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Full Moon Ritual Anyone???

Saturday, February 27, 2010

FULL MOON IN VIRGO
Sunday, February 28, 2010
8:38am PST - 11:38am EST
Sun at 9.59 Pisces
Moon at 9.59 Virgo

You need set aside less than five minutes for this powerful ritual:



Drawing down the moon...


Imagine above you the round glowing disc of the moon, bathing you in a protective circle of light. Vibrant with energy, your space is transformed, filled with the purity of spirit. Stand and raise your arms above your head. Let your palms face each other and curve slightly toward the moon. Feel as though you're a sacred chalice, drawing the power of the Great Mother into every cell of your being -- from your toes, to your womb, to your breasts, to your jaw, and your eyes. Feel the pleasure of this energy. It is vibrant with the power to give, to receive, to nurture life, and manifest what is possible.

Sending your blessings...



Draw your hands to your heart. Massage this area. Feel that you have become the goddess, capable of balancing the earth and harmonizing its opposing forces. In particular you are tuned to the energies of Virgo and Pisces, signs devoted to magic, service and healing, although they approach their spiritual work from opposite directions.

Virgo is that aspect of the goddess who knows the right herb or the proper incantation to fix any problem; she is observant, discerning and analytical. Pisces is your blissful goddess nature. Compassionate, intuitive, and holistic, she sees into the heart of the world. Out of balance, Virgo is constipated, judgmental and perfectionistic. Pisces is helpless and disorganized; she escapes into an unhealthy world of addictions. When these shadow expressions run amok, we feel like our world is imperfect and falling apart. We feel like victims without any protectors. We feel like the diseases of the world will win.

Imagine this negativity circles the globe like a dark smoke. Know that if you breathe in this smoke you have the power to transform it in your heart -- breathing it out as the pure white light of the goddess. Read the affirmations and visualize the world's darkness dissolving with your breath. Find a comfortable rhythm and repeat the statements until your light has transformed the world.

Breathing in...
fear of wild forces beyond our control.

Breathing out...
the power to endure with strength and grace.

Breathing in...
the world's sickness, its worries and blame,

Breathing out...
a world that is radiant, healthy and harmonious.

Breathing in...
whole cities torn asunder by disaster and war.

Breathing out...
the power of the angels to set everything right.

Grounding the energy...



See the world bathed in the purifying light of your offering: the sleeping babies, the politicians arguing, the starving children, liars and thieves. See the world transforming with this light, growing peaceful and calm. When you are ready, bring your hands to your sides, palms facing the earth. Send your divine light deep into the earth. See this energy take shape as a round moon, gathering below you in the center of the earth. Feel yourself slowly coming back into your body. Rest in this peace until you are ready to return to your life.

Blessed be.

The wonderful link:
mooncircles.com/moonritual.html

  
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JUSTDUCKY1405 3/14/2010 3:22PM

    Beautiful ritual!

And I love how it speaks of balance! So true!

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COLIBRI930 3/10/2010 8:05AM

    Hi, I'm late reading friends'blogs...I loved this! Thanks for the lovely reminder to draw in the energy of the full moon, and for a specific way to go about it. I missed this one, but will try the next!


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SANTANDERE 2/28/2010 5:15PM

    Gracias por compartir. Lo voy a hacer.


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LIZARDG7 2/28/2010 1:59PM

    Well, you're right. I did it this morning and it was wonderful! Thank you! Lizzie emoticon

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    You have such wonderful blogs! Thank you! Lizzie emoticon

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MENT2BE 2/27/2010 7:19PM

    THANK YOU!!!! THANK YOU!! THANK YOU!!

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LADYIRIS313 2/27/2010 4:04PM

    Maha (hugs) Thank you for the reminder.
Bright blessings to you, sistah!
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LUCY419 2/27/2010 3:19PM

    WOW Maha... this is so Amazing and Powerful! Thank You So Much! I am so glad you shared this with us... will be practicing this ritual often! Hugs... lucy

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FOODDIVA1 2/27/2010 2:36PM

    Very nice ritual. Thank you. And thank you for your explanation. I have done the breathing in pain/out light for many years, but never knew what it was called. Now I know.

Amy

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PUDLECRAZY 2/27/2010 12:53PM

    Thanks!

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VALERIEMAHA 2/27/2010 12:27PM

    The practice of breathing IN the negativity, the shadow side, "the dark smoke" and breathing OUT the joy, the love, "the pure white light" is a practice I learned from Pema Chodron. Some may feel it's backwards, but consider this -- from her website:

THE PRACTICE OF TONGLEN

In order to have compassion for others, we have to have compassion for ourselves.

In particular, to care about other people who are fearful, angry, jealous, overpowered by addictions of all kinds, arrogant, proud, miserly, selfish, mean —you name it— to have compassion and to care for these people, means not to run from the pain of finding these things in ourselves. In fact, one's whole attitude toward pain can change. Instead of fending it off and hiding from it, one could open one's heart and allow oneself to feel that pain, feel it as something that will soften and purify us and make us far more loving and kind.

The tonglen practice is a method for connecting with suffering —ours and that which is all around us— everywhere we go. It is a method for overcoming fear of suffering and for dissolving the tightness of our heart. Primarily it is a method for awakening the compassion that is inherent in all of us, no matter how cruel or cold we might seem
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We begin the practice by taking on the suffering of a person we know to be hurting and who we wish to help. For instance, if you know of a child who is being hurt, you breathe in the wish to take away all the pain and fear of that child. Then, as you breathe out, you send the child happiness, joy or whatever would relieve their pain. This is the core of the practice: breathing in other's pain so they can be well and have more space to relax and open, and breathing out, sending them relaxation or whatever you feel would bring them relief and happiness. However, we often cannot do this practice because we come face to face with our own fear, our own resistance, anger, or whatever our personal pain, our personal stuckness happens to be at that moment.

At that point you can change the focus and begin to do tonglen for what you are feeling and for millions of others just like you who at that very moment of time are feeling exactly the same stuckness and misery. Maybe you are able to name your pain. You recognize it clearly as terror or revulsion or anger or wanting to get revenge. So you breathe in for all the people who are caught with that same emotion and you send out relief or whatever opens up the space for yourself and all those countless others. Maybe you can't name what you're feeling. But you can feel it —a tightness in the stomach, a heavy darkness or whatever. Just contact what you are feeling and breathe in, take it in —for all of us and send out relief to all of us.

People often say that this practice goes against the grain of how we usually hold ourselves together. Truthfully, this practice does go against the grain of wanting things on our own terms, of wanting it to work out for ourselves no matter what happens to the others. The practice dissolves the armor of self-protection we've tried so hard to create around ourselves. In Buddhist language one would say that it dissolves the fixation and clinging of ego.

Tonglen reverses the usual logic of avoiding suffering and seeking pleasure and, in the process, we become liberated from a very ancient prison of selfishness. We begin to feel love both for ourselves and others and also we being to take care of ourselves and others. It awakens our compassion and it also introduces us to a far larger view of reality. It introduces us to the unlimited spaciousness that Buddhists call shunyata. By doing the practice, we begin to connect with the open dimension of our being. At first we experience this as things not being such a big deal or so solid as they seemed before.

Tonglen can be done for those who are ill, those who are dying or have just died, or for those that are in pain of any kind. It can be done either as a formal meditation practice or right on the spot at any time. For example, if you are out walking and you see someone in pain —right on the spot you can begin to breathe in their pain and send some out some relief. Or, more likely, you might see someone in pain and look away because it brings up your fear or anger; it brings up your resistance and confusion.

So on the spot you can do tonglen for all the people who are just like you, for everyone who wishes to be compassionate but instead is afraid, for everyone who wishes to be brave but instead is a coward.

Rather than beating yourself up, use your own stuckness as a stepping stone to understanding what people are up against all over the world.

Breathe in for all of us and breathe out for all of us.

Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.

http://pemachodron.org/ (Tonglen, under TEACHINGS)

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SUCHAHOOT 2/27/2010 11:45AM

    Thank you, Maha! This is wonderful!

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GINABUG 2/27/2010 11:39AM

    Thanks so much for this, Maha!

I am...breathing in....

I am...breathing out...

Blessings!

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Get off my back, donkey!

Saturday, February 27, 2010

The body is mortal, but that one dwelling in the body is immortal and immeasurable.
-- Bhagavad Gita



When I say that this body is not me, I am not making an intellectual statement. It is an experiential statement. If you were to ask me, "Who is this body?" I would make an awful pun: "This is my buddy. I give him good food and good exercise, and I look after him very well, but he is not me."

My body has always been my faithful buddy, through many trials, and during many difficult times; and I let him know how much I appreciate his faithful service. We have an understanding: I take very good care of him, and he looks up to me as the boss. As Saint Francis used to say, "This body is Brother Donkey. I feed him, I wash him, but I am going to ride on him." Whenever we use drugs, or smoke, or drink immoderately, or overeat, the donkey is riding on us. Francis challenges us: "Don't you want to get that donkey off your back and ride on it?"
-- Eknath Easwaran

  
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JUSTDUCKY1405 3/14/2010 3:17PM

    Another words... take control back in your life!

DAMN RIGHTS!

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    Eknath is my very favorite! He just has a wonderful way with words that touch my heart! Thank you! emoticon

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MACGIRRL 2/28/2010 12:08AM

    Danke.

((((((( yes )))))))



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    Very nice. emoticon

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PENNYAN45 2/27/2010 4:24PM

    I had not heard it before, but I like it. I understand it.

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WALKINGANNIE 2/27/2010 11:22AM

    Thank you.

I haven't always looked after my body / buddy but I'm really trying to do so now. It deserves respect.

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GENKI_WARRIOR 2/27/2010 11:07AM

    so cute--and so ..."head-smacking!" lol :P
thanks for sharing.

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BECOMINGONE 2/27/2010 10:58AM

    And as he lay dying St. Francis apologized to his body for not taking better care of it -- working it to death.

Even St. Francis knew what to do but did not do what he knew to do. The paradox of life in this body ....

Shine bright,
Sandra



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MISS_VIV 2/27/2010 10:25AM

    Let's ride the donkey.. Glad you have your neighbors to remind you.

Have a super day.

LOVE



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This Precious Human Life....

Friday, February 26, 2010



As I *come up for air* after a 2-1/2 week intense academic push, the image above describes the kind of physic space I would love to create for myself. I did manage to take a time-out last Sunday for an exquisite and deeply needed celebration with friends (the "Antipenultimo" blog). Other than the care of my spirit the Sunday gathering afforded me, I have been very neglectful during this period in the care of this amazing temple that takes such good care of me.

A new SparkFriend, THE_SILVER_OWL has been blogging her way through the alphabet. Each piece has spoken to me, some very deeply. As I move back into the sphere of loving self-care, her blog this morning, M is for Mirror, which speaks about things on my mind today, REALLY hit home:
www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_jo
urnal.asp?id=THE_SILVER_OWL


I am resolving to make baby steps back into balance, little-by-little, clearing psychic, spiritual and material space to enable me to move forward. My Spark (and 3-D) Friend Sandra, also back in school, has been encouraging me over the last few days, sharing juicy wisdom and giving me practical points of departure, that I've been making good use of and will continue to today.

My spiritual journey is the largest circle around which all this other activity revolves. I came upon some important Teachings of Sogyal Rinpoche, a Dharma Teacher I have deep esteem for which rocked me to my soul. (He is the teacher of SparkFriends SNOGUM and CLAIR-A-T.) In completing this with his words, I dedicate them to all of my wonderful friends here, with gratitude for all you offer in this journey to our optimal wellness of body-mind-spirit that we're on together:



Every spiritual tradition has stressed that this human life is unique and has a potential that ordinarily we don't even begin to imagine. If we miss the opportunity this life offers us for transforming ourselves, they say, it may well be an extremely long time before we have another.

Imagine a blind turtle roaming the depths of an ocean the size of the universe. Up above floats a wooden ring, tossed to and fro on the waves. Every hundred years, the turtle comes, once, to the surface. To be born a human being is said by Buddhists to be more difficult than for that turtle to surface accidentally with its head poking through the wooden ring.

And even among those who have a human birth, it is said, those who have the great good fortune to make a connection with the teachings are rare, and those who really take them to heart and embody them in their actions even rarer -- as rare, in fact, "as stars in broad daylight."

The quality of life in the realm of the gods may look superior to our own, yet the masters tell us that human life is infinitely more valuable. Why? Because of the very fact that we have the awareness and intelligence that are the raw materials for enlightenment, and because the very suffering that pervades this human realm is itself the spur to spiritual transformation.

Pain, grief, loss, and ceaseless frustration of every kind are there for a very real and dramatic purpose: to wake us up, to enable, almost to force us to break out of the cycle of samsara and so release our imprisoned splendor.
-- Sogyal Rinpoche

  
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DOKEYOKEY 2/28/2010 12:39AM

    Well that's a kick in the old tushy! emoticon

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KARBIE18 2/27/2010 8:50AM

    Love the picture, and the words of wisdom, Maha. It couldn't have come at a better time for me, as I recently lost a beloved friend. I have decided that in his passing was a lesson, and this just reinforces that belief.



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    Beautiful... emoticon

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SANTANDERE 2/26/2010 9:05PM

    Thank-you, Gracias, Merci...

Maha,
Gracias, por compartir tanto de ti en una forma tan linda.

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MAZZYR 2/26/2010 5:49PM

    Thank you.
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FRANCESCANAZ 2/26/2010 5:01PM

    Gracias.

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THE_SILVER_OWL 2/26/2010 4:07PM

    Maha,

I am so honored that you have chosen to share my blog. Thank you.

My belief is that your "turtle" will reach the surface, "in time, on time, every time".

Hugs,
~JJ~



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STLRZGRRL 2/26/2010 11:46AM

    Holy cow. Thx a LOT, Maha! No pressure or anything!!!

The cold hard facts are that you are nothing but right... and the blessing of this body, this life, this day, THIS INSTANT... is SO precious... using ANY of it for ANYTHING but good is just... criminal, really...

(Unless we learn from the transgression, I s'pose... or someone ELSE does...)

Ok, ok... really and TRULY thank you...

May you always be my wonderful loving noodge...

HUGS! Thouands of them!
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BRIGHTSPARK7 2/26/2010 10:14AM

    It is a great blessing to connect with the Teachings to improve our lives. You are a priceless treasure, Mahalakshmi. Take wonderful care of your temple.
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BECOMINGONE 2/26/2010 9:44AM

    In the end it's all a spiritual journey, isn't it? It's the spiritual that provides the warp and woof for the rest ... kind of like Ellen's felted shawls. Thank you for sharing of yourself! I like that!

Sandra

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PEACEFULONE 2/26/2010 9:42AM

    Thank you again, dear Maha, for lighting the torch and leading the way!

May your weekend be filled with peace, joy, health and happiness!

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O!M!G!

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

This is too beautiful NOT to share -- Mary Oliver's gift is exquisite...and that she chose to share it with us is our profound good fortune.



THE CRICKET AND THE ROSE

In fall
the cricket
beneath the rose bush
watches

as the roses fall
to the very ground
that is his kingdom also.
So they're neighbors,

one full of fragrance,
the other
the harper
of a single dry song.

We call this time of the year
the beginning of the end
of another circle,
a convenience

and nothing more.
For the cricket's song
is surely a prayer,
and a prayer, when it is given,

is given forever.
This is a truth
I'm sure of,
for I'm older than I used to be,

and therefore I understand things
nobody would think of
who's young and in a hurry.
The snow is very beautiful.

Under it are the lingering
petals of fragrance,
and the timeless body
of prayer.

~ Mary Oliver ~
www.panhala.net/Archive/The_Cricket_
and_the_Rose.html

  
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THE_SILVER_OWL 2/26/2010 3:54PM

    Truth when spoken as a whisper or a poem, shouts loudest of all.

Thank you!
~JJ~

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    Beautiful! Thank you for sharing
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SLASALLE 2/24/2010 2:08PM

    She is most definitely a keeper when it comes to beautiful poetry. And YOU are a keeper when it comes to sharing amazing findings with us ... xoxoxo

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BLUESLALA 2/24/2010 11:56AM

    WOW emoticon

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SOULCOLLAGESUE 2/24/2010 11:27AM

    Mary Oliver's poetry never ceases to transport me into a state of Universal mind. This one is new to me; thank you for sharing!

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JUSTDUCKY1405 2/24/2010 10:35AM

    Amen!

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SUSANSERENE 2/24/2010 10:31AM

    This is so beautiful! Bless you for sharing with us!

I am so grateful for the joy you share with us.
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GRANDMAAMIE 2/24/2010 10:28AM

    (`.) . BEAUTIFUL
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*♥~.* THANK YOU!
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.`.. ♥ AMIE
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SUCHAHOOT 2/24/2010 10:09AM

    'a prayer, when it is given,

is given forever.
This is a truth
I'm sure of,
for I'm older than I used to be, '

Beautiful words...the whole of it, but these touch me especially. Thank you, friend.


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GINABUG 2/24/2010 9:42AM

    Ah...love that Joe Riley -- thanks so much for sharing this with me: the poem and the daily poetry celebration! Love to you!

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DLDROST 2/24/2010 9:29AM

  Love it thanks for sharing...

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RTLISA 2/24/2010 9:21AM

    That is beautiful! Thanks for sharing!
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Antipenultimo...

Monday, February 22, 2010

The linguistics class is haunting me: I'm seemingly locked into this conceptual linguistics loop of before-before...or, in this case the night-before-my-birthday-eve --

It was such a beautiful gathering of Anam Cara, soul friends, that heart-to-heart connection. There was so much love spewed about during the evening that my heart continues to overflow from the fullness.



The food was abundant, whole and healthy! Oh...uh, and then there were the desserts!!!

CAMILLE, with me in this happy shot, owns (she would say "caretakes") the property where the Sisters of the New Moon meet. We're building a labyrinth in the woods and we celebrate life around a wonderful bonfire as a climax to each monthly coming-together.



Above, my friend ELS (left) -- we "accidentally" ran into each other last year on a backwoods country road in upcountry Maui as she was beginning a 6-month around-the-world trip/trek with Tom, her lovely spouse! (See P.S.)

MARILYN, seated beside Els, is a geologist and created and gifted me with a stunningly beautiful mobile/chimes, made with beaver wood, glass pieces, and crystals. I'm sorry I don't have a photo of her beautiful art to share.

NELDA, far right, and I have participated together in the study of the work of Connie Kaplan, The Invisible Garment, where we've gathered around a circle-of-love for over five years.

SparkPeople got lots of plugs from me and SANDRA. Here she's hanging out with vino-in-hand between Marilyn and Nelda, ready to share her SparkPeople blogs on "Space."

www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_jo
urnal_individual.asp?blog_id=2865212

and
www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_jo
urnal_individual.asp?blog_id=2868634


The sheet she gave to everyone also had GinaBug's original blog, which had caused Sandra's musings:

www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_jo
urnal_individual.asp?blog_id=2863340




Above Sandra has the rapt attention of Gail, Jean, Pam, Siaw-Khian and all but Fritzie's nose!



Camille relaxed in the rocker chatting with ANNE, a gifted Iyengar Yoga teacher who I've been studying with off-and-on since 1997! Anne led us in some pranayama (breathing) techniques.

My dear friend FRITZIE, the hostess-with-the-mostest, is smiling at my antics and Siaw-Khian is talking to Pam, out-of-sight.



Ahhh...a partial group smile...from the left Ellen, Nelda, me, Camille, Siaw-Khian. Back row Els, Marilyn, and shortie Amy.

I study tai chi and qi gong with SIAW-KHIAN, a skilled teacher, and she graciously agreed to introduce us to some qi gong techniques. It was wonderful.

I wish I had a photo of the exquisite wrap that ELLEN gifted me (she has another one on, but you can't see the beautiful detail). She works in Nepal (she's leaving again for Nepal on March 10) with talented women who use a Nuno felting process with wool and colorful silk saris -- oh my!!! I don't know if you can access this if you're not on FaceBook, but here's the link:

www.facebook.com/pages/Pomegranate-M
oon/266474692328




Above is GAIL's lovely profile. She and I share a lot of quality sister time. We also do the prison gatherings together along with Camille, our fearless leader.

Then comes Janice-in-yellow, Amy, Ellen, and JOHNYE (Janice's mom) -- English Literature Professor Emerita and published haiku poet:
www.simplyhaiku.com/SHpages/johnye_s
trickland.html

and
tobaccoroadpoet.blogspot.com/2008/12
/johnye-strickland-recites-haiku.html




Above Fritzie, Siaw-Khian, silly Pam, and Jean.

I first met FRITZIE and SANDRA at a Buddhist retreat. Then I got invited to Sandra's birthday party at Fritzie's beautiful home, and the rest is history! Fritize is hard to catch up with, because she's a very busy barrister, but I vie for her attention, because I treasure time with her. We also share the "Spanish connection," and she has worked to assist Hispanics via immigrant law.

PAM, AMY and I have become friends as New Moon Sisters. Pam adds "intelligent levity" and Amy, an artist, brings us beauty in space and form.

JEAN is a new New Moon Sister. She is a warrior...a blind woman who has traveled internationally, holds a graduate degree and many amazing life experiences...no half-empty cup for her!



A *mood effect* of JANICE playing and singing one of her compositions, dedicated to me, because it's my fav, about the preciousness of the present moment.

She also did a group Tarot reading of Past (at 79, Johnye is the oldest reveler, and she drew this card), Present (as the birthday girl I drew this card), Future (Siaw-Khian, as the youngest, drew this one) using a deck of her own fabulous design.

JANICE and I were housemates for around three years, firmly and exquisitely establishing our Sisterhood during that time.

The sisters went on...and on, enjoying the fullness of one another's blessings for almost FIVE hours!

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A FRIENDSHIP BLESSING

May you be blessed with good friends.
May you learn to be a good friend to yourself.

May you be able to journey to that place in your soul
where there is great love, warmth, feeling, and forgiveness.
May this change you.

May it transfigure that which is negative, distant, or cold in you.
May you be brought in to the real passion, kinship, and affinity of belonging.
May you treasure your friends.

May you be good to them and may you be there for them;
May they bring you all the blessings, challenges, truth, and light that you need for your journey.

May you never be isolated.
May you always be in the gentle nest of belonging with your anam cara.

-- John O'Donohue, from Anam Cara
(Anam cara is Gaelic for "soul friend")

P.S.


A couple days before Els and Tom continued on from Maui to New Zealand.

  
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PEACEFULONE 2/26/2010 10:05AM

    Brings to mind the Beatles song "I'll get by with a little help from my friends". You are truly blessed!!! Thank you for sharing.
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PENNYAN45 2/23/2010 10:21PM

    Friends are everything! I just copied the Friendship Blessing - and plan to send it to a very dear friend of mine. Thanks for sharing that.
In the company of friends is the best way to celebrate a birthday. They are celebrating you and your existence in -- especially in their lives. We, your friends here on SP, are happy to have you in our lives too. Thanks for sharing your celebration, and thanks for always sharing so much of yourself.



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KALATHIA 2/23/2010 8:35AM

    What a wonderful group of sisters! A spectacular celebration! You are truly blessed!

I love the Friendship Blessing. I hope you don't mind if I share it with some of my friends.

Have a wonderful day!

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LYNNANN43 2/23/2010 1:04AM

    I feel like I was there! You have no idea how much I would love to meet those amazing people!

You are one of the most blessed individuals that I have ever had the honor to meet.

Thanks so much for sharing:D

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NORLANA 2/23/2010 12:19AM

    Oh Maha ... such beautiful friends and tributes. I am so happy you are surrounded by such lovelies! Enjoy!!

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GINABUG 2/22/2010 9:49PM

    Maha -- thanks so much for sharing the words, images and imaginings of this gathering. I almost feel as if I were there! What a blessed event for a blessed soul! Happy Birthday Eve, dear friend!

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WATERMELLEN 2/22/2010 9:24PM

    Friends: at the heart of what matters! And you have such interesting ones!!

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STLRZGRRL 2/22/2010 8:52PM

    How cool for us to be able to be with you... NOW!
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But, but... WHAT were the cards you each drew?

I. MUST. KNOW!!! (Iz not sek-rit, iz it?)

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SLASALLE 2/22/2010 2:31PM

    I am so happy to put so many faces with the names I hear you speak of often. What an amazing gathering of dear friends. I am SO DELIGHTED that you ALL enjoyed it so much. Now, I have also enjoyed much of it, albeit still at a distance!!!

Happy birthday eve, Maha!!!

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WALKINGANNIE 2/22/2010 1:05PM

    Your birthday celebration has given you - and us - some wonderful memories to share and a reminder of the joy that friendship brings. I hope that the happiness lingers to sustain you for a long time.

Thank you for sharing the beautiful poem too.

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LADYIRIS313 2/22/2010 12:56PM

    You are blessed with riches -- the kind that only good friends can offer. Happiest of birthdays to you Maha.
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SUCHAHOOT 2/22/2010 11:55AM

    My, what a wonderful gift. Such a treasure to be sure. Thank you so much for sharing your evening with us!

Edit: And thanks for taking the time to share the poem. What more could one ask for?
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BECOMINGONE 2/22/2010 11:41AM

    Having been there, I can attest it was one of those magical evenings -- when the life energy is flowing and all are connected in a web of friendship and love. Thanks to Maha for bringing us all together.

Sandra

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YOOVIE 2/22/2010 10:36AM

    this is so wonderful and so full of love. thank you for taking pictures for us!

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KAT573 2/22/2010 10:18AM

    what an honor to have all your friends about you!
Happy Birthday, Maha.

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AZIMAT 2/22/2010 10:17AM

    How sweet. Happy birthday dear friend. I'm sending you a blast of high flying energy.

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MAZZYR 2/22/2010 10:15AM

    emoticonBig Happy Day hug, just for you, dear Maha!!

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LISANANCY 2/22/2010 10:09AM

    Wow, what a wonderful time emoticon

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MISS_VIV 2/22/2010 9:52AM

    What great fun, what a great group of women all together to celebrate the new beginning. Happy Birthday again Maha..Super pictures.

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