Monday, July 14, 2008
We went away this weekend. It was a great opportunity for me to see just how much my lifestyle has changed. I didn't have access to a computer and we were attending a family celebration where I had no control over what would be served. I'm thrilled to say that my thinking has definitely changed. I was very aware of the foods that I did eat, and because they were also foods that I was familiar with, I had a pretty good idea of what the calorie count would be. By my calculations (mentally calculations...oh oh!), I believe that I stayed with in my calorie range quite well. I ate lots of fresh veggies and fruit, yogurts, baked potato, passed on the meat, more because meat just not appeal to me, passed on the desserts, as once again, I don't have a sweet tooth and they really didn't appeal to me, drank lots of water(I took my own water with me, so always had some ready), as I don't drink alcohol that worked out great. I found it very interesting how my first thought before reaching for any food, was....can I afford to eat this today! LOL. I even managed to get some walking in, not as much as I would have liked, but figured the visiting with family that I hadn't seen for years was good mental exercise. We did have a great weekend. Garry's Mom and Dad were there, his brother and SIL came from BC and aunts and uncles from Saskatchewan as well as his sisters from Calgary, and I wowed them!
I was interested to note that the first remark from any of them was "You look fantastic...you look so young!" the weight elimination was secondary. I did some meditating on the "look so young" part and came to the conclusion that it may have more to do with the facts that I have so little stress now in my life and the spiritual journey that I am on has brought me so much more peace and acceptance, my positive outlook on life and refusing to allow negative energy be a part of my life, than with the actual weight elimination. Not to say that the weight elimination doesn't have something to do with it, but it seemed to be of secondary importance to those I talked to. Coming from my husband family, that is big....weight is a much discussed subject with many of them!
I'm thrilled to report that when I weighed in this morning...I have eliminated another pound! Go ME!
I am feeling much more confident that I will not have a hard time of maintaining this lifestyle once I have reached my goal weight. Although it was only a weekend, it was a weekend of no computer access and knowing that it was an automatic response to ask myself "can I afford to eat this today" has been a wonderful boost to my confidence. When we go away now in August to another reunion, we will be gone for 4 full days, no computer access, and again no control over foods served, but I will pack up my own snacks, fruit and water, and I'm set.
Am I excited about what I've learned, you bet!
Did I miss you guys, yep! Was thrilled to read your blogs this morning and see how positive you all are. See you don't really need me to help you see your positives, you are doing so well on your own! I'm a proud Momma! lol.
Thursday, July 10, 2008
Today Marie's blog inspired me to do my own blog about how my attitude changed to one of success!
Thank you Marie...and here's my essay...don't mark too hard lol.
I was in the same boat as everyone else when I started SP...blaming everything and everyone else for my health and weight issues...my low self esteem too. I had read a book called the "Law of Attraction" by Esther and Jerry Hicks. It talked about how we are really the creators of our own reality. How focusing on all the negatives only brings more negative into our lives and keeps us in a downward cycle. How changing our focus to the positives brings positiveness into our lives and we can begin to create the reality we want and desire. We don't get handed it on a silver platter, we have to work at it. With God's intervention, I found SP's website. At first I was very afraid, I didn't want to attempt another diet...and fail once again! I was tired of feeling like a failure. After about a week of lurking around the site, I realized that it was NOT another diet plan, but rather a lifestyle change. Okay, maybe this was worth another second look. I knew that I wanted to be healthier, I was aware of all the reasons why becoming healthy were so important, I didn't want to live my life any longer as a person who felt so unworthy of even taking up space in the world. So....what was I going to do?
Well...if I'm the creator of my own reality...yuck, I didn't like the reality I was living. If I was going to create the life I wanted, I was going to have to get real! Acknowledging that I am the only person responsible for my actions and reactions was my first step forward into creating my new lifestyle. I WAS RESPONSIBLE for how my life was/is. Now that's a heavy! Life is all about choices, what choices am I going to make. I am not a child anymore dependent on others to guide my choices, I am an adult fully capable of making those choices for myself. Along with making those choices comes the responsibility of accepting the consequences of my choices....another heavy! If I'm the one making the choices, then that means I, not anyone else, am responsible for the outcome. Okay...lets start tracking the nutrition and tracking the fitness....having a visual display for me was and is a key factor in my success. If I wasn't going to make wise choices in my food or exercise, then I wasn't going to see the results I wanted to see. When I wrapped my mind around all these concepts, the path to health became easier. Knowing that everything that I do has a consequence and in order to obtain positive consequences....I have to make wise choices has made this journey a wonderful challenge. I know that I will succeed, because I am choosing to succeed. I know that I will maintain this new healthier lifestyle, because I choose to maintain it. Each morning I choose to greet the day in a thankful attitude, after all I woke up didn't I? I can choose to be miserable or I can choose to be happy, I can choose to eat healthy or not, I can choose to exercise or not....I can choose to be positive or not! Life is all about choices....my choice....to be the best person that I can be, to be a positive influence for others and to have the reality that I desire....health, happiness and wonderment at all the blessings that God provides. God loves me and wants only the best for me, so why would I not want the same for me?
With God's love and gentle guidence in my life, with the support of so many on SP, the positive bloggers group, the challenges and the willingness to get real about myself, the choice to create the reality I want is in itself a reality. I am worthy of being in this world.
Sorry Marie...it's more than 100 words, but they are my words, my journey, and now my philosophy about life.
If you haven't made the true commitment yet to a healthier you, do a reality check and see who is really holding you back from having the life you want. If you are willing to get real, I will be thrilled to encourage and support you in anyway that I can. Join in on some positive blogging and see if life doesn't change for the better.
Wednesday, July 09, 2008
Just a quick blog tonight, I need to get a walk in before the heaven's open up again!
Great day today despite the thunder clouds and rain patches. A co-worker has returned to work after a length illness and the loss of her son in law. Cindy is doing well as are her grandbabies and daughter. Life will be a struggle yet for awhile, but they are all coping.
Not much out of the ordinary happening, just life and all it's blessings.
I'll try and stop by again later to see how you are all doing,
Have a great evening, think positive thoughts, find your blessings and keep moving forward.
PS...too funny, I went to post this and realized at the last minute that I had typed it in as a comment not a new blog for today! Yep, humor is still around. lol
Tuesday, July 08, 2008
Hmmmm, what do I say about today???
A very busy day at work, but I like being busy. Selectors are finally grasping the concept that ordering more of the same title of a hotlist book up front saves frustration in the end.
A beautiful sunny day, despite the weather forecast calling for thunderstorms. When I got home from work, I was able to sit out on the back deck, enjoying breeze and the warm sun shine. Even got to do a little reading before having to go and pick up Shy from work! woo hoo!
An arm load of holds were waiting for me to pick them up...love that I only have to go to a different department to pick them up...no long drive, just a walk down the hall.
I'm getting excited about going to Red Deer this weekend for a family anniversary celebration...almost no one knows about my new healthy lifestyle and the great results to date! Looking forward to some surprised faces. lol. Just the fact that I am looking forward to going to a family function is a real about face for me. Amazing how much more confidence you gain as you start to feel better health wise.
A pretty normal day for me....lots of blessings, lots of smiles and laughs, lots of friends connecting with friends.
Enjoy your evening everyone...give of yourself...you'll be amazed at the returns.
Monday, July 07, 2008
Ahhhhh, a day off work. I have so much overtime right now, that asking for a day off seems to be very easy to obtain. Went for a nice long walk this morning, came home did some housework, did a little dancing as I was doing the housework (part of a challenge!). Drove Shyra to work, came home again and grabbed a book and put my feet up outside in the sunshine and read for awhile. Got too hot, so came back in and spent some time catching up with friends on the internet. Went to pick up Shy from work, made supper. listened to some of the news and now here I am again! A day in my life! It may sound boring to some, but I really enjoyed the day to do with what I chose.
My motivation tip for today...clean out your closet. Try on all those clothes that are still either too snug (it will encourage you to keep on going, next time you try them on, they just might fit!), fit just right or are now too big! Take the too big ones and bundle them up to donate. The clothes that fit just right are probably the ones you tried on a while ago that were still too snug! It's a great way to visually see progress.
My positives ....
I eliminated another pound this week....day off work....a lovely long walk this morning....discovered that several of my clothes are really toooooo big now!....knowledge that I am going to have to get some new clothes this fall....time spent catching up with friends on the internet....a wonderful sunshine day....reading time, meditation time....did a little dancing, let my inner child out to play!
Definitely a good day! Hope yours was too.
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