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Friday, February 10, 2012

Compassionate action starts with seeing yourself when you start to make yourself right and when you start to make yourself wrong. At that point you could just contemplate the fact that there is a larger alternative to either of those, a more tender, shaky kind of place where you could live. --Pema Chodron
Upon waking this morning with the joy of Kitty Rama at my feet, I first completed the pleasant ritual of preparing a cup of delicious coffee. Next, with coffee in-hand, I came to see what had arrived in my InBox. Pema Chodron's words first greeted me via
Then I went on to revel in lovely goodies and notes from exquisite SparkFriends. Finally I opened this morning's Panhala offering, an amazing poem by Wendell Berry.

Today offers me a blank slate (well, not really if ya' wanna' get technical, but kind of...) and I'm determined to move ahead step by "grounded-and-balanced" step, holding myself accountable for how I use the precious moments. It has been a rough week. Wednesday saw profound interpersonal difficulties, which brought on extreme behaviors like binging, when I stopped tracking that day. Yesterday was difficult, but I did track food. I haven't been exercising this week, but that is changing today, with strength training at the very least. These small steps are the tiniest tip of the iceberg of loving self-care. But I will persist.

"I can no other answer make but thanks, And thanks, and ever thanks," dear friends for our connectedness through it all. We're in this struggle together, seeking the worthy goal of wellness of body, mind, and spirit. Could we be on a better journey together?

Though at first reading, Berry's poem seemed somber, repeated readings of it moved me to a place of joy and near ecstasy, as well as deep insights about the week's challenges:


All that I serve will die, all my delights,
the flesh kindled from my flesh, garden and field,
the silent lilies standing in the woods,
the woods, the hill, the whole earth, all
will burn in man's evil, or dwindle
in its own age. Let the world bring on me
the sleep of darkness without stars, so I may know
my little light taken from me into the seed
of the beginning and the end, so I may bow
to mystery, and take my stand on the earth
like a tree in a field, passing without haste
or regret toward what will be, my life
a patient willing descent into the grass.

~ Wendell Berry ~
(The Collected Poems, 1957-1982)

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I would be terribly remiss if I didn't lead any who don't know of Wendell Berry, truly a great treasure, to him... American man of letters, academic, cultural and economic critic, and farmer; a prolific author of novels, short stories, poems, and essays; an elected member of the Fellowship of Southern Writers and a recipient of The National Humanities Medal:

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EXOTEC 3/22/2012 1:24PM

    "Grounded and balanced," amen. It gives me great peace and delight to be a part of this magical reality, and (strangely enough) to know that I, and it, will turn with the wheel of time. There will be a new reality IMO, just as magical as this one.

Thank you so much for your inspiring blog.

In other philosophies, there are directives to "first do no harm", and "if you harm none, do what you will." A revelation to me, from an outside source, was that "none" INCLUDES ME! I am also responsible to do no harm to myself, in addition to no harm to other living things (so far as I can accomplish). I had never seen it in that perspective. I now hold that firmly in my mindfulness. Harm none. Take care of myself, and do the right things - healthfully, nutritionally, compassionately, spiritually.

It's put a whole new twist on my place and perspective. A learning and an improvement, I hope!

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PEACEFULONE 2/14/2012 10:08AM

    Dear Maha,
From that "shaky place" where I live I thank you.
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May your life be blessed as you have blessed so many!
Thanks for sharing, your blogs always inspire.
Peace to you, Elaine

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2BMYOWN 2/13/2012 7:17PM

    Love it, Maha, thanx for posting this!

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CRYSTALJEM 2/13/2012 9:34AM

    You are a wise woman. Showing compassion to ourselves is sometimes one of the hardest things to do. Thank you for sharing. CJ

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1HAPPYWOMAN 2/13/2012 1:29AM

    Bless you, Maha. Bless your tender efforts toward self-care, self-awareness and loving kindness.
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    emoticonEnjoyed the gentle reminder to keep on taking care of ME! It's an uphill kind of thing, dontcha think?! We CAN, over and over again! YES! WE CAN!!!

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DDOORN 2/12/2012 10:34AM

    Thank you for introducing me to Mr. Berry's familiar with the name, but haven't read anything until this lovely poem!


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PENNYAN45 2/11/2012 9:30AM

    Let us all "bow to the mystery."

And may your days ahead bring you peace, my friend.


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FRANCESCANAZ 2/11/2012 9:13AM

    Te amo amiga. Te amo de verdad!

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JESPAH 2/11/2012 9:08AM

    Sweet, as ever.

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    Absolutely emoticon !!! emoticon once again.

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RIDMYCOCOON 2/10/2012 9:52PM

    I'm speechless :)

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WATERMELLEN 2/10/2012 8:30PM

    "A patient willing descent": not sombre.

Thank you. As always.

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PUDLECRAZY 2/10/2012 5:08PM

    Always lovely to start a day with the words and wisdom of Pema, and I always love the choice of poetry that you chose to share.

Sending love.

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2WHEELEDSHARON 2/10/2012 3:08PM

    We have self esteem group today. Thanks for prepping me:)

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DAISY443 2/10/2012 2:13PM

    As always, you bring me things that brighten my day!

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BLUEBIRDSFLY 2/10/2012 2:03PM

    How beautiful. Thank you, Maha. emoticon

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ABURRIS2 2/10/2012 1:58PM

    "...without haste or regret..."

blessings on your day and beyond, my friend

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    Berry..another favorite of mine :)

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On receiving the Nobel Prize....

Sunday, February 05, 2012

Can't resist more on Szymborska...just ignore it if you don't grok it or have time for it...or, better still, read it on the dreadmill!

God (and goddess) knows that I KNOW that this is a wellness site. "They" also know that poetry is part-and-parcel of my wellness, as is sharing it with my that's what this is, a heart sharing:


Every other year, it seems, the Nobel Prize in literature goes to an obscure European writer, full of hard consonants and solemn purposes, whom we all agree to honor for a day and forget all about right after.

This list of the Great Obscure is long, but the bright exception to it is the Polish poet Wislawa Szymborska, who won the Nobel in 1996. Szymborska is not merely a great writer, like many others; she is a necessary writer, as necessary as toast. Every month, it seems, I give to someone a copy of one of her books and get for her work, in response, not mere admiration or respect but eyes alight with delight, recognition, laughter and that special kind of happiness that comes from seeing a small truth articulated as a sharp ironic point, an emotion given a shape neither all too familiar nor all too abstract.

No one could possibly have chosen a worse time to arrive on the planet, or a harder place to arrive. Born in 1923, and spending most of her life in the Polish city of Krakow, she survived the Second World War as a railroad worker, and then spent the long years of the Russian occupation as one of the more discreet kinds of dissident.

Yet her exposure to the pain of history did not turn her into a poet of history in the usual sense. She lived through some horrible times, but rarely wrote about them directly. Her experience, instead, deepened her commitment to the belief that the poetic impulse, however small its objects, is always saner than the polemical imperative, however passionate its certitudes.

Her poems take small subjects and make much of them. In her poetry, a child about to pull a tablecloth from a table becomes the type of every scientist beginning an experiment; a visit to the doctors, with its stripping down and piling on of clothes, a metaphor for all we go through in the company of the odd mechanisms of our naked bodies; she ponders the onion's many layers, and the inner life of Hitler's dog.

In the poem that I used for the epigraph for my own latest book, she writes all about the range of human difficulties, over time, that make the decision to have a child impossible at any moment. We just can't do it, it's the wrong time; and yet, we do. (Read "A Tale Begun.")

And I have always been moved and inspired by the text of her Nobel Prize acceptance speech, in which she takes on the "astonishment" of normal life:

"Astonishing" is an epithet concealing a logical trap. We're astonished, after all, by things that deviate from some well-known and universally acknowledged norm, from an obviousness we've grown accustomed to. Granted, in daily speech, where we don't stop to consider every word, we all use phrases like "the ordinary world," "ordinary life," "the ordinary course of events." ... But in the language of poetry, where every word is weighed, nothing is usual or normal. Not a single stone and not a single cloud above it. Not a single day and not a single night after it. And above all, not a single existence, not anyone's existence in this world."

That's Szymborska's faith. I have a hard time knowing how I would get through a single ordinary day without her poetry.

More exceptional reading from The New Yorker, Feb 2:

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RIDMYCOCOON 2/7/2012 7:42PM

    Powerful views from a grain of sand. Thank you for this :)

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BECOMINGONE 2/6/2012 9:59PM

    You never cease to amaze me with your range of interests and passions. You are a "renaissance" woman in this "modern" world.

As always, love

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GIRANIMAL 2/6/2012 3:17PM

    I heard a piece about her on NPR and I believe it was this very one. Thanks for sharing a piece of you, through her, with us. I am unfamiliar with her work, but I found myself very intrigued by the story. She sounded fascinating. I can see why you'd have an affinity for her. emoticon

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KALIGIRL 2/6/2012 1:35PM

    Here's to a marvelous part of your wellness AND ours!

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IMKFOX 2/6/2012 11:08AM

    Thanks for sharing - hadn't heard of her and I'm glad to know more about her now. I will be on a hunt for more of her writing!

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TAICHIDANCER 2/6/2012 10:34AM

    Love this blog.

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JOANNANOW 2/6/2012 10:31AM

    Thanks for the introduction to a new poet.

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SUNNY332 2/6/2012 9:28AM

    Thanks so much. Her poetry is amazing.

Hope all is well with you. I have been very busy with my Father. He is 90 and his health is declining. Such a difficult time for him.

Hugs, Sunny

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2BMYOWN 2/6/2012 8:11AM

    Thanx for posting this, Maha, it's wonderful.

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    Thank you for enlightening me about her poetry. emoticon

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TEENY_BIKINI 2/5/2012 10:31PM


Really cool blog. Thanks. Have a great week, gorgeous.

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JUST_BREATHE08 2/5/2012 9:40PM

    Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful blogs with all of us!! emoticon

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CARRAND 2/5/2012 6:36PM

    I love poetry, too. Are you familiar with this one?

Wislawa Szymborska
The End and the Beginning

After every war
someone has to tidy up.
Things won't pick
themselves up, after all.

Someone has to shove
the rubble to the roadsides
so the carts loaded with corpses
can get by.

Someone has to trudge
through sludge and ashes,
through the sofa springs,
the shards of glass,
the bloody rags.

Someone has to lug the post
to prop the wall,
someone has to glaze the window,
set the door in its frame.

No sound bites, no photo opportunities,
and it takes years.
All the cameras have gone
to other wars.

The bridges need to be rebuilt,
the railroad stations, too.
Shirtsleeves will be rolled
to shreds.

Someone, broom in hand,
still remembers how it was.
Someone else listens, nodding
his unshattered head.

But others are bound to be bustling nearby
who'll find all that
a little boring.

From time to time someone still must
dig up a rusted argument
from underneath a bush
and haul it off to the dump.

Those who knew
what this was all about
must make way for those
who know little.
And less than that.
And at last nothing less than nothing.

Someone has to lie there
in the grass that covers up
the causes and effects
with a cornstalk in his teeth,
gawking at clouds.

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WATERMELLEN 2/5/2012 5:56PM

    I hope that you NEVER stop writing your poetry blogs . . . and reminding us that poetry is central to human experience and meaning.

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_RAMONA 2/5/2012 5:03PM

    Ah, Maha... I'm so sorry you've lost such a wonder-FULL friend. Thank you for introducing me to her, and to a bigger world through her.

I never really grieve celebrities, but I always grieve the writers who were my friends and who enriched my life in ways others never could... they plow, without my even knowing it, pathways to my soul.

I'll now be n a quest to know Wislawa better... as I come closer to myself, I find that my life, all life actually, is a finely woven series of small truths sharply etched.

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...and I'm intrigued... blog away!

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2WHEELEDSHARON 2/5/2012 2:39PM

    Absolutely lovely. Thanks be for her! And YOU:)

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DAISY443 2/5/2012 12:41PM

    Thanks again!

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RIP Wislawa Szymborska, one of my favorite poets

Sunday, February 05, 2012

The path to international fame as a poet generally doesn't involve writing short poems about sea cucumbers. Yet for the Polish poet Wislawa Szymborska, who won the Nobel Prize in 1996 and died Wednesday, the little things -- onions, cats, monkeys, and yes, sea cucumbers -- turned out to be very big indeed.

A popular writer in Poland for many years, Szymborska became a reluctant international literary celebrity after her Nobel win.

Szymborska is an ironist. But in her work, irony becomes playful, almost whimsical. She thinks of the poet as an acrobat who moves, as she puts it, with "laborious ease, with patient agility, with calculated inspiration."

Szymborska's poems generally focus on everyday subjects or situations, and her tone stays firmly in the middle ground. She doesn't rant; she calmly assesses. She's a poet of dry-eyed, athletic precision: an acrobat, as she says, not a powerlifter. Here is how she begins a poem called "Under One Small Star":

My apologies to chance for calling it necessity.
My apologies to necessity if I'm mistaken, after all.
Please, don't be angry, happiness, that I take you as my due.
May my dead be patient with the way my memories fade.
My apologies to time for all the world I overlook each second.
My apologies to past loves for thinking that the latest is the first.
Forgive me, distant wars, for bringing flowers home.
Forgive me, open wounds, for pricking my finger.

And the poem concludes:

Don't bear me ill will, speech, that I borrow weighty words
then labor heavily so that they may seem light.

Yet if Szymborska's touch is gentle, it can still burn or freeze. Consider her sea cucumber (or "holothurian") poem, which is called "Autotomy." The poem begins:

In danger, the holothurian cuts itself in two.
It abandons one self to a hungry world
and with the other self it flees.

It violently divides into doom and salvation,
retribution and reward, what has been and what will be.

An abyss appears in the middle of its body
between what instantly becomes two foreign shores.

Life on one shore, death on the other.

The sea cucumber can become two parts, one living, one dead. Szymborska compares this to the way in which writers have long argued that when they died, their work would live on — granting them a kind of immortality. But Szymborska is skeptical. She doesn't think anyone exists outside of time, or that writing poetry is a matter of falling on the right side of an abyss. As she puts it in the poem's conclusion:

Here the heavy heart, there non omnis moriar --
Just three little words, like a flight's three feathers.

The abyss doesn't divide us.
The abyss surrounds us.

The ending of the poem could seem grim. After all, she's suggesting that there is, in the end, no way to cheat time. But if that's the case -- if we can't continually evade death -- then this is at least something we all share. It's no surprise that her poem is dedicated to the memory of one of her friends.

Szymborska has now fallen into the very abyss that she wrote about with such understated passion. And yet it's hard not to think that, with all her delicate power, she somehow still walks on air above us.

David Orr's most recent book is called Beautiful & Pointless: A Guide to Modern Poetry.

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LE7_1234 6/25/2012 11:42PM

    Thank you.


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    Thanks, you've introduced me to someone new.

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DARKTHOR 2/7/2012 11:27AM

    Deep words that wash over the consciousness beautifully.

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BRIGHTSPARK7 2/7/2012 1:11AM

    I have been considering the mystery of The abyss today and the process of bringing Presence to it, th egifts that the unknown has for us. Thank you for sharing this exquisite poet with us. I wrote my first ghazal this evening to share with my Poetry circle tomorrow. Last line goes, "Your words penetrate me like light entering the room at sunrise."
Thankyou for these words, Mahalakshmi.

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BECOMINGONE 2/6/2012 10:04PM

    You are so eclectic in your interests. As always, thanks for sharing this piece of yourself.


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2BMYOWN 2/6/2012 8:07AM

    Great blog, Maha, and lots to be said for making the everyday poetic, I think. You're giving me an education just by reading your blogs!

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CARRAND 2/5/2012 6:46PM

    Thank you for sharing.

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WATERMELLEN 2/5/2012 5:49PM

    Maybe the abyss surrounds us . . . maybe not. We cannot know. But finding consolation in the little things helps us remain anchored on our island in the abyss (if it turns out that's where we are) while we can.

Wonderful blog, thanks so much.

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REBCCA 2/5/2012 2:50PM

    "There is a wisdom that is woe; but there is a woe that is madness. And there is a Catskill eagle in some souls that can alike dive down into the blackest gorges (abyss), and soar out of them again and become invisible in the sunny spaces."
Herman Melville

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GETSTRONGRRR 2/5/2012 2:09PM

    Thanks very much. I heard that broadcast while I was in Kansas last week and she seemed to write from a joyful heart

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DDOORN 2/5/2012 1:33PM

    Thank you 'Maha, for sharing your poetic heart with those uninitiated such as myself!


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DAISY443 2/5/2012 12:36PM

    Maha, as always, you are insightful and inspiring! Thank you!

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Birthday Month

Wednesday, February 01, 2012

"Hello Mahalakshmi! Your birthday month is here and so am I. Let the celebrations begin. Been away from Spark for many months. Hope all is well with you. Happy to see the photo of Swamiji on your page again. A blessing on my day.
Love, Usha xx"
This lovely note arrived on my SPage this morning from a special California SFriend, BRIGHTSPARK7, and caused this wimpy Pisces to ruminate (again/more) about the advent of my 70th birthday (Feb 23).
I may gift myself with a road trip to the ashram for the Memorial Day weekend Krishna Das kirtan (devotional song) retreat. And I hope to find a way to get over to Maui to visit my dear friend Diana!
And on a more practical level I can think of no better way to welcome The BIG SEVEN OH(!) than with mindful eating and consistent movement. I started tracking (yet again) on Jan 30, and among the gifts I'm offering myself for Feb 23...and beyond, of course I intend to~~
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emoticondo strength training Mon, Wed, and Fri, with sit-ups Sat or Sun.
emoticondo something aerobic for at least 20 min. five days per week

It's such a simple thing to ask of myself considering the huge pay-off, but dang it, it's hard. I refuse classify myself as a lazy, do-nothing, just-get-by kinda' person. I CAN DO THIS.
Here's an anticipatory, poignant birthday poem:


Life is tough.
It takes up a lot of your time, all your weekends,
and what do you get at the end of it?
...Death, a great reward.
I think the life cycle is all backwards.
You should die first, get it out of the way.
Then you should live twenty years in an old-age home.
You get kicked out when you're too young,
you get a gold watch, you go to work.
You work for forty years until you're
young enough to enjoy your retirement.
You go to college, you party until you're ready for high school,
you become a little kid, you play, you have no responsibilities,
you become a little boy or girl, you go back into the womb,
you spend your last nine months floating.
And you finish off as a gleam in someone's eye.

-- Norman Glass
Here are some photos from wonderful times at celebrations for my 69th birthday, which remind me how deeply blessed I am with special local friends:

A delightful brunch on Feb 20 with Sandra

Out-and-about on Feb 21 with Jean and Gail

Birthday dinner on Feb 23 with Victor and Fritzie

The remaining are miscellaneous photos of a party Feb 26 at Gail's home:

Judy, me, and Johnye laughing so hard we're crying! Judy turned 60 last year and her mom Johnye turned 80! So I'm literally right in the middle!

Camille checking out some of the wonderful food fare brought by everyone.

Gail and Sandra

Leslie, Beth, Jean, and me

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GIRANIMAL 2/6/2012 3:15PM

    70?! If I didn't know you, I'd call you a liar! emoticon Happy birthday month, Maha. May every day bring us more beautiful souls such as yourself. emoticon

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ME_HERE_NOW 2/4/2012 7:09PM

    i hope it is another wonderful year of love and laughter, your spark burns bright my friend!

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    I haven't considered celebrating a birthday month, but oh what I could do!Both my daughters celebrate this month too!
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RIDMYCOCOON 2/3/2012 1:41PM

    Have a WONDROUS birthday month :) emoticon

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ABURRIS2 2/3/2012 1:09PM

    As always, you have offered so much in your reflections! I'll share this birthday month with you, celebrating in spirit. ~ann

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2BMYOWN 2/3/2012 12:43AM

    Happy birthday month, Maha, I think EVERYONE should have a month to celebrate their birthday, personally. LOL I mean, isn't that fair??? Wishes to you for a wonderful month and wonderful year ahead! From your totally awesome sparky bud. LMAO

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SOULFISH80 2/2/2012 11:41PM

    Happy birthday month to a true beauty. The photos are lovely, looks like you have some wonderful friends. I really enjoyed that poem on aging backwards....would be quite nice. So good to read a bit about what you are up to. You are a shining beacon of a life well lived. I hope this is the best birthday yet.

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HIPPICHICK1 2/2/2012 2:34PM

    First of all, 70?? You? I think 70 is the new 60, lady! Great photos!! Have a spectacular birthday month.
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CATS_MEOW_0911 2/2/2012 12:54PM

    Hooray for your birthday month! I love the poem.

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CRYSTALJEM 2/2/2012 12:31PM

    Enjoy your birthday month day and year! I find it funny that you refer to yourself as a wimpy Pisces when I always think of you as someone of great strength, determination and confidence. Cheers!

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JESPAH 2/2/2012 11:12AM

    Sparkle on!

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1HAPPYWOMAN 2/2/2012 1:38AM

    Seeing your smiling face reminds me why I am on this sparkling journey: I want to be as healthy and happy as you look when I am nearing the big seven OH!
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BRIGHTSPARK7 2/2/2012 12:04AM

    Krishna Das! Sweet. A deelishus gift,soaring with Kirtan. You come up with amazing adventures. Love you too, Mahalakshmi.

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VALERIEMAHA 2/1/2012 10:54PM

    Ok Usha, I've edited in some FUN to the mix!

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BRIGHTSPARK7 2/1/2012 10:25PM

    Wooooo hooooo! You inspire me as always. What gift would you like to give yourself, that isnt a should? Let the revelry begin! Your photos from last year are filled with so much joy rising.
The poem had me smiling.
Thank you, dear heart.

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JUST_BREATHE08 2/1/2012 8:47PM

    emoticon lady, awesome blog, awesome poem & Wonderful pictures!!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY for the Whole Month of February. Enjoy!!!

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2WHEELEDSHARON 2/1/2012 8:36PM

    I love birthdays just because they're like inexpensive group weddings with all ones friends, ha ha! Happy birthday month, please do give yourself those gifts:-)

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SUNNY332 2/1/2012 8:27PM

    emoticon emoticon emoticon Here is a toast to many, many more happy years.

Hope the day was as special as you are!

Hugs, Sunny

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WATERMELLEN 2/1/2012 8:10PM

    You've got some great gifts lined up for you! and only you can give them to you! But: I'm sure you will!!

Love the Glass poem.

Seventy is a perfectly splendid age and wow, you make it look soooo good!!

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STILLPOINT 2/1/2012 8:03PM

    Hello Beautiful Maha,

Wishing you a wonderful birthday month as you celebrate your 70th year. I am sure you will continue to touch others as you have touched me. I will recite the Tryumbakam prayer for you. Blessings to you!

P.S. Also returned to SP just a few days ago - nice to be back!

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EMRANA 2/1/2012 7:45PM

  You're so special, you deserve to celebrate the whole month!

Happy happy!


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PUDLECRAZY 2/1/2012 7:14PM

    Ah, celebrate all month!~ Celebrate all year!~

You are a joy!


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PENNYAN45 2/1/2012 5:52PM

    You will soon be a French Septante
and a Roman LXX,
which becomes you
because you are one who
gives much Love,
has an Xpansive approach to the world
and who is a lifelong Xplorer.

I hope you celebrate all month long!!

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SMILEYBEE 2/1/2012 5:06PM

    Well there's something we have in common ... I always celebrate my birth month too ... there's just too much to celebrate to limit it to one day! So, happy birth month to you!

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DAISY443 2/1/2012 4:37PM

    Ah, Maha, you're still just a kid! Great goals. You add Spark to my life! Thanks!

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DDOORN 2/1/2012 4:22PM

    Don't know anyone that SPARKS quite as brightly as you 'Maha...!

Keep on taking great care of yourself and pile on years and years of delight! :-)


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_RAMONA 2/1/2012 3:55PM

    I love the idea of finishing off life as the gleam in someone's eye... and I actually think we do, LOL! While I get the gist of the poem, I wonder if it were to be this way, if we would actually appreciate the magnitude of the gleam just because we are who we are (or if we could comprehend the gifts of twilight)... pondering required.

What a lovely party for a lovely, precious woman! I hope this year is even better!

{{{{{{{{ HUGS }}}}}}}}}

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  What a wonderful group of friends you have (from the looks of your photos)
Happy Birthday!

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VALERIEMAHA 2/1/2012 3:53PM

    LOL Deb, it wasn't me that was away. It was dear BRIGHTSPARK7!

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    I cannot believe that you are turning 70! You look AMAZING!!!! Happy birth month my dear friend!!!!!

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MISS_VIV 2/1/2012 3:49PM

    OH MY - it's that big 70 . . . I remember it well.
If you hadn't told me I wouldn't be able to guess your age.
You are ageless - and priceless.
A wonderful work of art.
A miracle in progress.

Much love
thanks for the pix emoticon

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DEBK0923 2/1/2012 3:49PM

    glad to have you back

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Luminous Tease

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Crazy wisdom teacher Rob Brezsny sez' it like no one else can!


Change yourself in the way you want everyone else to change
Love your enemies in case your friends turn out to be jerks
Avoid thinking about winning the lottery while making love
Brainwash yourself before someone nasty beats you to it
Confess big secrets to people who aren't very interested
Write a love letter to your evil twin during a lunar eclipse
Fool the tricky red beasts guarding the Wheels of Time
Locate the master codex and add erudite graffiti to it
Dream up wilder, wetter, more interesting problems
Change your name every day for a thousand days
Exaggerate your flaws till they turn into virtues
Kill the apocalypse and annihilate Armageddon
Brag about what you can't do and don't have
Get a vanity license plate that reads KZMYAZ
Bow down to the greatest mystery you know
Make fun of people who make fun of people
See how far you can spit a mouthful of beer
Pick blackberries naked in the pouring rain
Scare yourself with how beautiful you are
Simulate global warming into your pants
Stage a slow-motion water balloon fight
Pretend your wounds are exotic tattoos
Sing anarchist lullabies to lesbian trees
Plunge butcher knives into accordions
Commit a crime that breaks no laws
Sip the tears of someone you love
Build a plush orphanage in Minsk
Feel sorry for a devious lawyer
Rebel against your horoscope
Give yourself another chance
Write your autohagiography
Play games with no rules
Teach animals to dance
Trick your nightmares
Relax and go deeper
Dream like stones
Mock your fears
Drink the sun
Sing love
Be mojo
Do jigs
Ask id

  Member Comments About This Blog Post:

CRYSTALJEM 2/2/2012 11:07PM

    Really enjoyed this, I've been reading Brezsny for awhile now and thought this was great. Thanks for sharing.

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GOANNA2 2/1/2012 7:35AM

    Love life and you dear Maha. emoticon emoticon

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PEACEFULONE 1/31/2012 11:53PM

    This is fabulous. Love the picture and the poem but I would end with love.

Drink the sun
Sing play
Be mojo
Do jigs
Ask id

Life-it's all about love!

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COSMIC_ENERGY 1/31/2012 9:23PM

    Can't wait to design my exotic tatoos!

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GENKI_WARRIOR 1/31/2012 3:24PM

    mmmmm: sing Love!

Thanks for this

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_RAMONA 1/31/2012 1:28PM

    O.M.G! Where to begin...

I'll be pondering and celebrating:

Change yourself in the way you want everyone else to change
Love your enemies in case your friends turn out to be jerks
(especially apt for me right now)
Avoid thinking about winning the lottery while making love
(too often my striving robs me of my treasures)
Brainwash yourself before someone nasty beats you to it
(My life and I will become what I choose to believe)
Dream up wilder, wetter, more interesting problems
(Think I'm gonna have some FUN with this)
Change your name every day for a thousand days
(I choose to believe the truth about myself no matter how beautiful)
Exaggerate your flaws till they turn into virtues
(truer than anyone may guess)
Bow down to the greatest mystery you know
Pick blackberries naked in the pouring rain
(very nearly have and it was delicious!)
Scare yourself with how beautiful you are
(working on it...)
Pretend your wounds are exotic tattoos
(Oh my... what a picture! ROTFL... and isn't that the point?)
Sip the tears of someone you love
(The least I can do... My heart once again broken with joy)
Give yourself another chance
(moment by moment, strength and weakness balanced)
Sing love
(my best thing!!!)
Be mojo
(this one is going to take some study...)

(when I read the title in the spark notification, I thought you'de be writing about ME, LOL!)
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{{{{{{{{{{ HUGS }}}}}}}}}

This was my soundtrack as I read... I thought you might like it... oh... the cabbage head is me, LOL!

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BECOMINGONE 1/31/2012 1:13PM

    Great fun! Good ideas! Shake it up for a change!


PS Did you do this before or after your test? hahaha

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HIPPICHICK1 1/31/2012 12:45PM

    I've been reading Brezsny's horoscopes since the early 90's. Love this dude!!

Brag about what you can't do and don't have
See how far you can spit a mouthful of beer
Simulate global warming into your pants
Sing anarchist lullabies to lesbian trees

The image in our blog is gorgeous.

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GIRANIMAL 1/31/2012 12:09PM

    I just read this a few minutes ago in my email. emoticon

Two of my favorite lines:
"Exaggerate your flaws till they turn into virtues"
"Pretend your wounds are exotic tattoos"
plus of course the "brainwashing" one DEBRA0818 so brilliantly already noted. emoticon

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JESPAH 1/31/2012 11:13AM

    Fantastic! Do you know Pablo Neruda's poem, "Legs"? Similar vibe.

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JITZUROE 1/31/2012 11:04AM

    Scare yourself with how beautiful you are- that made my eyes well up. I stare at what my disease is going to my body daily with sadness and despair, NEVER looking for any glimpse of beauty in my arms and legs (and now nose and ears). That line really spoke to me. I needed to hear it, and I NEED to change my view.
Thank you thank you.....I needed this!

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SUNNY332 1/31/2012 10:39AM

    Love it and love that the poetry played with the shape.

What fun! It is a keeper, just like you!

Huggers, Sunny

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DMPRIDER 1/31/2012 9:30AM

    Lots of great ideas there to shake us out and wake us up. Thanks for posting!

I don't think I will pick blackberries naked though, too thorny. LOL

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DDOORN 1/31/2012 9:29AM

    What fun! Love poetry that plays with shape...remember once upon a time dabbling with this back in my college days.


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KALIGIRL 1/31/2012 8:59AM

    Absolutely fabulous!!!
Sending to all my 3D friends.

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DEBRA0818 1/31/2012 8:26AM

    I really like "Brainwash yourself before someone nasty beats you to it." Thanks for posting!


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JUST_BREATHE08 1/31/2012 8:25AM

    Love it. Thank you! Looks like a tornado. Not the picture but the words.

I like this one.....Get a vanity license plate that reads KZMYAZ. emoticon

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