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Unfurl yourself into the grace of beginning

Monday, January 24, 2011

Some say we choose to be here, we choose our parents, we choose our lives....I don't know, but what I DO know is that life is not easy and at times it almost seems unsurmountable.

Many friends are struggling right now...five come to mind -- one whose partner is dealing with a serious cancer diagnosis, one whose new beloved is entangled in a difficult closure of a painful marriage, one who is facing chilling existential fears and closures of chapters of life, one whose children are both dealing with serious life-altering challenges, and one who feels very alone and vulnerable as she struggles with health and hearth -- and this is just the tip of the iceburg of what I see day-in and day-out.

Don't get me wrong -- there is plenty of beauty to bathe in and friends to help lighten the burden. But the beauty is always edged with the sorrow of so many, in my own "backyard" and around the world.

I struggle with my own problems and sadnesses, and a heavy heart that I continually work on lightening in many ways...spiritual practices and retreats, joyful encounters with friends, service to others, university, travel, etc. Sometimes it helps and other times the heaviness threatens to bury me in its folds.

The friend whose birthday I celebrated this morning is my former partner in whose cabin I live (in the back). He is deeply wounded and it has, in the last years begun to surface as progressive emotional crippling and paralysis. It's heart-breaking for me to see this bright star dimming and diminishing. Though any kind of normal relationship is not possible, I try to "be here" for him to help with the mundane aspects of daily life. But it is not an easy environment to be joyful in. It requires constant presence, detachment, and mindfulness...qualities I'm a novice at using well and consistently.

So this poem by the contemporary saint, brilliant sage, and creative force John O'Donohue, is dedicated to my five friends. You know who you are...and you know that with all my heart I support you and love you and encourage you as much as I can.

As they say..."This one's for you!"


In out-of-the-way places of the heart,
Where your thoughts never think to wander,
This beginning has been quietly forming,
Waiting until you were ready to emerge.

For a long time it has watched your desire,
Feeling the emptiness growing inside you,
Noticing how you willed yourself on,
Still unable to leave what you had outgrown.

It watched you play with the seduction of safety
And the gray promises that sameness whispered,
Heard the waves of turmoil rise and relent,
Wondered would you always live like this.

Then the delight, when your courage kindled,
And out you stepped onto new ground,
Your eyes young again with energy and dream,
A path of plenitude opening before you.

Though your destination is not yet clear
You can trust the promise of this opening;
Unfurl yourself into the grace of beginning
That is at one with your life's desire.

Awaken your spirit to adventure;
Hold nothing back, learn to find ease in risk;
Soon you will be home in a new rhythm,
For your soul senses the world that awaits you.

~ John O'Donohue ~
(To Bless the Space Between Us)


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NETINETI 2/4/2011 10:50PM

    John O'Donohue, such a ray of shiny beauty, gone from this earth and yet still here.

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STILLPOINT 2/1/2011 8:53PM

    Blessings your dear friends, and to you as you no doubt, graciously deal with your former partner and the issues you are faced with.

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GOANNA2 1/27/2011 5:44PM

    Hello Maha.
You are such a loving, caring person and your friends are lucky to have you in their lives.

Thank you for the support.
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DMPRIDER 1/27/2011 1:22AM

    Wow, what a beautiful blog and poem. I am struggling with some transitions myself right now. Thank you for sharing this.

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EOSTAR_45 1/26/2011 3:01PM

    What a poem! Absolutely love it. I printed the copy at Panhala to hang by my desk so I can read it every so often. It is a wonderful gift to the friends facing challenges, struggles and crossroads.


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MAEVE77 1/25/2011 2:16PM

    Maha, I love the poem. I have sent it to a friend who is in the middle of a life transition. I think it describes perfectly what we feel at such times.

Blessings and Namaste,

Mary Pat

Check out this neat eco-tourism ranch in Costa Rica: "Rancho Margot" emoticon

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JLWOF1 1/25/2011 9:08AM

    Your blogs are always so beautiful, caring and touching! May you and your friends find comfort and peace.

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COSMIC_ENERGY 1/25/2011 7:12AM

"Beautiful Woman Award! you're beautiful inside and out"
YOu are so beautiful to me - a great friend and so supportive. You have done so much with your life and I adimire you greatly.

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JESPAH 1/25/2011 6:29AM

    Oh to be able to write like that.

Off to unfurl.

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    You are absolutely amazing. a beautiful spirit and a beautiful woman

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KALIGIRL 1/24/2011 9:53PM

    My heart goes out to you and your friends.
May you all find some peace.

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DARKTHOR 1/24/2011 9:43PM

    I hope that your friend has a good birthday and that all of your friends who are struggling find what they need, when they need it. Whatever it is, the kernel of it almost certainly already resides within them already.

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COLIBRI930 1/24/2011 8:51PM

    Very nice! I love Panhala. I've beeen too busy recently to read my poem of the day, so I missed that one.

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WATERMELLEN 1/24/2011 8:21PM

    Great poem, great blog - it is a privilege to read both. Thank you!!

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    Thank You Maha

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GOANNA2 1/24/2011 6:30PM

    I agree with ABURRIS2 - you are a beautiful soul.
God bless you always for being so caring.
You bring joy to me when I visit your page.
The poem is wonderful. Thank you for sharing.

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WALKINGANNIE 1/24/2011 4:47PM

    What a profound, compassionate and touching blog from someone who consistently shows us how to be a friend.

I'm sorry that you and your dear friends are facing such overwhelming challenges. Sometimes people have a lot to bear and there are no easy words or answers but the poem that you have shared offers some balm for the soul.

I hope that you can find strength and comfort from your spiritual practices and the nurturing vibes that are circling the globe from people who care about you.

Sending love to you and those you love.

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CLAYKEEPER 1/24/2011 4:43PM

    aaaah, a 'breath' of light... just what I needed. One of the most amazing things about life that I know is this : when you must rest, the universe always picks up your burden for the exact amount of time you require.

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ROBINSNEWNEST 1/24/2011 2:32PM

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thank you for who you are... for helping me "trust the promise of this opening..."

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CONTENTANDFIT 1/24/2011 2:07PM

    Thank you for sharing that lovely poem.

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SUNNY332 1/24/2011 1:37PM

    New Beginnings are often times followed by sad endings. What a beautiful blog and what a lovely thing for you to do for you friends.

One of the great theologies of "Grace" is - the influence or spirit of God operating in humans to regenerate or strengthen them.

I would say, without a doubt, your efforts fall under this theology. I am most proud to call you Friend.


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DDOORN 1/24/2011 12:31PM

    Love the last verse...that is the challenge for all of us, isn't it?


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DAISY443 1/24/2011 11:43AM

    We live our imperfect lives in an imperfect world. Occasionally, a poem, a song or a person makes life a little easier. I wish for more beautiful song, poems and people in our world.

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SLASALLE 1/24/2011 11:41AM

    As always, just beautiful. Hope the celebration goes well today!! Was the cake appreciated?

Of note:

For a long time it has watched your desire,
Feeling the emptiness growing inside you,
Noticing how you willed yourself on,
Still unable to leave what you had outgrown.


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FRANCESCANAZ 1/24/2011 11:40AM

    You are such a good and loyal friend. I'm glad I can call you one of mine. Te amo amiga. emoticon

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ABURRIS2 1/24/2011 11:39AM

    You are a beautiful soul, my friend.
Blessings on your heart. ~A

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"...fighting all his life, he never raised a hand!"

Friday, January 21, 2011

Some things just have to be preamble.
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My favorite docu-source for important videos is KarmaTube as many of my friends know. In today's weekly mailing, not only did they make an important statement about the great Martin Luther King Jr., but they also introduced me to a fabulous new artist, Aliza Hava.

Here is the lovely Aliza...

Here is her story & website... &

...and her work on a Middle-East Peace Initiative...

THAT'S what I'm talkin'bout!
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WHATAGRL42 1/23/2011 10:29PM

    Every year, I have the privilege of educating Kindergartners of the history and the man behind the MLK holiday. There are a number of wonderful children's books written about his life as a child and his work as an adult. Each year, at least one five year old child is moved to tears by Martin Luther King Jr.'s story. It is my sincere hope that this youngest generation will be equally moved to keep His dream alive.

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WATERMELLEN 1/23/2011 5:36PM

    I am keenly awaiting the completion of the MLK Memorial in Washington: it is a truly inspired design, 10 years in the funding/building process since SF firm Roma won the design competition in 2000 -- and it's scheduled to open this summer.

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KALIGIRL 1/22/2011 12:13PM

    emoticon for reminding us of a hero and introducing us to a new artist.

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JESPAH 1/22/2011 8:20AM

    Amazing what words can do.

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CONTENTANDFIT 1/21/2011 9:59PM

    Thanks for the link. I subscribed so now who knows what interesting things will come along thanks to your post.

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CLAYKEEPER 1/21/2011 6:00PM

    Please keep inspiring me ! annette

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EOSTAR_45 1/21/2011 5:32PM

    Thanks for sharing. I enjoyed listening her tribute to King and his real message. Did you see the story earlier this week about the Pentagon saying that Dr. King would have endorsed the War in Afghanistan? Amazing how his message of peace and opposition to the triple threat of poverty, racism and militarism is sometimes co-opted and distorted.

as usual, thought provoking blog.

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WALKINGANNIE 1/21/2011 4:22PM

    A wonderful blog from a wonderful woman.


I happened to be in Palo Alto and travelling to San Fransisco on Martin Luther King Day a few years ago. It is an experience that I will never forget. The sheer volume of good-natured people was amazing.

Loved Aliza Hava.

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SUNNY332 1/21/2011 3:35PM

    Great post - took me back to a time of hope and promise. Dr. Martin Luther's ideas did not die with him. They are in every one of us who continue to hold on to a Hope of a better world. God gives me that HOPE today.

God Bless you my friend.

BTW - loved the new artist and loved the song.


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SLASALLE 1/21/2011 3:07PM

    Looks like his hand is raised in this picture!!! :-) (just giving you a hard time, my friend).

Here you go again ... always finding amazing artists who are new to me, from you!! Thanks!

Keep warm ... get that cardio in, even if you have to walk in place ... xoxoxo

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JUSTDUCKY1405 1/21/2011 1:09PM

    I have not been able to stop listening to this song! And I shared it on facebook, and going to share it with my sparkteams too! Thanks so much for sharing maha!


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DDOORN 1/21/2011 12:41PM

    Great tribute to a great man...!

Thx for sharing...put it out there on my Twitter & Digg! :-)


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    Great blopg!

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7-Week Personal Challenge DONE!

Sunday, January 16, 2011

Yesterday completed the personal challenge that I began on November 28. Though I only dropped 1/2 pound this week, I lost seven pounds overall, which puts me half-way to goal, and I'm happy that I'm again practicing better habits that will sustain optimal wellness.

My weight had begun creeping up uncontrollably -- er, I guess more accurately it was ME, eating uncontrollably and NOT moving -- and I was at 145 (I had seen the RED FLAG of *150 lbs.* over prior weeks, but -- small miracle -- the scale had decided to hover at 5 lbs. below that). Thank the goddess, something in me yelled "Enough!" and I rebbed up the focus and motivation to begin showing "the right stuff, thanks to all the resources of SparkPeople!

*Chris Downie, founder of SparkPeople, is not only brilliant, but SO accessible. Thank you Chris for the powerful network of resources and friends that is SparkPeople!*

There are layers of the same angst ("why bother?", "why does it even matter?") and self-deprecation ("I'm not worth it", "I can't do it") that have plagued me for years. So for me, the spiritual practices are just as important as the behavior modifications. Maintaining a meditation practice, a gratitude practice,


and a focus on service and some fun are essential to my mental health. My home situation is *dicey* and frequently results in anxiety, which messes with my sense of well-being. But the practices and focus prevail in helping me through the difficult periods.

*Yoga asanas are nourishing on many levels.*

Under the fun focus I began the spring semester at university last week with seven units, two academically challenging Spanish classes and voice class. I'm not taking piano this semester, but the professor of last semester's class agreed to work with me informally if I find time to work on some pieces. And unfortunately the time for choir conflicts with one of my Spanish classes. I'm happy to be back in the *stream* of my Spanish major and I have the greatest admiration for the professor of my classes (the same for both classes luckily), as well as finding the course content fascinating.

*Spring 2010, the back right building is World Languages.*

The major ongoing challenge for me is to live a life of balance in all aspects, which means keeping current with classes in order to maintain the healthy practices in the area of eating and exercise that I've reignited, including most importantly, continuing to track food and exercise.

I continue to have curiosity about the shape of my life in these latter years of my has taken on so many different shapes and textures up to now. My 69th birthday is coming up next month. It's mind-blowing to think that this will be the last year of my sixth decade on the planet this round! I feel vibrant and capable, though I am clearly aware of the deterioration of this mortal temple!

*Camille, the friend who started the prison project I volunteer for, during last year's celebration*

My upcoming trip to Ecuador at the end of this semester will be fun, interesting, and a joyful *homecoming* of sorts. I am looking at the possibility of living there at least part-time and I'm exploring this idea during the trip.

*Playing with my goddaughter Amrita outside the house in northern Ecuador*

As I finish the last blog of this challenge, I want to share an email I just received from Terri, a dear friend who lives in northern California, which underlines my feeling about the importance of friends as an essential component of a joyful life, so necessary for optimal wellness (SEIZE JOY is my mantra for 2011 --

"I just finished taking an evening class at Stanford. The last lecture
was on the mind-body connection -- the relationship between stress and disease. The speaker (head of psychiatry at Stanford) said among other things, that one of the best things that a man could do for his health is to be married to a woman whereas for a woman, one of the best things she could do for her health was to nurture her relationships with her girlfriends. At first everyone laughed, but he was serious.

"Women connect with each other differently and provide support systems that help each other to deal with stress and difficult life experiences. Physically this quality 'girlfriend time' helps us to create more serotonin -- a neurotransmitter that helps combat depression and can create a general feeling of well being. Women share feelings whereas men often form relationships around activities. They rarely sit down with a buddy and talk about how they feel about certain things or how their personal lives are going. Jobs? Yes. Sports? Yes. Cars? Yes. Fishing, hunting, golf? Yes. But their feelings? Rarely.

"Women do it all of the time. We share from our souls, and evidently that is very good for our health. He said that spending time with a friend is just as important to our general health as jogging or working out at a gym. There's a tendency to think that when we are 'exercising' we are doing something good for our bodies, but when we are hanging out with friends, we are wasting our time and should be more productively engaged-not true. In fact, he said that failure to create and maintain quality personal relationships with other humans is as dangerous to our physical health as smoking!"

YES! to The Sisterhood, to loving self-care, and to FUN!!!

*Sister-Friends! Silver-haired Diana is a wedding minister on Maui and the other four dear hearts live in the San Francisco Bay Area.*

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AZIMAT 1/28/2011 1:05PM

    Thanks for your constancy in sharing. You are a blessing!!!

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    Wonderful reading about you and how you think and view the world. Are we really in the later years of our lives? Each day when I learn something new or make a new friend is like youthfulness revisited. And congrats on completing your challenge. More challenges to come.

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BO42SOX 1/21/2011 8:41PM

    what a beautiful blog! emoticon emoticon

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KAT7457 1/21/2011 4:55PM

    great blog and you are amazing. thanks for sharing.

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VXWALL1942 1/21/2011 2:14PM

    What a wonderful blog. Anxious to proceed in the path you have found. Hace lo que quiera - ahorra y manana tambien.


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    Great Blog! WTG on the weight loss!

Just like anything else in life that is important - we need to keep vigilant - we need to keep working at it.

You are doing great! Love the pictures - such a beautiful skirt!!

Love you,

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WKLYTTON 1/21/2011 1:58PM

    absolutely amazing post !!! Good job !

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KNITTABLES 1/21/2011 1:47PM

    What a great blog, thanks for sharing.

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SPARKLINGHOPE 1/21/2011 1:42PM

    I admire your essence and spark! Great blog!! Congrats on reaching your goal!!! :-)

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GIVEUP30 1/21/2011 12:56PM

    emoticonblog you are doing such a wonder thing God Bless

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MEWIEGELE 1/21/2011 12:51PM

    *applause* Love the form on that yoga pose- triangle pose I believe. Thanks for sharing!

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ARCHIMEDESII 1/21/2011 12:29PM

    What a fabulous blog !! While you may be halfway to your goal, you've made absolutely amazing progress !!!

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MOOKBALL 1/21/2011 11:52AM

    Que bueno!

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TEENY_BIKINI 1/21/2011 9:58AM

    Your pictures are simply stunning and you are stunning as well.

I LOVE that blue dress.

You are just an amazing example of grace, beauty and womanhood.

You are amazing. Just keep being you - it is delightful.


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DARKTHOR 1/19/2011 9:14PM

    Wonderful job getting control back from... well, from yourself! I am glad to hear that you are heading in a positive, fulfilling direction again. I'm glad to say that I am too! Let's make this a great year.

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MAEVE77 1/18/2011 4:25PM

    Maha, you are truly an inspiration to me. Congratulations on meeting your goal and for continuing to grow in mind and spirit. The trip to Ecuador and plan to live there part time sounds amazing.
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JLWOF1 1/18/2011 3:50AM

    I loved your blog. Congrats on finishing your personal challenge and on your weight loss. I loved what you shared about women needing friendship. I lag in that area. After reading that, I need to make more of an effort! You're an awesome woman! Have a great semester!

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DDOORN 1/17/2011 4:26PM

    Women are certainly the stronger sex for all their sharing, relating, tending to their feelings...!

I think secretly (or maybe not so secretly...!) most men are HIGHLY envious of this and deeply feel the absence of this most important side to life and living.

Congrats on your re-Sparking 'Maha!


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    What an amazing blog!!! One of the best I've ever read! You are a remarkable woman!!!!!

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KAKIPOPUP 1/17/2011 8:49AM

    you are an inspiration - as you are about to enter your 8th decade - thank you for this blog - emoticon emoticon emoticon

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FRANCESCANAZ 1/17/2011 7:54AM

    Felicidades mi amiga! Que bueno estaras en Ecuador para ver tu otra familia linda! Estoy alegre. muy, muy alegre. Besos, Francesca

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FRACTALMYTH 1/17/2011 12:58AM

    WOOOHOOOO ! Yay for a successful (and ongoing) challenge :)

On a girly note... I love your blue skirt :D

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PENNYAN45 1/16/2011 9:47PM

    What a delight to read this blog!

First of all, your success with your recently completed challenge is inspiring. Congratulations on changing your momentum to the desired direction.

Also, I am very happy that your Spanish instruction this semester is so fulfilling for you, and that you are feeling on track again with your program.

And, I am not one bit surprised to hear that academia is recognizing the importance of women friends. I've always known that my good friends were crucial for my emotional health -- why not my physical health as well? I have been a big believer -- for a long time!!

Finally - how exciting that you will be returning to Ecuador after this semester ends. Wouldn't it be wonderful for you if that other home of yours became a place for you to live for part of the year.

Wishing it all for you!



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SLASALLE 1/16/2011 8:57PM

    You continue to amaze and inspire me, my dear friend. I'm so happy that your Spanish classes are good ones this semester. We'll talk soon. It is quite an honor to be your friend!!


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GOANNA2 1/16/2011 6:36PM

    emoticonAnother achievement.
You are an awesome lady Maha and thanks
for sharing the email about women's friendship.

Have fun this semester and I will definetely go next year. emoticon

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GETDONE 1/16/2011 6:16PM

    Congrats on your personal challenge achievement.
I have moved many times in my life and have missed out on the girlfriend gift. My sweet cousin who I admired and love dearly has passed.
So now I am like a child meeting many folks and finding laughter and things to ponder.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts and successes as well as your lessons in life.

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SUNNY332 1/16/2011 4:45PM

    I loved seeing the photos. Congrats on having your personal challenge behind you. You did good. How is school?

Again - thanks for sharing. Do have a GREAT week. BTW - our soldier boy finally made it to Hawaii and spent yesterday at Wikki Beach. Bless his heart, it took him two days to get out of Atlanta. Oh well, sleet and snow are behind him for a while.

Take care. Sunny

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WALKINGANNIE 1/16/2011 3:11PM

    This blog was a real pleasure to experience Maha - and inspiring as usual. You often manage to appeal to a mixture of senses and to make connections with your words and images.

Big congratulations on meeting your personal challenge with such style.

Sister-friends are great!

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WATERMELLEN 1/16/2011 2:09PM

    Congratulations to you on sticking with your challenge: you have such an interesting and rich life!!

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CARRAND 1/16/2011 2:02PM

    Wonderful blog, and so interesting the information about the importance of girl friends. I don't have a lot of girl friends, never have, and I miss that. Mostly I'm just too busy. Fortunately my husband can talk about more than sports and politics, and I have a warm and wonderful sister. I'm retiring next year and will have time for a lot of things. I'm hoping it's not too late for some girlfriends.

You are a real inspiration to me.

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MAZZYR 1/16/2011 1:51PM

    Oh Maha, congratulations on your achievement. And, thank you for sharing this lovely blog.

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  I always *knew* there was something healthy going on when my "sister-friend" and I get together! We always feel better after hanging out. I will be sure to share the Stanford info with her. :)

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SIMPLELIFE4REAL 1/16/2011 1:18PM

    Awesome...You will be starting your 7th decade in excellent health!

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CLAYKEEPER 1/16/2011 12:40PM

    Congratulations ! Another goal achieved..... How blessed are we to be truly alive and welcoming new insights, information and health to our years ? I love the quotes about 'sisterhood'. You really are an inspiration !....

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GENKI_WARRIOR 1/16/2011 12:01PM

    I didn't know about this challenge (hmm--sounds like we need some nurturing girl-time)! Well, CONGRATS on all your dedication paying off.
As for your semester--have fun :D

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DAISY443 1/16/2011 11:59AM

    I found the comments about women friends to be particularly true. The caveat here is to find the women who feel the same way and can have that special relationship. I also find interesting that there are some men who can relate to women in that way. In my lifetime, I believe (outside of relatives) I have found ten to fifteen women and three to four men with whom I can interact in the healthy way described in your blog. That is not to say that casual friendship is not a good thing, but it is on an entirely different level.
Once again, you have given me a new perspective to ponder on (I refuse to say "upon which to ponder")!
Congratulations on the successful completion of your personal challenge!

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FLORIDASUN 1/16/2011 11:41AM

    How insightful...this information... although I've known deep down in my soul.. the truth about our girlfriends and their health value to our physcial well being all along.

Don't you think that's part of the reason we are so passionate about our sparking?

All of the healthy segments on nutrition are wonderfully helpful...but if you ask me..and I know you would.. if we were sipping a cup of green tea across from each's the connection of woman to woman spirit that fills us a way that food alone...never will!! emoticon emoticon emoticon

You my darling Maha are an inspiration from above...I truly adore you! emoticon

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Friday, January 14, 2011

I'm trying to play my part in this Theater of the Absurd that we call LIFE. As you can see, poet Billy Collins is doing his supremely well! Thanks to Joe Riley's Panhala...I couldn't resist ~~


So much gloom and doubt in our poetry -
flowers wilting on the table,
the self regarding itself in a watery mirror.

Dead leaves cover the ground,
the wind moans in the chimney,
and the tendrils of the yew tree inch toward the coffin.

I wonder what the ancient Chinese poets
would make of all this,
the shadows and empty cupboards?

Today, with the sun blazing in the trees,
my thoughts turn to the great
tenth-century celebrators of experience,

Wa-Hoo, whose delight in the smallest things
could hardly be restrained,
and to his joyous counterpart in the western provinces,

~ Billy Collins ~

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GOANNA2 1/22/2011 10:07PM

    I remember my grade 8 teacher .
He was a round, jolly man and he said
" If there were no skinny people, you couldn't call me fat".

There has to be an opposite in everything.
Thanks for sharing Maha.

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MOOKBALL 1/19/2011 10:23AM

    Billy has a way with making us aware of the mundane.

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WATERMELLEN 1/16/2011 2:10PM

    . . . delight in the smallest things: yes.

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DOKEYOKEY 1/16/2011 10:08AM

    I just got a lesson in mindfulness from you and Carlie...I didn't even SEE the birds on the Buddha until she pointed them out.

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IAM1WEVRY1 1/15/2011 6:05PM

    'Despair' made me think of Mary Oliver's Wild Geese:

You do not have to be good
You do not have to walk on your knees
for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves.
Tell me about despair, your, and I will tell you mine.
Meanwhile the world goes on.
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain
are moving across the landscapes,
over the prairies and the deep trees,
the mountains and the rivers.
Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,
are heading home again.
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination,
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting-
over and over announcing your place
in the family of things.
(from Dream Work copyright 1886, Atlantic Monthly Press)

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FRANCESCANAZ 1/15/2011 4:29PM

    Ye-HAH! emoticon

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2BMYOWN 1/15/2011 1:36PM

    Oh but cripes....ya gotta have BOTH the dark AND the joyous, or it wouldn't be life, would it???? I know everybody likes the sunny and joyous best....but ya can't learn in only the sunny without knowing what it was like in the dark, right? Just sayin'......! And I did the same flippin' thing Carli did, I thought, "Oh no, what's wrong with Maha?" LOLOLOLOL

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CARLI_MAE 1/15/2011 12:42PM

    I can't help myself ... I keep being distracted by those birds sitting on Buddha, and, well, SP won't let me use the word, so I have to say I'm thinking he's gonna start getting awfully dirty ... unless the birds are part of the statue, which is then making me think that I've never seen cardinals that big, if that's what they are ...
Oh well. I just came by because when I saw your title scroll past I thought something was wrong, since in the last one you were on loving and suddenly there is despairing going on (NOT) ...

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JLWOF1 1/15/2011 10:33AM

    Wonderful, thanks for sharing!

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SUNNY332 1/15/2011 8:24AM

    Loved it.

Have a GREAT weekend.


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DRAGONFLY7149 1/15/2011 5:43AM

    Have seen this before and every time it makes me smile...thanks for surfacing it again! emoticon

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SLASALLE 1/14/2011 10:28PM

    Would you please come teach a class in poetry at my home, please? Truly, I think you missed your calling, my friend. You're an awesome teacher. OK, well, maybe it's just ANOTHER one of your callings!!! With love xoxoxo

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PENNYAN45 1/14/2011 8:52PM

    What a treat!! Thanks!

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VEEJAY3 1/14/2011 8:43PM

    I love, love, love, love, LOVE Billy Collins!!!

Thanks for the treat here.

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MARCHMAID 1/14/2011 8:38PM

    just right at the right time for me


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ROBINSNEWNEST 1/14/2011 4:31PM

    Yes! emoticon

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ONECOOKIETWO 1/14/2011 4:00PM

    I love Wa Hoo and Yee Hah!
They got married and gave birth to:

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PEACEFULONE 1/14/2011 3:18PM

    Love it!

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KAT573 1/14/2011 11:58AM

    WHOO-HOO! emoticon

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    Gosh these pics you post are awesome!

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CLAYKEEPER 1/14/2011 10:55AM

    Bullseye ! Great post... there is so much to celebrate in life. I'm following you, you're the leader !.... annette


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FRACTALMYTH 1/14/2011 10:33AM

    I liked it too! YEEEEEHAAAAAAAA :D

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DAISY443 1/14/2011 10:32AM

    Thank you for not resisting, but you are making me think way too much! Exercise for the brain on a blustery winter day!

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MISS_VIV 1/14/2011 10:32AM

    I am CERTAIN you are not experiencing despair in your personal life. Thank you for posting this.

"Wa-Hoo, whose delight in the smallest things
could hardly be restrained,
and to his joyous counterpart in the western provinces,


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Thursday, January 13, 2011

You know quite well, deep within you,

that there is only a single magic,

a single power, a single salvation...

and that is called loving.

~ Herman Hesse ~

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WILDHONEYPIE1 1/19/2011 10:49PM

    emoticon wonderful.

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DDOORN 1/17/2011 4:17PM

    How your verse & pic stir the heart so...!


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CINDYC53 1/17/2011 12:19PM

    LOVELY! Thanks for that start to my day.


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FLORIDASUN 1/16/2011 11:32AM

    There's no other reason to walk this plane, other than to learn to love, and be loved in return. At least that's MY take on this journey...and you darling Maha have it down pat! emoticon emoticon emoticon

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SUNNY332 1/14/2011 9:39AM

    Absolutely Beautiful!

No futher words required.

Hugs, Sunny

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MARCHMAID 1/14/2011 4:48AM

    Just what Obama tried to say. : ) Calming to see this after writing my less peaceful blog.

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GBOOMER 1/14/2011 4:35AM

    emoticon I love love.

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DAISY443 1/14/2011 4:19AM

    Beautiful! The picture and the words.....

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FRACTALMYTH 1/14/2011 2:10AM

    So SWEET! :D

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PEACEFULONE 1/14/2011 2:00AM

    Adorable photo.
Perfect poem.
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    Oh my goodness that is the most precious picture ever!!!

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ROBINSNEWNEST 1/13/2011 11:15PM

    YES. to all of it...

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CARLI_MAE 1/13/2011 11:08PM

    Another awwwwwwwwwww ...

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KAT573 1/13/2011 11:02PM

    and the journey to reach that loving is the hard work of compassion and forgiveness!

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SLASALLE 1/13/2011 10:55PM

    aaaawwwwwwww ... that's lots of warm fuzzies!!! Thanks ...

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GOANNA2 1/13/2011 10:05PM

    Beautiful Maha, thank you. emoticon

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WATERMELLEN 1/13/2011 9:48PM

    Loving -- and lovely -- and thank you!!

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PENNYAN45 1/13/2011 9:35PM

    True words, a beautiful sentiment, and a heart-warming image!

Thanks for this.


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CARRAND 1/13/2011 9:26PM


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MISS_VIV 1/13/2011 8:51PM


Big Hugs

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KALIGIRL 1/13/2011 8:48PM

    So true...

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