Wednesday, June 20, 2007
Far away in the sunshine are my highest aspirations. I may not reach them, but I can look up and see their beauty, believe in them, and try to follow where they lead.
- Louisa May Alcott, author
That's all I can say about that right now!
Saturday, June 16, 2007
Hubby and I have had a great week! We began South Beach again. This time we vowed to NOT eat chicken breasts and broccoli every night! Tonight was the first time all week we've had chicken. The variety seems to have helped. We are not feeling like we want to quit, didn't even want our customary Pinot Grigio this weekend, and are generally feeling quite successful and proud of ourselves. I've lost 8 pounds since June 1, he's lost 7. Like they say, success breeds success!
Hmmm, I just had the fleeting thought, "How do I know I'll keep being successful?" Man, those little voices and patterns from the past are hard to change and drown out, aren't they?! Here's my new answer to those thoughts: "Thank you for sharing." I know because I'm in charge. I'm not perfect, and I'll eat things I haven't planned for. I'll skip a workout-or two-at some point. I'll eat too much cheese. I'll drink too much wine (probably not in that order, lol!), I'll likely eat fried mozzarella sticks again at some point in my life. What makes me a success is NOT that I won't make mistakes. What makes me a success is that I will make them, and move on, right back to the healthy habits that are becoming more comfortable every day. You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there. Is it Buddha that says "Fall down six times, get up seven"?
Saturday, June 09, 2007
I'm amazed at how quickly my frame of mind can change. I'm unsure now of how to proceed towards my goals. I still know I can achieve them, I'm simply unsure as to how that will happen.
When I kicked South Beach to the curb I was tired of lists of foods I could and couldn't eat. I felt sure I knew what to do. Now, DH and I are very likely going to do SBD Phase 1 again this Monday. The refined carb and sugar restrictions are good things we think.
Or is Weight Watchers better? See, I'm SO a Libra! I can't even make a decision about what to eat, LOL!
If you're reading this and have suggestions for me feel free to sparkmail me!
Tuesday, June 05, 2007
Okay, after a week of "behaving" around food and exercising regularly..instead of once a week...I have lost 5 pounds!! Whoo-Hoo!! I feel really confident that I will get to my goal. I have the tools. I know how to use them. It's ALL above the neck for me, all above the neck!
Monday, June 04, 2007
So, hubby left a voice mail during his bus duty (we're both teachers and both doing summer school now). Said, in coded words, of course, that he was thinking some wine with dinner- and after dinner, too- sounded good. I listened as I was driving our cranky 4 year old around to get her to sleep, and talked myself into it, even though I wasn't even thinking about it. We talked and he had backed down, but I talked him INTO it again! He was doing errands and was going to buy it. After a few deep breaths-made nicer because of the sleeping child in the backseat-I picked up my phone to tell him to forget it, we don't need it. Just then, he called me telling me the same thing! We got home, made cups of TEA for crying out loud, and feel so proud of ourselves!
We had fallen into a pattern of relieving a bad day-or just a DAY in some cases-with wine, especially since Mom died. We're trying to get back into a healthy groove. Today, we're one step closer!
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