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Heal the Whole

Monday, September 30, 2013

Our weak areas are not
All That Define Us.

Our
False Sense of Self
(story)
is not
Who We Really Are.

We must
remind ourselves often that we
already know this to be true.

Break the Trance...
(and make the necessary repairs).

Heal the Whole.

  
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REBEKKAD 10/23/2013 3:37PM

    Word. emoticon

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WILSONWR 9/30/2013 12:44PM

    How true!

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MICKEYH 9/30/2013 10:53AM

    Well said. emoticon emoticon

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MAGGIEVAN 9/30/2013 3:25AM

    Great! I agree. Heal the whole is really the best way to go!

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Self-Loving

Wednesday, September 25, 2013

Do you ever experience sadness? regret? envy? resentment? longing?

If you do, do you resist it, pushing it away and attempting to replace it with some other feeling?

Do you set it loose and allow it to wreak havoc upon your Life until it loses momentum?

Or do you embrace it, simply allowing it to Be, holding it close to one's heart as a dearly Beloved Friend, staying fully present with it until it's stopped its squalling and nestled back into your Essence as a welcomed part of your whole?

Which approach is more Self-Loving?

Which sets the better example for how we should treat one another?

Kindness to Self makes one a kinder person.
Kinder people contribute to a kinder Reality,
and create a more caring World.

Don't we therefore have a responsibility to the World to treat ourselves (including our emotions and perceptions) with Loving Kindness, first and foremost?

Suzanne

  
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WILSONWR 9/26/2013 8:39AM

    Great blog. Very thought provoking.

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MICKEYH 9/25/2013 11:57PM

    For me it's important to able to appreciate myself = self love = respect myself . There for I can take care of myself and to appreciate and this will help create happy me. It's kinda good vive and love circle. (*^^*)
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-WISPY- 9/25/2013 10:49PM

    Hi Suzanne. Kindness and love to myself is very important. In fact the old adage of "Love one another as we love ourselves" would seem to be primary.

It took me a long while to learn how to reparent my hurting inner child. But we are
the best of friends these days. She trusts me and I am gentle with her. She is such a fragile being as all our inner children are.

Kindness is one of the most beautiful things I know.

Another ancient saying "Love covers a multitude of sins".

Thank you for your blog.

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A Shift in Perceptions

Sunday, July 28, 2013

My next door neighbors, whom I've known only by name (and that only recently), invited me last minute to a "musicians" theme party they were throwing for and with a friend for his 50th birthday last night.

I went because this is the second time they've invited me over and the first time I begged off.

Generally speaking, I am very uncomfortable at parties when there is a not a single person present whom I know well (and not a huge fan of parties in general).

That being the case, I planned to stay for only a half our or so then leave. Little did I know that this would end up being the BEST party I ever attended. The people were fascinating, and even more amazing, they seemed to likewise find me fascinating!

During the night, one of the men who lives there told me that he and his partner have been watching my weight loss transformation with fascination for the last few months, commenting that I do not even look like the same person from six months ago.

"But it's much more than just the weight loss," he said, "It's like you've developed this amazing sense of aliveness that just makes us want to know you better."

And I know what he's talking about! Because since I began following the nutrient-dense lifestyle outlined by Dr Joel Fuhrman (Eat to Live) it is like the falling away of weight and depression has been balanced by a growing sense of vitality and well-being within.

Better yet, when I mentioned my upcoming 48th birthday people reacted with shock, saying they thought I was in my early 30s!!!

People are responding to me so differently than in the recent past. At first I thought it was the weight loss itself. But I'm coming to realize that there has been a shift.

I don't just *look* like a different person: I have become a different person!

My spark is back.

My own perceptions are changing as a result, and the way others perceive and react to me has shifted as well. I've barely dipped below the 200 pound mark--in other words, still very overweight in most people's books--but this aliveness that is growing and shining through is blinding people to my physical "flaws" and has them seeing ME for the first time in a very, very long time.

All I can say is, it's good to be back (and better than ever)!

Thank you again, Dr Fuhrman, for developing this lifesaving and life-giving nutritional plan, and sharing it with the world for less than $10/copy.

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VALERIEMAHA 9/17/2013 7:47PM

    I am SO inspired by your story.

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    That's wonderful! Thanks for sharing! emoticon

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HLTHYRNRMOM 7/28/2013 5:46PM

    emoticon so great!! Great blog too!

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MICKEYH 7/28/2013 4:34PM

    I know exactly what you means. When you are eating clean and healthy, you feel the same. Nothing taste better then healthy feels. Me too, finally I feels like myself again.
It is not surprising that you feels you've become different person and better then ever.
Congratulations on your transformation to brand new you.
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DS9KIE 7/28/2013 3:12PM

    Fruits and veggie make you feel emoticon

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Random: Silbia Han

Friday, July 26, 2013

I have a complicated belief system about random events. What it boils down to is that everything is connected, and therefore if you pick something that resonates with you and follow it for long enough, it will lead you where you need to go. Or take you off into another new and amazing direction you might never have known about otherwise. So I've developed a practice of doing random searches from time to time with phrases that "speak" to me.

Today that phrase was "sinking into your body" because it's an experience that I love myself, and figured that if I have the experience then others must too...

Anyhow, on that random note, my search led me to the Facebook page--and then the SoundCloud page--of a young songwriter who is VERY talented and deserves to be heard!

soundcloud.com/silbiahan

  
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UZA77777 7/26/2013 10:05PM

    Thanks for pointing out the link was broken, Mickey... no membership is required to listen to her music on this link though (just a broken link). And I've fixed it now.

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MICKEYH 7/26/2013 10:02PM

    Thanks for sharing. I am not member of soundcloud so I count listen from the link you've poted here. But I went to YouTube myself and listen her song. It was great. I used to play guitar when I was in high school...yeah long time ago,,, but I remember it is not easy to play guitar and sing same time at least for me.lol))) it brought me some nostalgic memory.(*^^*)
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How I Did It....

Monday, July 22, 2013

People ask me how I successfully stayed faithful to my program, Eat to Live, during these last five months--particularly during the transitioning from a SAD diet to a highly restrictive plant-based diet that so many struggle with.

The simple answer is: I made a commitment to myself: To my health. To my future. To ME.

Keep in mind that people are not TRULY committed to something until their actions and choices consistently back up their "intentions" (wishful thinking and impressive mission statements do not make anything happen).

So I had to envision what my commitment was going to look like in the form of my own actions and choices, and hold a picture in my head of The Map (where I am, where I want to go, and how to get there).

To that end, during the weeks I was transitioning--before I began my Eat to Live "Six Week Challenge"--I gathered information and ideas by reading blogs, watching videos, and interacting online with others who had already started doing E2L.

It did not take long for me to figure out that people eating even "just a little bit" of off-plan foods during their Six Week Challenge were unlikely to get the same amazing results as those who followed it "perfectly".

They also never truly detox, or win the battle over food addictions (giving in to them), so it is an ongoing struggle throughout their first six weeks and even after.

So I meditated upon the notion of committing for six weeks to “100% by the book,” and how that would look.

However, I still had "Cop Out Me" to contend with.

"Cop Out Me" is that part of me who wants things to be easy and effortless, with no real sacrifices. "It's all just too hard, too much, it will take too long." That part of me wants to eat off-plan foods because they smell and/or taste good (or--more often than not--satisfy some emotional need in a superficial, immediate-gratification sort of way).

That part of me wants to pretend the high calorie, low nutrient foods snuck in here and there don't really count, aren't really going to matter in the long run... or are just too difficult give up.

(This is why I track every EVERY single thing I put into my mouth, every single day, to keep myself honest and aware of the choices I'm making, good or bad... because I have a lifetime habit of kidding myself when it comes to food.)

Once I decided I could do this for six weeks, I did not allow that "Cop Out Me" to take over again even when she screamed and threw temper tantrums. Even when she grabbed a big handful of something and shoved it in my mouth when I wasn't paying attention. I just spit it back out, reminding myself that the Six Week Challenge was a short-term commitment to myself and my health, to SEE ... just to see... what amazing results might be in store for me, too, if only I remained true to myself. And to Dr Fuhrman's nutritional advice.

No one was forcing this upon me. It was a commitment to myself: The Real Me.

"Real Me" sees the long-term big picture of my Life, not just my immediate wants, needs, gains, and losses.

"Real Me" recognizes that the choices I make today are, in fact, SHAPING my future. In order to get the future I want, I need to make the appropriate choices to take me there, not the choices that left me dangling from a cliff for more than a decade!

"Real Me" puts my health and true happiness before everything else, including financial concerns and/or what smells so good and tempting at the moment. Or sad, bored, lonely, anxious, antsy I'm feeling (because feelings are fleeting things and not something to base life or health decisions upon).

"Real Me" recognizes that the key to happiness is radiant good health; because without one's health, nothing else in life is as enjoyable.

And the fact that I've been abusing my body for so long is the VERY reason it is SO important that I give it excellent nutrition and maintenance from here on out. Because if I do not....

"Cop Out Me" already robbed me of more than a fifteen years of my life, health, and sense of well-being. Doing things "Cop Out Me's" way nearly destroyed me.

So when, as I move through this new lifestyle that I began five months ago, I realize that "Cop Out Me" is fighting for control again, "Real Me" steps forward and cuts her off.

That’s the dance.

My commitment keeps me strong, until I have a period of temptation, or a bad day, or a series of poor choices that reawaken addiction behaviors... then Real Me needs to step in and contend with Cop Out Me.

Because my HEALTH and my FUTURE are far more important to me than whatever might stumble across my path and trigger an “I want” response!

Besides, I feel so wonderful when I’m eating 100% by the book... and drained when I eat things that are detrimental to my health. It is easy, in that sense, to revert to the healthier options.

And to make choices that shape the tomorrow I WANT to be living.

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REBIRTHDIVA 7/22/2013 4:34PM

    your blog is very inspiring! keep up the good work! amazing! emoticon emoticon

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MICKEYH 7/22/2013 10:09AM

    What a encouraging blog!! Thank you for posting it. You are a true example of great successes in ETL challenge and the life challenges. You've won the battle and still doing great. So proud of you. And so true about what you posted in here. I've just completed my first run of ETL 6 weeks plan and just posted blog about it. And i did great on my challenge. But same time, I felt I could done better. I shall follow your shadow and discover more of " true me". (*^^*)

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55WALKER 7/22/2013 7:34AM

    "Keep in mind that people are not TRULY committed to something until their actions and choices consistently back up their "intentions" (wishful thinking and impressive mission statements do not make anything happen)."
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MAGGIEVAN 7/22/2013 3:47AM

    Great! Thanks for sharing because a lot of people can learn from your blog. For people who are obese there will always be this struggle. I hate it when people say they fell of the wagon, because it is their life they are talking about and there simply no wagon. What it is, is delayed health. More chance for illnesses, lack of energy and vitality and a shorter life span. Congrats with your mental agility to take on Cop out me as so often that is just another bad habit. I am so proud of what you have achieved.

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WEARINGTHIN 7/22/2013 2:11AM

    Sounds great if it's working for you. Glenn

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