toward any activity more strenuous than walking, and she grew up in a poor household where if you wanted your share of the goodies, you shoveled it in as soon as it walked in the door. Weight has been an up-and-down struggle for her, one that was impressed upon me at a very young age. I just remember thinking that would not be me, so as soon as I started putting weight on in college, I sought out ways to stop it fast in its tracks. Overall, I've been successful.

I never, ever want to be as unhappy with my own body as so many people I see around me, and that's plenty of motivation to keep moving and eating well.

Report Inappropriate Comment
CRYSTALJEM 2/28/2012 8:35PM

    I've noticed the same thing when I look around. In our family immediate and otherwise, it is obvious that food and quantity choices are reflected in weight. The evidence is undeniable in my opinion.

I'm trying to treat hunger like what it really is, a message to fuel my car. I realized I don't go to the pumps and let my car overfill. Why would keep doingnit to my body. Savor the fuel I need and that's all. Well, at least I'm trying. If I'm going to go over board id rather do it on a really special occassion and really be able to savour the flavour then.

Your blogs have really inspired me to look at my my hunger differently. Thank you.

Report Inappropriate Comment
SALSIFY 2/28/2012 1:02PM

    Wow - 90% by 2032 - that's quite some statistic. Well, I'm doing my best not to be one of them!

Report Inappropriate Comment
NANCY- 2/28/2012 7:00AM

    I dislike statistics. Granted they may be an indicator... but ultimately we do have the control.

Report Inappropriate Comment
TRYINGHARD1948 2/28/2012 3:55AM

    It is a pretty bad statistic and probably one that costs countries a huge amount in medical bills. Food and drink are such an important part of socialisation and I don't see anyone vying for the best green salad in the world. Australian statistics are very similar to the US and there have been huge educational drives, mainly aimed at mothers as the number of overweight children is increasing at a frightening rate. People are aware of the problem but savouries and sodas seem to be winning out.

Thank you for the blog, as always, very thought provoking.

Report Inappropriate Comment
_LINDA 2/28/2012 1:23AM

    Sad, but true statistics. Interesting observation: normal weight parents, obese children. Most elderly people are normal weight, its the younger generation tipping the scales. Currently, my brother and his wife are the only obese people in my circle of relatives. Even though the children of both my sister and brother don't eat particularly healthy (pop, fried food, pizza, sweets etc.), they are not overweight -yet.
Part of what makes food savory is the sense of smell, so learning to spice up your foods makes them more attractive to eat. Lets face it -veggies are dull with no odor. No wonder people forgo them to have the high fat comfort foods. That is why learning to use spices is so important. A lot of our sensation of taste is enhanced by smell -so when you have a cold, everything tastes blah..
I definitely enjoy and am thankful I have all my senses intact to enjoy although the hearing is a little weak..


Report Inappropriate Comment
OOLALA53 2/27/2012 11:04PM

    Since I've been cultivating hunger, I really enjoy the food I do eat much more. I don't like eating fast. I miss out if I do!

Most of my colleagues aren't very big, though I've seen most of them put on a few pounds over the last few years. But they still egg each other on to have cookies at lunch every day. And they use all the passe excuses. We'll see where it ends.

I think this trend is going to level out. And we can be part of it.

Report Inappropriate Comment
DONNACFIT 2/27/2012 9:42PM

    Time to start savouring with all my senses (well maybe not smell when I'm in the corral)

Great blog..Thanks

Report Inappropriate Comment
MEADSBAY 2/27/2012 8:59PM

    I've been noticing how many fatties (myself included) are in most crowd- first noticed it at airports.
Sad!
emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment


First Page  1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 94 95 96 97 98 99 100 101 102 103 104 105 106 107 108 109 110 111 112 113 114 115 116 117 118 119 120 121 122 123 124 125 126 127 128 129 130 131 132 133 134 135 136 137 138 139 140 141 142 143 144 145 146 147 148 149 150 151 Last Page